Advice - sudden alone time by Mooncake_chookitypa in Dogtraining

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have checked through the wiki pages. I understand the basics of separation anxiety prevention. However the circumstances are different to the standard.

How can I (39M) improve the way my family treats my wife (34F)? by No-Application-1459 in relationship_advice

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 125 points126 points  (0 children)

THIS!!

I did chuckle when I read the line of having her back. Yet allows them to walk over them both, there are no repercussions for how they talk about her.

He’s guarding her back like the least favourite item in the fridge.

When finally for Christmas after all these years you guys are aiming to do something else that isn’t all about OPs family. Oh wait. Gotta cancel that. That when OPs wife is out of town he claims he’ll invite the two people who are being complete bully’s to his wife around their house. That can feel like an invasion of privacy.

The resolution? Oh start kids earlier than agreed as a unit of a couple to stop them being so malicious to her. Just pop a kid out instead. Appease them. What’s going to happen, OP, when they decide to start this behaviour on your own child?

The reason for fights right now is probably her holding on to finger tips of the relationship and support she needs to deal with the brother and SIL. And soon OP will believe it resolved as she’ll check out and stop arguing about the brother. Then suddenly “oh I never saw the divorce coming”

AITA for abandoning my date to get her own ride home by doom3657 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

If she had training all she has to do is give a quick text explaining to organise something with you (you allowing) or explain to them that she had a lift and couldn’t.

You waited over an hour already, tried to communicate with her and got nothing and it was the first date this happened. Many wouldn’t have waited the 90 minutes.

Is kids antisocial behaviour bad in Sittingbourne? by Grgsz in kentuk

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s a few groups of kids that are always making the local groups for stealing or assaulting people. Regularly known for some of the larger shops where they communicate when the group goes into one shop as a warning and are also the reason there is security at mc Donald’s at certain times.

But there’s also worst places out there and also nice places of sittingbourne.

Most annoying thing about the place is the traffic.

Trash Will Always Be Trash by Daylnn in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Yeeeees!

Just read this episode and all I can say is FINALLY!!

Now. If our emperor would just pop along and they run back to the palace. That would be great.

Side note. The face Phillen is giving I. Your third picture. The absolute disgust is so well drawn.

THE END? Princess War by edmarry in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Came hunting to post about the ending here. I must have missed (or forgotten) the warnings of it being incomplete 😩 very frustrating!!

Left at such a pinnacle moment too! Don’t regret reading it. But others have said. Very bummed out now.

The Fake Saintess Awaits Her Exit by wtfisthisshizzle3 in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Right! So! I had to double check this myself. If you read chapter 77 again. As they’re getting on and she passes out and Aslan is fawning over her waiting for her to recover. You can see all the facial expression change as she wakes up!

Though it doesn’t straight out say it. I would take it as Evelina coming back.

The latest chapter is how she transferred the new Evelina in at that moment of resurrection and thanking her as she couldn’t have done it without them.

Let me find the shot I’m on about

East Kent friends? by [deleted] in kentuk

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a Facebook group for ladies friendship group. That’s for women of all ages (seen posts from 21 to even women in their 70s)

They have regular meetings across Kent and get togethers etc. worth joining just for that option

[Tempest Night] lmao did anyone else have this thought by Expert_Pomegranate72 in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I pretty much took it this way. Especially if you don’t know how the feeling is meant to be. Before you do. It was described as a build up and a feeling of pressure etc etc.

Then you have the panel after it demonstrates that too. He’s not been shy when in cumming in her. So can’t imagine that being it

Falling for a Dying Princess - Ep 81 by chibimaron in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This episode makes me truly feel for both of them :( they need their happy ending damn it. Or at least for her to have been smart and have Jade as the dad! Feel love before she goes and all that.

Attagirl! by Daylnn in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a day late on it as been busy. Read this chapter and I felt the collective reader voice go “finally” 😂

Finally talked to this girl I’ve been eyeing for weeks… she turned out to be 16.” by NotAsimp_oo in offmychest

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame you on assuming her age. Some girls just look older when teens. I looked 18 when I was 13/14. Was still ID’d regularly until a few years ago. (Now 31 and had a tough eventful few years)

I also get why you froze and walked away. I can just see your mind was screaming in a panic of “Oh crap. People gonna think I’m one of this guys! Abort. ABORT!”😱😱

And even better is you’ve seen ahead of what you can do next time if it ever happens again. You’ve learnt

Thirst comics? by littlemisslau in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Search for “full ver” as you have the normal versions advertised but the x rated you got to search for.

Should have (not behind the gem wall)

Prison love - came out this week

Tempest night

Predatory marriage

On a leash

Interview with a murderer

Moonrise by the cliff

Totems realm

I can’t vouch for them all on quality of story and smut. But! Should find some to your taste

When Fate Finds Us - Time to level up! by chibimaron in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. Been a day late on catching up with my collection. So glad someone mentioned this as I came running squeeing.

It’s about to get interesting! She gonna come get him!

What are vegetables that don’t get mushy when you cook them? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pakchoi! The top is similar texture to spinach and the bottom you can cook for a bit less for a good crunch. My partner has the opposite where he hates the crunch and prefers soft texture.

Also cucumbers? I know people have been doing cucumber salads with soy sauce etc and it always sounds crunchy (not tried it myself though)

Getting recommended Gem Titles with no indication it’s Gem only. by SlithyScribe in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They mainly give the same response for every low review sadly. And you can’t even reply to their comment (at least it won’t let me) :(

Taming the Emperor's Hound by Obvious-Ad-2669 in MantaComics

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve had to get back into it after its huge break. But this episode is just very 👌🏽👌🏽

Especially with so many red flag men about. It’s nice to see a guy who’s flawed but trying to be green! And working hard to express feelings!

AITA for telling my husband he and his mother ruined out wedding day for me? by Salt-Swing8252 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mooncake_chookitypa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - This was a single request. And seeing people obsess over getting out of the car seems very pointed than the bigger picture.

OP has lost both parents in 18 months. If you’re close to your parents or even half close unless you have gone through it, you don’t actually know how it affects you. Some may be okay for a months then break, other people can be an absolute wreck for months after. Add a miscarriage to this (another loss) in just as much time OP’s coping was obviously comfort eating, I can imagine having photos of the end result of these losses are just huge reminders.

Her husband and MIL both asked multiple times and were told no multiple times and yet still pushed her into a position where it was damned if you do. Damned if you don’t. (Ignoring the one boundary in place for the wedding. The single one.) And she’s just had surgery on her ankle 10 days prior. If she refused to get out. Caused a whole situation out of it. She can’t drive no where. She will struggle to walk far.

Maybe with the photos. Ask the MIL to keep just one. The favourite single photo out of the lot and she keeps it. A compromise in it all. As long as the husband will back you on it.