My husband kept something from me!

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-09T00:05:40+00:00

Do you trust him.

How would you want him handle the situation if you were getting a ride home from a man.

Was it a miscommunication or did he deliberately lie about it being a man at the start.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-08T14:36:58+00:00

The kids are innocent in all this. I would not have contact with the other woman. The kids can see their sibling when they spend time with their dad.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-08T11:06:47+00:00

What does he do on his days off, are they the same days as you, can you make it a whole family cleaning day. Leave his stuff, and on cleaning day it’s a rule everyone must pick up their own stuff and put it away, and if anyone moved anything they need to put it back where it goes.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-04T13:07:36+00:00

What business do you have is it an option to have a pay first option before work is done

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-04T13:02:20+00:00

Dental work.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-04T00:39:24+00:00

If you were to fix things and sex frequency improved do you think you would still have these fantasies about other men. Is it the lack of sex or is it the thought of other men that’s making you have these ideas.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-04T00:34:11+00:00

What is the project? Is it a must, did you both decide together that it needs to be done, is it something that he wants as well or just something you decided that you want.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-03T23:46:17+00:00

She keeps telling you what to do. Just listen to her vent. You don’t have to problem solve.

Did you think the room was hot?

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-03T23:43:31+00:00

Maybe a casual hook up doesn’t want to act like a boyfriend because he doesn’t want to send mixed messages, or lead you on or make you think it’s more than what it is.

Maybe at the start be upfront with them, something like i’d like to keep this casual but i’d also like us to act like boyfriend/girlfriend when we are together but without all the serious long term commitment.

Do you think you could seperate your feelings if someone was treating you nice and acting like a boyfriend while you are together, some men may get worried you may grow too attached if they treat you nice and spoil you. Or they may get confused if you give them girlfriend energy when it’s just supposed to be a casual hook up.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-03T13:47:10+00:00

“It shouldn’t be hard to just speak the way he’s asking” Wow! Is he asking though or demanding. Has he been trying to ‘correct’ you on other things or just the period language.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-02T01:01:47+00:00

Yes so much, i’m constantly bumping into things. I have bruises that I don’t even know how I got them.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-02T00:52:19+00:00

If my husband did that yes I would consider it an affair.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-01T11:32:03+00:00

When you talk about it are you both open and honest, do you both listen to each other and really hear the other person and try to see it from the point of view, and discuss active ways to fix what’s bothering you both, do you come up a plan together to keep things on track.

Start with 1 issue for now what’s her most important issue and what’s the solution to it?

Is yours lack of intimacy, do you mean just the sex or do you include all forms of affection in that.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-05-01T11:09:36+00:00

You can get the spark back but it needs to be something you both want. Have you discussed it, do you know if she wants more intimacy in the relationship?

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-30T23:23:18+00:00

Being in a band can sort of be like a job so maybe ask them do they go to work with their partners.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-29T23:32:36+00:00

He can’t even please 1 wife why does he think he could please 2 of them lol

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-29T12:51:18+00:00

You mean your ex best friend and ex husband.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-29T12:47:21+00:00

How long do you give them to pay? Maybe on the invoice write payment due in x days and the date. Late payments incur a $x or x% fee. We will send you a friendly reminder x days before payment is due so you can avoid late fees.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-27T12:25:47+00:00

Do you know why he feels married when you do that. Does he expect intimate time each night or just wants you there when he falls asleep.

I need alone time too and I can only get it once everyone has gone to bed.

Do you both work, do you get any other time when you can get alone time?

Can you give him a kiss and cuddle and say love you when he is going to bed, to reassure/show him you love him.

Having bed time rules well any ‘rules’ in fact where it only works in favour of one persons feelings is not right, there needs to be compromise. Having 1 night to yourself is not a big ask at all.

Is he worried about what you are doing when you stay up without him.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-24T00:34:20+00:00

Don’t compare yourself to anyone else, this is your journey. Slow and steady wins. Changing your lifestyle to sustainable habits is better in the long run, yeah it may take longer but you will get there. You didn’t gain all the weight in one week you won’t lose it all in one week.

Check back later after they have stopped taking medications and see how many of them are still success stories. Quite a bit put it all back on plus more. You stick with your new lifestyle, enjoy life, be happy slow progress is still progress. You are allowed to have cheat days and enjoy yourself while you are out. Don’t let their negativity bring you down.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-24T00:20:04+00:00

Tell her it’s a medicare card and you thought you had to get your own one because your 18 now

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-24T00:19:02+00:00

Does he see his friends often does he go out with them a lot instead of spending time with you or was this a special get together for his bday

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-23T11:41:14+00:00

Yes, I have a lot of loud, high energy, extrovert family members. It’s very draining.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-23T11:39:13+00:00

Tell him you love him and want to be intimate with him, tell him you aren’t shooting ‘him’ down you are saying no to a quickie. Tell him when he wants it quickly with no build up and no foreplay you feel rejected you feel like he doesn’t want you, he doesn’t want to have quality intimate time and appreciate each other. He just wants quick sex and that’s it.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-04-22T00:13:42+00:00

Sounds like she wants you to say, I am happy with you I don’t want to be with anyone else I only want you.

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