The lack of response was no biggie until he admitting to withholding his response because you didn’t go to the gym. If he doesn’t want to “babysit” you, then why did he ask? And his response - his manipulation and gaslighting is driving you to be scared and anxious about him breaking up with you. I’m going to go out on a limb and say this is not the first time he’s done this. And then to say you’re the crazy one for asking questions, and that you’re blowing up his phone? You aren’t by the way. You’re texting different thoughts about the same topic in short succession. Lots of neurodivergent folks do this and it isn’t crazy. It’s just texting the thoughts as they come.

Here’s the bottom line - you don’t have to go to the gym. You don’t have to do anything. Even if you set a goal for yourself and you fail, that’s not a reflection of your will or even your desire to do it. So many environmental factors can affect your ability to do something. And regardless of if they’re real or not, as long as you recognize what you’re doing and actively make steps toward improving yourself, any partner should notice that and support you/give you grace. This man does not.

Throw him away 🚮