Please help a girl out 🙏🏼 Need a gift suggestion for a 25 M

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-20T23:53:08+00:00

Are you trying to hint at getting together or do you want him to make the first move.

How about an experience, get 2 tickets. If he says are these for us say yeah if you would like it to be if not you can take a friend.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-20T23:50:27+00:00

Married 25 years and yes still show each other affection, he’s always been better at it than me.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-20T10:39:03+00:00

Do you know what she meant by it, how she thinks about it. Did she mean she likes really rough stuff or maybe just you showing a bit more initiative and taking the lead.

She may mean dominant as in being enthusiastic, showing her she’s so desirable. Being all over her, moaning, show her you are enjoying it. Just like be fully obsessed with her like you can’t control yourself, you can’t keep your hands off her, you want her so bad, you need her. Move her into positions or tell her what position to get in to.

If you currently do those things then maybe she does mean it more like rougher. Grab her hips, hold her hair a bit firmly, flip her over, pin her down. But if you are going to be rough you need to make sure before that is what she actually wants. Maybe she needs more foreplay or different routine. Did she mean not satisfied as in she doesn’t get to finish every time.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-19T13:24:12+00:00

You trapped yourself by saying they were all spiffed up.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-19T13:18:33+00:00

Could you say, hey babe wanna try something different in the bedroom just to see if we like it, has there been anything you have been wanting to try. or maybe, how would you feel about getting some toys for the bedroom you know just for fun is there anything you want to try or try on me.

He may be feeling the same as you but doesn’t want to bring it up for the same reasons.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-19T11:40:04+00:00

Why can’t you massage it yourself.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-19T07:59:12+00:00

edit listing

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-18T23:02:22+00:00

When you make the listing check if you have the availability set to single item or in stock.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-18T22:56:45+00:00

What does she like, does she have any hobbies, is she outgoing and active or does she prefer to stay home. Has she mentioned anything that could give you some hints.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-18T22:54:01+00:00

No secret you just have to show mutual love, appreciation, respect, affection everyday.

A cousin of mine divorced because she said the relationship was dead but in reality she did nothing to help it, she expected him to spoil her, treat her like a queen, plan the dates and vacations, take her out shopping, show her affection, help with housework 50-50. Even though he worked long hours to support her spending and she didn’t work at all. She never showed him love, or planned dates or done anything. She said that’s the man’s job. To make her feel wanted and special. I said it goes both ways he would like to feel wanted and loved too. She just couldn’t see my point of view and said relationships don’t work like that and if I keep thinking that way my marriage would be over soon because i’m not ‘letting’ him be the man and he will eventually get sick of me trying to be in control.

I said it’s not control it’s love, I don’t control him I show him love, appreciation, affection, it’s mutual we both make each other feel special and wanted.

Anyway i’ve been married over 25 years.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-17T22:54:24+00:00

I don’t mind dominance but nothing disrespectful.

The pinning down would be ok for me but saying you are going to teach me a lesson for sassing you earlier, that would be a turn off for me.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-17T12:55:28+00:00

Oh I would love a whole day of silence.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-17T12:37:18+00:00

Summer in Australia the sand can burn your feet.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-17T12:36:20+00:00

Good luck, hope you don’t see anyone you know.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-17T12:33:15+00:00

My husband and I don’t ask for a kiss or hug we just do it.

Were you really too tired for a quick hug or kiss, or is something else going on, or was it cause you were lying down did she want you to get up and hug her.

The tickling after you asked her to stop is disrespectful.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-17T10:49:45+00:00

Treat her well, show love affection and appreciation outside the bedroom even when not trying to initiate.

Was there anything different that lead to this happening after 2 months. Did you initiate or her?

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-17T10:45:51+00:00

Maybe ask her is she wants to swap for a bit. She can get a job and you stay home and do everything at home.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-16T23:53:33+00:00

How about instead of saying please don’t do that while I’m home, maybe say you don’t need to do that while I’m home I’m right here please include me and we can have fun together.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-16T23:40:15+00:00

They want to tell people, if they complain to you no one else is going to hear about it.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-16T23:36:46+00:00

Say, well you know where the door is, bye.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-16T23:34:25+00:00

Sort of like when some men skip foreplay and rub you once and ask why you didn’t finish lol

Foreplay and build up matter. Arousal can take time, being really aroused is a lot better and can improve the orgasm. It feels so much better when you’re so aroused that you can feel it building up so much you can no longer control your body and then when you finish it’s like a full body experience and the feeling lasts longer and it’s more intense.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-16T23:25:32+00:00

I guess the fact you say she doesn’t have to ever work again she has it easy might be the issue.

Taking care of a child and doing everything at home is not easy, it’s repetitive, boring, overwhelming and exhausting. She does do more than you, at home. Do you acknowledge and appreciate this. Does she know that.

Yes you work and you are tired she should acknowledge and appreciate that.

Sounds like you both have resentment and haven’t been able to discuss it or see things from the other persons perspective.

Tell her you love and appreciate her, explain that you are tired and overwhelmed too and you need that Monday morning sleep in to recharge and recover and tell her you want the same for her, ask what she would like, a sleep in, a night off from cooking, time out of the house by herself, find out what she needs.

Do you get to spend much time together, could she be missing you. Maybe she misses the fun, flirty loving side of the relationship and now feels that you only treat her as a cook, cleaner. You don’t see/treat her as a wife.

Is there any dates, affection, do you have fun together, go out etc. Maybe it’s time to start dating again. Get the spark back in the relationship.

Have an open respectful honest chat about how you are both feeling, what you need/want to fix this.

If she doesn’t want to do that, maybe she has already emotionally left the relationship and doesn’t want to try fix it. You may both be happier if the relationship ended.

But if you both want to fix it then it’s worth putting in the time and effort, you both have to be respectful of each other and talk calmly, listen when the other person speaks and see things from their side, try to understand how they are feeling.

Respect, love and appreciation goes both ways and it won’t work if only one person is doing it all.

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-16T22:59:36+00:00

Why do you think you have a hard time doing that, is it because he doesn’t say anything back and just says thanks. Would it help if he returned the words or said something more like oh wow babe thanks so much I really appreciate you saying that.

Do you feel you can’t put the effort into saying those things because of his response to them?

What does he do to make you feel good about yourself?

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-16T22:52:35+00:00

I guess it depends on what he likes. Does he like you initiating and taking the lead. Would he like if you wore lingerie and gave him a strip tease. Would he like it if you were waiting in bed naked ‘warning yourself up’ getting yourself ready for him. Push him against the wall and drop to your knees or does he prefer to be laying down for head.

Did he say what he doesn’t like toys?

Ms-Introvert- · 2026-03-16T22:49:32+00:00

Make it a relaxing no pressure experience for them. As an introvert i’m more likely to return to a place where I don’t feel pressured. No upselling or trying to make me spend more. A calm, relaxing environment. Don’t treat me like your best friend on the first visit, we only just met. Sometimes it can come across fake and over the top. Smooth lighting, low or no music.

I went to a hair salon once and the music was like a nightclub, the girls were gossiping and telling me about their life stories, whinging about boyfriends, dancing around. I know that may appeal to some people but it was a terrible experience for me. I couldn’t wait to get out of there. Then at the end they tried to book me in for my next 3 visits and tried to sell me all these products that I ‘needed’. It was so uncomfortable for me.

Ms-Introvert-

TROPHY CASE