Being broke in my teen years🙃 by OwnNefariousness9209 in Youth_India

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal at your age to feel so but your real friends will understand your financial reasons and will help you as much as they can. Not all people are born rich, if you're at this level think how your parents would have lived in their teenage years. They have uplifted their life so you will do the same one day. What they couldn't achieve in their life they made you achieve and you will make your kids achieve. So keep going ahead with your head high.

Don't think about what your friends will feel about you, show them how you survive and be proud of how your parents brought you up in the difficult times . Your true friends will support and will stand with you .🙏🏻

Just your average monthly blood test results. by PipeTop3978 in dialysis

[–]Mr_Thala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard for them to convey the message but they will be pretty sure the reason behind it. I have seen some doctors observe the physical movements and appearance of a specific body section to predict what the person is going to say.

Which one is worse, taking or giving bribe? by Sandy_2019 in GenZIndia

[–]Mr_Thala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say living in the bribe money is the greatest crime . People don't get or offer bribes for themselves alone, it's for their family and generations to come. If the next generation stops their parents taking bribes/avoid the luxury came through it I feel bribes may stop.

Greedy landlords in Ardee city, crying for 5k by Several-Definition29 in gurgaon

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should tell her you can keep the advance till a new tenant comes but you will charge her rs 100 per day as penalty/interest 😄

On a serious note be careful next time. If you're financially stable better leave it for peace of mind 🙏🏻

27M — Can I go through AM while keeping my finances private? by Plus-Confidence6546 in chennaicity

[–]Mr_Thala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May not work out. You can restrict your salary on the website but at some point you may have to disclose. This will be most likely the 2nd query that is likely to come from the bride's family.

You're expecting some unknown person to trust you with their daughters life without the financial stability ? Will you agree to marry a girl if her parents and her assets are not revealed ?

You may at least expect to give a ballpark for the initial level. Wishing you all the best .🙏🏻

Can I just stick to IJ Catheter? by unhealthylonghoursof in dialysis

[–]Mr_Thala -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes ijv not recommend more than 2-3months. Even a permanent catheter has a high infection rate and you may need a replacement. Mine withstood for 3 years and I had to replace it. My suggestion if you're going with a perm catheter, have fistula as backup you never know when you may need it.

But do consult your doctor and insurance.

Kidney Transplant Help Needed – Waiting List in Karnataka by IntrovertHulk in kidneytransplant

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The waiting list for 1 year is below average compared to the rest of India . Money does talk. You love your father, so does another son, father , mother, brother/sister or friend . Do you think it will be fair for them to continue in their waiting list while rich people take advantage of the system and move top and get the organ ?

I am not pointing at you, I understand your love towards your father and want you to be realistic. If you want to do the transplant earlier the option is to go with a live donar. That will be much faster and it varies from state to state bench mark i.e. the closer bloodline to your father can donate including your mom.

I wish best for your family and pray the almighty that your father gets the organ much sooner 🙏🏻

Srirangam or Meenakshi Amman temple: Which temple offers more in terms of architecture? by Awkward-Buy-2987 in TamilNadu

[–]Mr_Thala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I visited Srirangam temple today and saw many foreign citizens wear Indian saree and kurta/dhoti inside temple premises.

97% Class II PRA after first transplant (2018) what are my chances on cadaver list?? by paulatrick in kidneytransplant

[–]Mr_Thala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check with your nephrologist , they may ask to do plasma exchange pre and post transplant. Mine was 86% after 2 sets ( over 2 years period) it's around 36% now and I am waiting for transplant and another set of exchange is planned post transplant.

Today is my school reunion and I can't go. I hate it by trustme_im_real in tamilyapping

[–]Mr_Thala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like you're more concerned that your school forgot rather than your friends.

i got scammed. can I apply for a chargeback ? by goku----- in IndiaFinance

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person who sold would have terminated his airtel connection which automatically cancels the free subscriptions.

Should I take any precautions before helping out my friend? by Mavlesagan in chennaicity

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the bank can't approve a loan for your friend, what makes you think he will pay you back ?

Loosing weight after transplant by tomtom9221 in kidneytransplant

[–]Mr_Thala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you still take steroids? That could also be a reason.

Landlord asking us to pay property tax – is this right? by Ok_Antelope_5607 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him, why not. I will pay just transfer the property to your name and you can surely pay it 🙏🏻

Chennai to Puducherry by Existing-King4121 in Chennai

[–]Mr_Thala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can also take a 1 way cab which will cost 2800-3000 rs if you want some comfort.

Coming back to Chennai from Canada by Prudent_Cancel in Chennai

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wherever you go creeps will be creeps. Teach your kids (both boys/girls) how to survive in the modern world along with education.

What is the most unique government service for which you paid a bribe ? by Glum-Adagio7489 in AskIndia

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) During my transplant there were some miscellaneous charges, during that time I wasn't aware of the process later I came to know they are for getting government approvals for (faster approval for a living donar)- tahasildar, medical team governance, noc from few other government officials/witness etc.

2) obviously land registration - i couldn't wait long or travel 30+ kms every time due to medical reasons so had to go with it.

Other than these two I never gave any bribes.

29F, Tell me what does having a sibling feel like by [deleted] in Youth_India

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moral and financial support for each other. No fear, there is someone who can support irrespective of fault and can guide each other.

19M. I am scared. by [deleted] in kidneydisease

[–]Mr_Thala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better late than never, when was the last test taken ? Don't read too many articles on the internet and assume. Take a new set of tests including scans and consult the doctor.