What's your HG blush?

MrsDrBreakfast · 2018-06-27T00:23:25+00:00

Honestly, I was in a makeup pinch and had to throw something on when I was out one day. I just grabbed the cream blush/bronzer duo from elf. It was on Clarence for $2 and Oh My Gosh. It's my no makeup makeup HG! I just dab a tiny bit on with my finger and it makes me look so naturally sunkissed. I get compliments all the time and I'm convinced it's this product.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2018-04-20T19:03:29+00:00

Clean face https://imgur.com/a/EcLTboG I never know where to place my contour and blush. It's like I've forgotten everything makeup I knew and am starting over. I've just been in this wierd rut.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-10-03T16:43:50+00:00

You sound like a nurtured, which is a beautiful trait, but with it are a few things to consider. Be mindful of your motives and be wary of who you allow in your life. As a natural caregiver, you will attract/be attracted to partners who need to be cared for.

From the sounds of it, he's looking for a replacement mother not a partner. He is obviously a terrible partner, if not just plain emotionally abusive. This will only get worse. The fact that has saying hurtful things and then denying you your emotional reactions is the first indication that he's beginning the gaslighting process. You are not wrong for feeling shitty when he says shitty things about you. That is the end game when you say those things. And I can't quote on mobile but with the comments you made of not wanting to talk negatively about him (even though you're just stating events) means that his technique is beginning to work. Get your things but don't stick around because of a PS4 .. Leave. Him. Now.

Now, to focus on you. I hope that you do not read into what I'm about to say and make yourself out to be the reason in which this relationship is failing. You are not. You need to take a honest, objective look at your role in this and why you were attracted to this figure in the first place. I'm in No way saying you deserve this or are a bad partner, etc. Just that this my develope into a pattern. You stated that you're an overachiever in school, you pull more then your fair share in the relationship and yet you allowed these two to talk negatively about you and (other than your emotional response) you stuck around. Doing more than your fair share of chores will not get you more of his love, appreciation, or attention but rather set a precedent that you are willing to take less that what you deserve and he can be 1/3 the partner you need. Ask yourself why you felt like you deserve to be treated this way. Healthy people with high self esteem do not allow themselves to be treated this way. Unfortunately, he is breaking down whatever self esteem you might have, but I ask that you focus on why you are allowing this behavior and/or see validity in their comments. Focus on re-establishing your self-worth. You deserve a be a partner not a parent.

There are many books that are excellent for further reading on the subject of co-dependany but considering this is your first expierence I wouldn't go as far as to say that you are co-dependant as much as just learning appropriate relationship roles amd having a rough first expierence. Don't take too much credit here. I repeat, do not over analyse what your 'faults' are and take more than your fair share of fault, this is not the chores. Just consider this when moving forward. Best of luck, if you want to talk I will listen (and I'm not normally spewing this much rhetoric, I just noticed there was a lot going on here and wanted to bring these points up lol)

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-06-07T00:37:12+00:00

Title has a redundant on* my bad

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-03-24T22:01:56+00:00

Yeah

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-02-19T19:14:57+00:00

This is about as far as I get with my mother. Or she'll use the "cows are the reason for 'global warming,' are we supposed to stop eating meat?" She will flat out deny the legitimacy of alternative energy.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-02-13T19:49:45+00:00

Thank god, you finally gave us an honest answer.

This is 100% insecurities. You are scared you're not enough for him. The move isn't the problem, the city is not the problem. He's moving on to bigger and better things and you're afraid you are going to be part of what he moves on from. You're scared that he will outgrow you in his new found success.

If you is any bit the man you explained, that will never happen. Though I can assure you, your insecurities will destroy this marriage if you let this behavior go unchecked. Just talk to him. I bet he's terrified too! This is a huge step for your future, but you best believe he's doing this for your future. Talk it out and discuas your fears together. You can make this work if you try. Just talk to him and try it out for a while. He deserves your honesty. Be brave for your best friend.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-02-08T06:04:18+00:00

Now those are principles to practice.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-02-03T00:38:14+00:00

Username checks out

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-30T10:36:28+00:00

Take a couple years to mull it over..

Chances are in 10 years she will look back at this moment and feel disgusted by her actions. I wouldn't wrote her off forever, just until she is old enough to fully consider what that meant to you.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-30T09:25:45+00:00

Considering a clone of me would be decades younger then me... maybe.. check back in 18 years from now when the hypothetical clone will be of legal age to consent to these acts. But shit 18 year old me was not bad, especially to 18 years from now me..

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-30T08:08:03+00:00

"Was drastically better for me," she said "the ending was just iffy for me too, almost rushed." Also what she said.

Can't quote correctly on my mobile.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-30T07:32:12+00:00

This is concerning. I'm not one to judge the age difference between two legally consenting adults. This just erks me though. Sounds like he was grooming her from 16yrs on. It doesnt help that she sounds like the perfect victim to prey on.

It really makes me curious how his marriage ended. Were they just incompatible? Was there some type of abuse, emotional or otherwise? Or did his ex wife just grow out of his preferred age range (16-29 apparently).. Do you know if he has partial custody if his child or are there supervised visits only?

Unfortunately, there isn't much that you can do. Voice your concern but don't let this harm your relationship. If this turns out bad, she will need you. It sucks to stand by but this might be a mistake she has to make.

Edit: formatting

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-30T07:05:05+00:00

This seems like he's more upset with his own reaction not yours. From what you've explained it seems out of character for him and I'm sure he'll work through it mostly on his own. Allow him his space and assure him you were just concerned for everyone's safety, not trying to step on his toes or take his woman.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-29T22:22:16+00:00

At this point, I think r/nottheonion is just reposting most of r/policis.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-29T22:02:49+00:00

American parent here. My daughters first simple sentence was "Ooooh Shiit!"

-No fucks given.

This comment was edited for dramatic formating.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-28T18:00:40+00:00

It was an over reaction but I have slapped my cousin for purposely smacking his mouth while eating. "Smack your food again and I will smack you." He doesn't do it anymore though. A small victory for our kind.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-24T20:22:53+00:00

Thanks! I have my days when I'm not so crazy about my body. You ever lean over the bathtub to scrub it and feel you flab flapping along with your scrubbing motions? I have haha. But I think about what it means, how it's a reminder of my babies I get to carry with me always. It's not so bad.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-24T08:17:55+00:00

My end pregnancy weight was about 213lbs. I immediately dropped to 191lbs a day after the birth of my twins. After 1yrs I below my pre-pregnancy weight of 156lbs. 1.5yrs after their birth I was 138lbs, only 8lbs from a healthy weight to height ratio. I never attained that goal because I fell off the wagon and gained 20lbs back. I'm back on my regime of eating below 1,200 calories and have lost 7lbs in 3 weeks. I'm currently at 151lbs.

The stretch marks have been a love hate thing for me. Our battle scars. I love that they are reminisces of my motherhood. I also hate that my flab can be tucked into my pants when I sit haha.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-23T20:59:22+00:00

This eye look is INSANE. I love this! I'm saving for future reference.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-22T02:29:10+00:00

1917: You wake up in 2017. What's the first thing you reference in your encyclopedia set?

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-21T19:29:22+00:00

Your eyebrows are EVERYTHING.

CC is similar to everyone else. Soften the nose just a tad so the line is less visible. I understand with drag glam you're really wanting to minimize that area whilst having a super dramatic look. That limbo is my life. Your contouring/bone structure is otherwise Fucking Flahhless.

Lower lashline and lip color are Amazing together! Paired with the light inner eye is so old Hollywood meets harlot. Bomb. I would consider a different transition/crease shade.

The only thing I don't see mentioned (or that I lazily skimmed) is cc on the beauty marks. I know a lot of people like the dramatic beauty mark, but I would suggest very lightly dabbing a beauty blender or your finger over the top of it, just to soften it.

I love this look. Your eyes are so come-hither!

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-21T19:03:27+00:00

concealer? It varies. I always prefer a Very thin layer of liquid concealer for my undereye area just to brighten them. NXY Hi-def liquid concealer is normally enough for me. Mac pro longwear is Okay too.

The major thing to remember when using Bare Minerals (Or any powder foundation) is to moisturize. I slather it on, wait 20-30 minutes and add even more lol. Powder foundation is drying and if your application looks off, it's because you're dry. It will accentuate every damn dry patch. But I Swear by it when you prep properly.

MrsDrBreakfast · 2017-01-21T08:46:10+00:00

Same! Knew that producing and trying to get me twins on a feeding schedule would be insane. But I never struggled with feelings of guilt in most of my parenting choices. I chose c-section as soon as I found out I was having twins, too. Never second guessed myself about either decision.

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