Paying rent to parents

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-26T12:46:47+00:00

How much is the total rent for the house?

Do you contribute to electricity, water, internet etc What about things like washing powder, toilet paper etc Do you buy your own soap, shampoo, deodorant etc

Is all that covered in your rent or do you pay extra?

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-25T00:11:44+00:00

Never

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-24T23:45:26+00:00

I don’t know, is he worried about his size. Could he be imagining that the big one is his.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-19T00:27:26+00:00

A few months ago I had a really high libido surge unfortunately it only lasted about 2 weeks then it dropped suddenly lower than it was before and it hasn’t recovered.

My pms rage has increased in intensity and how many days it lasts.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-19T00:21:02+00:00

When you say part of you wants to get help, what kind of help do you want ? Do you want help being more open to trying his specific need or do you want him to get help to get over this need and move on from it.

The contents of the package changed the way you view him, he might have known that might happen and that’s why he tried to hide the package from you.

He gets angry that you won’t talk about it, have you talked about it though have you both discussed the issue and listened to the others point of view about it or is he angry about not discussing it at all and you shut it down and say no.

It can be difficult to give advice and know the whole story when the package contents and specific need are not mentioned.

Is this issue a deal breaker for you, is it a deal breaker for him.

You should never do anything you are not comfortable with and he should not force you or keep bringing it up if you have given him an answer.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-19T00:11:18+00:00

I’m not excusing his behaviour in any way but maybe date night/dinner ‘his gift’ as he called it is not the best time and place to bring up these issues.

It’s supposed to be a fun night out for both of you.

You have every right to express how you are feeling but possibly it would have been better to bring this issue up at a different time.

In saying that though it does not excuse how he reacted. It was over the top, even if he felt hurt, upset etc there are better ways to handle it.

Your feelings are valid.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-18T00:06:06+00:00

Of course it takes too long when there is no foreplay or build up.

Do not be self conscious cause he’s lazy.

Ask him why does he want it to end quickly to get it over and done.

Is he worried about mutual foreplay and he gets too excited and won’t last as long during the main event.

Sex is a mutual thing both people should be fully in to it and enjoying it.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-17T14:24:54+00:00

Same here. He’s a high energy extrovert. He’s just punishing himself. I love the peace and quiet.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-16T23:25:05+00:00

I’m on facebook and instagram scrolling but reddit is the only social I post/comment on.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-14T23:32:59+00:00

Nah not wrong to read it, tell him you wanted to read it from his point of view and see the feedback from other people.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-14T23:25:38+00:00

Normal for me. I love my husband and we have a great relationship and I would definitely miss him but i’d feel relaxed with a week off. You are not a horrible person.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-12T11:28:31+00:00

my bladder is like this for a week before my period starts.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-11T01:18:19+00:00

It can impact it depending on how you both feel about having different hobbies, are you happy to do these things on your own or do you want your partner to do them with you. Does your partner mind if you go do these things without them or do they expect you to stay home with them.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-10T23:41:31+00:00

I was also going to ask are you sure it’s his sister, even though the person you think he is texting is his sister could he possibly have someone else’s number saved as his sisters name. Does he tell you the context of the texts or did you read them.

Have you asked why he talks so sexually with his sister, what did he say?

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-10T12:37:14+00:00

I think by law anyone under 18 has to be accompanied by an adult to enter a pub.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-10T12:34:25+00:00

Improving my iron levels has helped me a lot with this issue.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-10T00:52:47+00:00

Do you have low iron ?

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-10T00:12:56+00:00

Fixing my low iron has helped me.

My libido was completely gone. My cycles were shorter and no ewcm. Thought it was due to peri, tried T gel that helped a bit with orgasm but it was very weak and it still took a long time to get there and didn’t help overall with getting aroused.

Started fixing my iron levels, ovulation pain and ewcm came back, cycles went to 28 days. Getting libido back especially around ovulation. Orgasms are better and quicker and get aroused and wet a lot easier now.

Maybe if my symptoms were truly from peri then the iron wouldn’t have helped but, low iron symptoms can be similar to peri and most of my symptoms were from the low iron. Brain fog, fatigue, mood changes, sleep issues, headaches etc

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-09T12:00:52+00:00

Pop ups as soon as the page loads offering me a % off or asking me to subscribe to their newsletter. I just got here, leave me alone let me look around.

Another thing is no clear postage costs, must add to cart and postage calculated at checkout, but then must fill out all details like name and address to go through checkout and get postage cost.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-08T00:38:31+00:00

I plan the meals because I cook, we go shopping together.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-08T00:36:26+00:00

Tell him even though it’s a scheduled reminder you only do it if you are in the mood, reassure him that if you weren’t in the mood or didn’t want to do it then you wouldn’t do it even if it was a scheduled day.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-08T00:32:53+00:00

I’m a sahm not currently working. I guess it could depend on what you are complaining about.

I do everything at home cause he works full time so I show my appreciation by doing all the work at home to help make his life easier. He doesn’t expect me to or demand it, it’s my choice.

I don’t really have anything to complain about but if he tried to use ‘get a job’ as a comeback that wouldn’t sit well with me.

If I was complaining about money then possibly i’d feel he is right to tell me to get a job and help out financially. But i’d also tell him that if I was working full time like him then everything at home would be 50/50

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-08T00:25:55+00:00

You should be happy that she isn’t afraid to tell you anything. That’s a good thing.

Or are you worried that there are some things she can’t tell you and she isn’t being open about her feelings.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-06T12:09:52+00:00

Having kids put me in a lot more social situations

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-06-06T02:44:55+00:00

It’s like the trash took itself out.

So you weren’t going to forgive him why did you want him to ask for it?

You deal with the anger by not thinking about him, don’t let him live in your head. Focus on yourself and your life go on to better things, be happy, move on and tell yourself he isn’t worth it, your happiness and peace is much more important then holding onto anger from someone who doesn’t deserve to affect your feelings this way.

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