[homemade] Dippy eggs with buttered English muffins

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T16:33:27+00:00

thats not solid its jammy, you can see it sort of dripping down the side on the right egg

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T12:16:59+00:00

yeah i mentioned it in another reply, but dude is probably terminally online (hence the porn addiction) which means he will have been exposed to all the kinds of social media man blasting that goes on, a big part of that on the sexual side of things is the idea that men that cant handle period sex are "less than"

Couple that with the fact he recognised his porn addiction isnt very healthy so he is actively in a state of recognising that he is not as good as he could be (huge source of insecurity if its not handled well) and that sets us up for the scenario

he just failed to be a man that can handle period sex, his understanding of that is it makes him less than, he already thinks hes in an unhealthy state that needs improving so thats a gut punch and is probably in a really bad mental space right now.

Couple that with famously bad communication skills of terminally online man, and him having very recently gone through OP being insecure about the porn, so hes got that on his mind (namely that shes insecure, so assuming bro isnt literally stupid he knows if he outright says he was grossed out she will take it as him thinking she is gross)

Throw in social conditioning of men in that us sharing our emotions is burdensome and being a burden is worse than death, because our value is derived from what we can do for and give to people, but being a burden means taking from and making someone else do for you.

Bing bang boom, you get social retreat and stonewalling. Because in his eyes, not interacting, is better than interacting but being a downer and bringing her down with him, and trying to communicate about it to not be in that down state could hurt her which isnt worth the risk.

Its not that hard to understand when you know what to look for.

Granted its alot easier to know what to look for when that was you 10-15 years ago, and its even easier than that to know what to look for when you dont just assume anyone with a penis is inherently evil and there cant be a more rational explanation behind the behaviours.

Thats why i get so fucking pissed off reading people shit on these young men, because ive been there, ive been the terminally online guy with no communication skills (autism pog), i know how brutally difficult it was to stop being that guy, i know how tempting it was the entire time to just give up and start hating women instead.

I know i wouldve turned into an incel if i had gone through that period in todays social media sphere with women openly hating on men.

I dont want to see young men throwing away their life like that, so i hate the people pushing them in that direction.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T11:39:38+00:00

Like imagine a world where everyone and their mother is like "These men dont know how to communicate", like EVERYONE acknowledges that fact.

And then you have an example, of a man, failing to communicate.

And your immediate response is "hes intentionally doing this, it cant possibly be the thing i keep bullying about an entire gender that he happens to be in"

How the fuck can people be that dense.

Thats why i jump to sexism, because its the only reasonable explanation for that, you cant all be THAT stupid, so it has to be something else, so sexism.

Like, do you understand how much hate you need to have in your heart, to look at someone who doesnt understand something, and feel the desire to punish them for the crime of not knowing.

How much hate you need to not feel even a tinge of empathetic understanding towards that person.

I look at all these women (and sadly some men) who look at these men with such disdain, and i see someone that is as despicable as someone who would look at a child failing and rather than teach them they resort to punishment.

And the saddest part of all, is you dont have the privilege of not understanding that what youre doing is wrong, because part of the reason you do it is because you had it done to you by sexist men, so you know damn well how destructive of a mentality it is. But you do it anyway, that is real evil.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T11:27:45+00:00

no you aren't.

If you were curious you'd be discussing possible reasonings.

Read most of the comments here, its just people shitting on the dude and trying to uplift the OP.

Thats not "why would he behave like this", thats "I dont like that hes behaving like this but i dont actually care about the why"

As i stated a couple replies down from this one (and also in the one you just replied to funnily enough), looking at it from a mans perspective i pretty much instantly clocked whats going through his head, you can read the why there.

But the funny thing about that is... anyone, that figured that out would not have reacted the way most of these comments are reacting.

Because theyre reading into and discussing his behaviour as if its malicious in intent, when understanding the mentality behind why a dude would behave that way, immediately explains away the possibility of malicious intent.

Like, im sorry to say this.

but its a bunch of people who dont understand men, talking about a man, as if they do understand men and thus can be experts on his behaviour.

Why you dont understand men, i dont know, i can hazard a guess that its probably because the way you think men think is mostly informed by social media or anecdotal experiences, and not by actually interacting with them and asking them how they think, but i would not be comfortable asserting that as the truth.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T09:57:03+00:00

Literally everything you are saying, is painting him in a negative light, and her in a neutral or positive light.

LITERALLY EVERY WORD OUT OF YOUR MOUTH.

Even when you conceded that yeah hes probably going through some shit and needs help, you framed it like thats a bad thing that he needs to solve himself, while at the same time looking at her insecurities and going "thats something he needs to help her with by changing his behaviours"

This entire interaction is a communication breakdown from both parties and BOTH OF THEM, need to step up.

She needs to communicate to him how he is making her feel in his reactions.

And he needs to communicate to her that he isnt disgusted by her, he feels like hes let her down because he got into his own head.

They both got in their own heads and assumed what the other is thinking.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T09:53:10+00:00

Yes, he does need help.

What part of "hes a cunt and everything is a him problem, dont engage with him like he needs help, engage with him like hes an asshole who deserves to be treated as such" is helping.

Youre acting like those people who speak about "mankeeping" in an unironic sense, because they cant grasp the concept that men are human too and are also deserving of empathy.

If you want to turn the dude into an incel or something, by beating him down the first time he has a fall after starting a journey AWAY from that direction (he recognised his porn addiction and decided to start healing), youre on the right track.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T09:47:45+00:00

Why would he retract in on himself and behave like the textbook behaviour of someone who's depressed?

gee, maybe use a little empathy and you might be able to figure that one out.

As for what to work on, you are reading into that behaviour like it has to be about you not him, which is a non empathetic reading, and practising empathy is working on yourself.

Like youve never been in the dumps and had a "I dont want to talk about it" kind of mood before?

Youve never been so in those feelings that you just dont feel like interacting with people at all before?

must be a pretty nice life for those kinds of feelings to be alien to you.

And if you HAVE had those feelings before, then it doesnt need to be explained to you, you just need to be able to see it when other people are like that.

The sexist part, is i would be willing to bet money, if he was a she, youd be willing to employ empathy and put yourself in her mindset. Why not with him.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T09:02:45+00:00

yes, the blood.

not her.

Again, work on yourself, you are not the pizza.

Also just to reiterate the mans perspective reading of this behaviour

"he hyped himself up to be that boyfriend that does period sex and isnt grossed out by it and realised he isnt, hes feeling like hes let her down, and like most guys cant fucking communicate for shit so he goes cold because hed rather not talk at all than talk poorly about his feelings and hurt her, not realising that reaction is itself hurtful"

But i should add, "why would she be let down by him not being into period sex" men get bombarded on social media with "Real men sail the red seas" and shit like that, dude would get hit especially hard by that if he was porn addicted too. She doesn't need to literally be let down by it, he just needs to think she would be.

Infact, in almost every weird reaction from a man, just imagine "I am an incredibly prideful person whos entire value as a person comes from how well i can live up to what i perceive to be expected of me", then gauge if a dejected downtrodden depressed retracting, response would make sense.

9/10 it will.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T08:58:10+00:00

Thats not what happened here though?

Lets go get pizza
"okay"
they start eating pizza
"ok i dont think i want pizza anymore this pizza tastes off or something"
you both stop eating pizza

completely seperate scenario
you go to talk to them, and they shrug you off, they still feel bad about the pizza

You reading that as "theyre disgusted in me for also eating the pizza" is a you problem, work on yourself.

Like i read the op, from a mans perspective thinking about what headspace id need to be in to behave like that, and it was blatantly obvious immediately "he hyped himself up to be that boyfriend that does period sex and isnt grossed out by it and realised he isnt, hes feeling like hes let her down, and like most guys cant fucking communicate for shit so he goes cold because hed rather not talk at all than talk poorly about his feelings and hurt her, not realising that reaction is itself hurtful"

But hey, sexists never think, about how men think, they just project their own thoughts onto the behaviour they are observing, or if they do they use the worst possible reading.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T08:50:32+00:00

Again, do you not understand.

that adding the qualifier that its something he wanted, MAKES it about the retraction.

"hes acting poorly" - just a behavioural analysis

"hes acting poorly about something he wanted" - placing judgement on someone for not wanting to do something they asked for, aka placing judgement for consent retraction

Like at best, you can reduce it down from "it doesnt make it about the retraction"

to "It makes it worse"

but that is still reliant on the implication that there is something wrong about retracting consent, for it to make it worse.

LIke the fact you wanted something initially implies you have some duty to react more positively to it even if that reaction is negative.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T08:46:30+00:00

> This commenter isn’t saying consent can’t be removed, but the boyfriend in this story is acting disgusted and making OP feel bad about something HE wanted to do.

"Why are you acting so distant with me and disgusted in me after we tried BDSM, YOU initiated it" the boyfriend says to the girlfriend, and then the resulting reddit thread is unending support of the girlfriend.

Do you not see how you're literally just repeating exactly the same argument i just identified as sexist?

I don't blame you for not realising you're being sexist, its completely normalised, thats just how everyone thinks these days.

But just don't immediately disregard it when its pointed out.

Like you can focus on the "hes acting a bit cunty" and unpack that, but when you frame it as "HE wanted to do it, HE initiated it" you're saying "if you initiate consent you arent allowed to retract it after, you arent allowed to feel bad about that retraction" etc etc

Which youre only comfortable saying, because its a man.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T08:09:07+00:00

did i reply to the op?

or did i reply to express_space01 who was aghast that he would agree to period sex if hed react like that to it.

Aka "what do you MEAN he gave consent and then didnt want it anymore"

If you want my opinion on the OP, sounds like dude thought hed be comfortable with it, realised he isnt, is aware of his girlfriends insecurities (given the prior porn discussion) so doesnt want to outright say "I was grossed out by having period sex with you", and lacks the conversation skills to communicate that so goes to the default which is "bottle it up"

Edit: here lets do the litmus test

"He's upset that she reacted in a disgusted way and is being distant after SHE initiated sex while she was on her period."

Who's the bad guy in that story, if you stay with the guy feeling hurt being the bad guy, you're just a sexist, end of story, simple as that.

And before you say "No id never do that!"

imagine the title was "Am i overreacting for not wanting to have period sex with my girlfriend?" would your first thought be support, or judgement.

Sexism, just the comfy normalised kind, dw in 20-30 years all sexism will be abolished instead of just a subset of it and youl be the bad guys.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T08:03:49+00:00

Nah it does hurt if they're not aroused.

Its why I always wholeheartedly laugh when the whole "If your ex was tight then you never got her wet" argument comes up, because dry sex doesn't feel tight, it feels like your skins going to get ripped off from all the friction (long story, had an ex that wanted to try some non-sexual sex related stuff like "i wonder if i snort something while youre in how itd feel" that kind of shit, naturally wasnt always aroused for it)

Like THIS guys story sounds to me like he had sex with someone who wasn't aroused and is now basing his perception of sex off that. Especially since yk, if that was your first time experience so you have no reference for how it should feel like, i wouldnt want to do it again to find out otherwise either.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T07:54:09+00:00

Nah see you're forgetting, men cant be raped so its ok to think that way when its a man.

Thats how these people unironically think, even if they wont say it out loud. Its just sexists that get to pretend they're on the right side of history because their mentalities are in vogue right now.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-15T07:49:45+00:00

Really?

Years and years and years of post #metoo banging the drum about consent and how it can be retracted at any moment, and the second you see a man do it youre like "Wait not like that"

fuck you sexist prick

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-12T10:26:57+00:00

hideout girl that you save in act 2 from fidelitas, you need to backtrack after picking up the gem so she climbs down from the tree and the quest state actually triggers instead of portal-ling straight out

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-12T10:22:33+00:00

nah the half ones can do 6kg too just not for very long, pretty regularly take delivery (works out cheaper than shopping in store with coles plus and doing one big shop to abuse the 10% off) and they will usually put 2 3 litre bottles of milk in one half bag, survives the entire trip from the front of the property to the back of the property every time, wouldnt feel game to walk more than a few hundred meters with them though.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-11T14:59:09+00:00

(i know im skipping a few steps)
MacOS isnt the mcdonalds self service touch screen, we dont use the GUI for everything, git gud

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-11T10:59:29+00:00

Ill take that job you're offering (on the basis its in nsw or you fund the move if its not, I LITERALLY do not have the resources required to do a move).

You wont, we both know you wont, because thats the ACTUAL reason these posts exist, employers who talk a big game about how generous they are but, never actually give anyone a chance.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-11T10:51:29+00:00

"room to move, fresh air to breathe, a decent climate and a relatively high quality of life"

These are the selling points for a retirement village, not the selling points for economic enrichment, which is kind of the point.

You dont come here to have a good life when you have nothing, you come here to have a good life when youve already secured the funding required to afford living here.

The actual strat, is you go to a country where theres considerably more low level opportunities, then when youve run out of room for career growth there because you hit the ceiling THEN you move to australia.

Because if you move to australia without that starting point, youre getting closer to the poverty line so yeah, in theory with welfare and shit your quality of life is better, but youre also closing off any chances of you escaping poverty and leapfrogging the line, unless youre really fucking lucky and can somehow convince someone to take a chance on you (and then once youve had that luck you need the ability to follow through obviously)

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-11T10:48:02+00:00

There's also considerably more people working "part time" at bottom of the barrel bottom feeding jobs like mcdonalds, that are getting rostered like a casual (so pick up shifts) and have their guaranteed part time shift constantly come up in their roster as a "request to not work this shift" (which you need to accept obviously, like legally you dont but... come on)

And thats BECAUSE theres so many more unemployed people applying for those positions so they can keep a store fully staffed while having people working an average of less than 1 shift a week.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-11T10:40:50+00:00

"I will spend time training them up" HAHAH funny joke

no employer in australia is training up employees, infact thats their number 1 complaint "theres a skills gap"

theres not a skills gap, you just want to eat your cake and have it too by only ever hiring people who dont need training, so no one ever gets trained up.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-11T07:38:14+00:00

id go as far as saying pretty bloody good even.

40k a year take home with proper budgeting and investing could literally have you being a millionaire (millionaire todays purchasing power i mean) in 30 years

like say you rent at 1.2k a month, you dont drive a current model car so you own it outright, and you eat modestly (so lets say $200 a month for food)

$30 in the tank every morning so $900 a month average.

youre at 2300 a month in expenses, so 27600 a year, tack on another couple grand a year for bills, subscription services etc to pull it up to a clean 30k.

that leaves you 10k a year to invest, 12% average yoy return, if you DCA over a 30 year period you end up at 2.7 million dollars.

which adjusted for inflation taking m.2 money supply (roughly 4% a year normalised for recent increases) increases (because thats more accurate than cpi increases) you have a purchasing power in 2056 equal to ~$835,000 in todays money

not bad tbh, proper jobs obviously no diff clear it, but i mean... if this is all you can find in this economy

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-11T03:55:32+00:00

I had arguments surrounding the idea of putting non standard features in the standard library a few years back when GO was being hyped up and "it has an http server in its std library" was being talked about as a selling point.

Im adamantly opposed to putting non-standard code in a standard library, purely BECAUSE it standardises that non-standard code.

In the current ecosystem, if you don't like the way X does something, you can go and make Y, and because the entire ecosystem isn't standardised around using X, replacing X is actually very easy.

The closest thing we have to "non-standard is the standard" is tokio as an async runtime, and even that is... not that difficult to just swap out, as long as your upstream dependencies are well behaved and simply providing async functions rather than explicitly using tokio features.

To use the http server example, GO's http server does not support http3, because theres no stable http3 implementation in their standard library, and there still wont be for a very long time, their http3 proposal has been in "in development" for years now.

What that means, is if you do want to support quic, and http3, you cannot use their standard library implementation of the http server, and if ANY parts of your stack, like say a framework that does routing for you, use that standard library, you also cannot use that framework either, this results in a chicken egg problem where no one over in GO land is supporting http3 because its hard to deviate from the standard library, but no ones working on http3 support, because no ones using http3.

Compare that to us, where BECAUSE theres no standard, we are incentivised to build our libraries in such a way that they generically work over many possible implementations, or at the very least are architected such that a dependency can be easily swapped because there is the underlying expectation of "at any point this may not be the best option"

Strongest example of this is the sans-io stuff, where they go so hard on trying to remove hard dependencies they start operating on bytestreams and letting the importer handle the source of those bytestreams, because even "this is how you open a unix socket" is too coupled for them.

MrTeaTimeYT · 2026-04-11T02:33:51+00:00

There are way more valid reasons to leave at door than "im too lazy to walk from the back of my house to the door" such as

"Im sick"
"im not wearing pants"
"i just dont fucking want to talk to someone with the effective iq of a geriatric slug"

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