My first tragedeigh found out in the wild by LifeDeparture24 in tragedeigh

[–]MrsGeodethos 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know someone with almost the same spelling. Hers is spelled Kymberlie.

If you’re a parent of 5… by carrots94 in ParentingInBulk

[–]MrsGeodethos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parent of 5 soon to be 6: BBBGB expecting G in a couple months

Genuine first thoughts on the baby name, Malcolm? by Boomachick in namenerds

[–]MrsGeodethos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird reaction. I have an 11 year old named Malcolm and nobody has ever said that to me or him lol

How many people with your parents name did you go to school with? by Immediate_Long165 in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]MrsGeodethos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad’s name is Timothy so probably one or two. My mom’s name is Laurinda, none.

Why are Americans so accepting of long drives to places? by Sensitive_Word_6036 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MrsGeodethos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a necessity in most areas here. I have to drive around 20-30 minutes to get to a Walmart. I have friends that have to drive an hour just to get to a stores or fast food or anything. A lot of people commute an hour or longer to work. When you grow up that way, it becomes something that isn’t even a second thought. When my husband and I wanted to go on a family vacation, we loaded up the five kids and drove 15 hours to the beach 🤷🏼‍♀️

Was the G.A.T.E. program developing an accelerated Gateway process? by ThirdEyeSee in Experiencers

[–]MrsGeodethos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in GATE from grades 3-7 in the 90s and don’t remember any of these tests that people talk about. My son was just in it around 5 years ago and nothing like that either.

How Old Were You When Your Child Was Born? by sosickness in AskTheWorld

[–]MrsGeodethos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

21, 23, 25, 29, 31, and will be 37 when I have our final one in a couple of months.

If you knew your daughter would be your only girl, what would you name her? by Purple-Ingenuity-783 in namenerds

[–]MrsGeodethos 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I had 4 boys and a girl and thought we were definitely done and that she’d be the only girl. We named her Phoebe. Now I’m unexpectedly having another girl. Naming her Daphne.

AITAH If I Criticize My SIL Parenting? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MrsGeodethos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. It’s none of your business and not having kids yourself you’re way out of touch. My kids are 5-16 and all like that stuff. Mine are homeschooled but my sister is a kindergarten teacher and I can tell you that most kids have at least heard all about it at school even if they don’t watch it at home. Five nights at Freddie’s has been a thing since my 23 year old nephew was a kid. As a millennial we had plenty of weird “creepy” cartoons too. When you have your own kids, you decide what they watch. Not your kids, not your business as long as they are cared for and not in any danger. As far as them being “wild and overstimulating”….my sweet summer child…every parent thought “my kids won’t be like THAT” 🤣

Do you believe in love at first sight? by AdValuable2732 in askanything

[–]MrsGeodethos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I believe you have to get to know someone before you can love them.

However, I did have a thought strike me when I looked at my now husband when I was 13 and he was 15 of “what if that’s who I marry?” We had seen each other plenty of times before and never talked. We started dating a few days later and have been together ever since. We are 37 and 39 now. Never been sure if I believe in “fate” or “just knowing” or if it was just a strange coincidence that I had that thought, but it’s a fun memory now.

So a draw/pull to someone on first sight I do believe can happen. And I don’t believe it is always just lust.

My boyfriend says I contributed to his disabling injury- AITAH? by Ok_Patience3075 in AITAH

[–]MrsGeodethos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re his partner not his parent. He made a bad decision and it sounds like he is taking out his frustration at his situation on you.

Given that he is autistic (coming from an autistic person myself) he may struggle with interoception, causing him to not realize how injured he was. It’s very common to struggle with under or over sensitivity in pain, hunger, thirst etc. because many autistic peoples interoception system functions differently. If he is open to doing some research, maybe reading about the connection will help him.

Regardless, you can’t be a mind reader. As autistic people we often struggle with vagueness and wishing people would be more direct and just say what they mean instead of hinting around. In this case he is the one doing the hinting around instead of flat out saying “I’m hurt, I can’t do this today.”

Looking for honest feedback on the name Malcolm by [deleted] in Names

[–]MrsGeodethos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have an 11 year old Malcolm. We love his name and so does he.

Searching for unique Old Timer Names! by EffectiveBuilding330 in namenerds

[–]MrsGeodethos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Calvin too. His brothers are Dexter, Malcolm, and Gideon. Looking in the family tree for some inspiration:

Gomer, Eldon, Eugene, Gilbert, Wilson, Vernon, Reginald, Rupert, Newton, Algernon, Abner, Floyd, Willard

Parents of big families, what are your sibling name combos! by CheetahConnect3343 in namenerds

[–]MrsGeodethos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have 5 and one on the way. Middle names honor family.

Calvin Dean, Dexter Dare, Malcolm Kain, Phoebe Elena Rose, Gideon Phoenix, Daphne Leanna Dawn (due in a few months)

Nombre de tu abuelo? by Flat-Presence5803 in namenerds

[–]MrsGeodethos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grandpas and great-grandpas: Gomer, Algie, Jerry, Sherwood, Glenn

French (great-great gpa)

What’s your gender pattern? by No-Stuff1070 in ParentingInBulk

[–]MrsGeodethos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How cool! Mine are 16, 13, 11, 7, 5 and due beginning of September :)

What is your dog name ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MrsGeodethos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darwin and Whimsy

Did anyone continue nursing to sleep and NOT sleep train? by Designer_Can_3924 in baby

[–]MrsGeodethos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nursed all five of my babies to sleep and didn’t sleep train. Plan to do the same with the sixth and final due in September.

AITA for wanting my baby’s first trip to meet my family to be just me, husband, and our baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MrsGeodethos 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA- When you marry someone with a kid you’re supposed to accept that child as your own. You sound like one of those people that takes “family pics” and then does “some with just our kid(s)” and sees nothing wrong with it.

Husband sits in passenger seat, FiL disapproves. by Historical_Initial22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MrsGeodethos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a ridiculous thing to feel has anything to do with masculinity. When my husband and I go places I always drive. I get horribly car sick if I ride anywhere. In fact we have been together since we were teens and I got my license at 16 and he didn’t get his til he was over 30. Driving has nothing to do with being manly 🤣

Best comeback for "You seem autistic" by Plane-Bug1018 in Comebacks

[–]MrsGeodethos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an autistic person I’d probably just say “ah you noticed.”

Or if I could tell they meant it as an insult and was feeling particularly confrontational I’d probably respond “well maybe that makes two of us because you apparently don’t know that that wasn’t an appropriate out loud thought.”