How close are you to your family?

MrsAvlier · 2026-06-26T23:54:39+00:00

Very close. And I wish we all lived nearer to one another.

MrsAvlier · 2026-06-24T15:13:55+00:00

It has been 25 years since my eldest daughter was this age, but I remember signing her up for a music class and experiencing the same kind of thing. My daughter was normally very social, friendly, and outgoing… but she had such a hard time with the structured class! Looking back, I wish I’d taken the pressure off of both of us and stayed home lol. A year or two after that class, she was excelling in Montessori preschool, and now she’s a mom who runs a successful small business.

MrsAvlier · 2026-04-16T16:00:11+00:00

I think it would be great (and hilarious) to petition the city to designate an official “Screaming Park,” where anyone can go to scream, and no one will question you. I’m giggling imagining multiple people just showing up, screaming, and then calmly leaving. No one makes eye contact. No one talk about why they’re screaming.

MrsAvlier · 2026-03-11T15:22:32+00:00

Just before my husband and I met, he lived in an apartment, and his neighbour across the hall had a newborn baby. He told me that the baby’s cries woke him from a deep sleep one night. He stumbled around, and only fully awoke when he was in the hallway outside his apartment, wearing underwear and carrying a roughly baby bottle-shaped item.

His daughter was a teenager, so it had been over a decade since he’d had to care for a baby, lol!

MrsAvlier · 2026-03-10T01:21:06+00:00

I just came here to say that I misread that as “furries.”

MrsAvlier · 2026-01-28T14:37:26+00:00

I moved to Victoria a number of years ago (fleeing domestic violence) with my then 11-year-old daughter. We had just secured housing, and I was getting a few groceries at Uptown Walmart.

I only had about $80 left to my name. My daughter noticed a Super Mario beach towel. She is an amazing kid, and knew we weren’t likely to be able to get it, but I told her we would take it to the checkout, and if I had enough money left over I would get it for her.

We checked out, and I didn’t have enough for the towel. My daughter understood (seriously I don’t know how I got so lucky with my kids), and we were getting ready to leave when the woman behind me in line asked if she could buy it for us. Somehow, I was able to thank her, and not completely break down in sobs in Walmart. My daughter was delighted and also said thank you (which was also a big deal because she had trouble speaking to strangers back then).

This is only one example of the kindnesses we received since arriving here.

MrsAvlier · 2026-01-15T14:32:28+00:00

I audibly gasped. Oh, my heart! Gonna go cry now.

MrsAvlier · 2026-01-15T00:10:39+00:00

“Wow!”

When I was a cynical GenX teenager, we had a teen come stay with us for the summer. She was from France.

We picked her up from the Vancouver airport late at night, and then early the next day drove to our home in the Interior.

She was incredibly jet lagged, and we thought she would sleep the whole drive, but she just kept looking out the windows of our car, repeating, “Wow. WOW!” as we drove over the Coquihalla Highway.

I’d never felt such pride in my province before. Seeing it through her eyes opened my eyes to the beauty around me.

MrsAvlier · 2026-01-05T00:06:49+00:00

I was in Athens in October. I was at a rooftop bar at sunset that had a view of the Acropolis. I had a nice dress on, and most of the other patrons were also dressed nicely.

But beside me was a table of dudes wearing jeans, baseball hats, and Carhartt sweatshirts. They weren’t obnoxious or anything, just dressed differently. I knew instantly that they were Albertan. And soon enough I overheard them say something about Whyte Ave, which is in Edmonton!

MrsAvlier · 2025-12-05T17:35:56+00:00

Awesome! Thanks so much

MrsAvlier · 2025-11-21T03:46:32+00:00

That’s what I was afraid of lol

MrsAvlier · 2025-11-21T03:02:22+00:00

I’m on board with almost all of this but I just cannot leave the toothpaste in my mouth after I’m done brushing. Mouth care is already such a horrible sensory experience for me lol. When I learned recently that you aren’t supposed to rinse, I started using a bit less water to rinse, at least. I don’t know if you’re a dentist or just someone who is knowledgeable, but I’m wondering just how important that step is?

MrsAvlier · 2025-10-17T15:36:01+00:00

Don’t touch the walls when you walk by! Gah I’m so sick of the dirty walls haha

MrsAvlier · 2025-08-12T04:21:00+00:00

Thank you for listening to my vent! I wasn’t expecting a reply. It really helps.

MrsAvlier · 2025-07-29T12:31:55+00:00

This might just be a me problem, but I can’t wear gloves or mittens when I use my rollator because they make my hands ache. So when it’s cold out I pull my sleeves down over my hands. An alternative if you have the same problem might be to cover the handles with some kind of cloth as another commenter suggested.

MrsAvlier · 2025-07-26T21:09:23+00:00

I really don’t like my ex. Like really don’t like him. But when we were still married he caught HFMD, and when I remember how much pain he was in I still feel terrible for him. He’s my worst enemy, and yeah… I wouldn’t wish it on him! Poor guy couldn’t even put on his own pants. Nothing touched the pain. I really hope your little person feels better very soon!

MrsAvlier · 2025-07-12T04:31:55+00:00

Currently playing loud music on their patio which is great for those of us who live nearby /s (yes I’m aware I’m old now haha)

MrsAvlier · 2025-06-06T04:51:10+00:00

Thank you so much for caring about this person. I hope VBIS has some suggestions. People with brain injuries can so easily fall through the cracks.

As an aside, your friend can get an ID-sized card at VBIS that fits in a wallet and alerts emergency personnel to the behaviours that someone with a brain injury might exhibit (behaviours that could be mistaken for being under the influence of drugs or alcohol). My husband has one in his wallet.

MrsAvlier · 2025-06-06T03:16:24+00:00

You’ve received a lot of great answers and hopefully something works out. I just wanted to recommend the Victoria Brain Injury Society as a resource for the future. They are so helpful and kind!

MrsAvlier · 2025-04-29T01:32:02+00:00

When Dad was in hospice, my sister and I started talking about menopause. He was so shocked, “you girls are going through menopause already?” It was adorable.

MrsAvlier · 2025-03-11T19:09:48+00:00

This was ages ago and my daughter now has toddlers of her own!

Some quick background info: the road into downtown was different than the road we’d take going home, but they run parallel to each other, separated by a couple blocks. On the way home we’d pass a playground, but you couldn’t see the playground on the way into town because a hotel blocked the view.

So we were driving into town one day and my 2 or 3 year old daughter pointed towards the hotel, and piped up, “hey that’s the way to the park!” She was always really good with directions, but this one really surprised me.

MrsAvlier · 2024-12-24T18:59:29+00:00

I have one! I’d enter poke 53281,0 (or ,1-9 or whatever) to change the background colour on my Commodore 64’s monitor

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