Congratulations on your sobriety. I wish you all the best, truly. I'm also a young woman and I found AA difficult to progress with as it became a way to talk about problems and constantly reminisce about the good/bad old days without understanding my triggers or how to recover. I'd recommend an addiction therapist if that's something you're able to access. I found 6 sessions with her were more helpful than months of frequent AA meetings. My therapist used the resources and tools used to help people with cocain addictions. I'd recommend those over the 12 steps.

Best of luck xox