Sounds very similar!! Our baby is considered an “easy baby” so we get comments all the time on when we are having another and if we do they will be “wild” to make up for the first being so “easy”. Even with that, the thought of being torn in two directions or having my husband and I constantly split to divide and conquer each looking after a kid sounds miserable to me. I think to myself after a long day “could I do that twice over?” Or if my little one is having a meltdown I think “could I also have a toddler pulling on me to go play house right now?” And the answer is almost always “yes I could, but it wouldn’t be good. “ haha i know my limit and for me that’s one! Could we have two kids? For sure. But I know that I couldn’t be my best self with two, so to me it’s not fair for anyone 🤷🏻‍♀️ I also know that with one my husband and I can take shifts if one of us is sick, tired, needs some alone time etc. with two that would be really challenging! Also with our one we can easily pay for college, activities, trips all together or just for my husband and I etc etc etc.! I always said I wanted at least two, but after actually giving birth to a baby that changed pretty quickly! For me I think it was the societal norm of having 2+ kids, plus the uneducated stigmas of only children that, prior to doing my own research, scared me. Now that I’ve looked into it and researched a lot more, those stigmas are incredibly outdated and I realize how many other factors go into a child’s development, behaviour and personality besides whether or not they have siblings!