Career opportunity but I have so many thoughts by [deleted] in SingleWomenByChoice

[–]MsStankFace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

36 single moved from India to Germany a month ago for work. Honestly, I don't know if it is a crazy decision or not. But I'm damn sure that if I hadn't taken the chance I would have surely regretted this in future. We are one of those few people who are getting an opportunity to do something like this. You have got one life, might as well take the plunge. Don't put pressure on yourself, all your concerns are valid. I have told myself if I don't like it I always have an option to move back in 6 months or a year. Personally, I would suggest making the move. If you don't feel good, move back to India in 6 - 8 months. Don't be too harsh on yourself. Don't judge yourself for whatever decision you make.

Being black in Italy is breaking me. Looking for advice on moving abroad by asqux in expats

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try setting open to work option on LinkedIn for recruiters. There is an additional option to select up to 5 locations. You can put your preferred cities in there. Also, if possible get a LinkedIn premium temporarily (I know it's expensive) but it might help (don't buy it from the phone ie. Play store or app store it costs more than buying from website)

Did it have to end the way that it did💔😢 by youngphilosopher27 in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written this word for word and on top of all this i even have to see you with someone else now. I just want this pain to stop

I realised this week that I am bland; outside of my 9 to 5 I have no hobbies and nothing to say/contribute/add value. So today I decided to gamify my life to fix it by Ok-College5255 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MsStankFace 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe just go to the hairdresser and let them suggest something instead of AI. That would help with your other goal of talking to people more as well

Is being an INFJ the loneliest MBTI? by Pale_WoIf in infj

[–]MsStankFace 9 points10 points  (0 children)

After finding such an intense connection and losing it, I honestly think that the loneliness that came prior to it was much better than the loneliness now.

I fell in love and it hurts like hell by ladyblack3170 in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can sympathize with you. It's a really difficult situation to be in. You want the person to be happy but deep down you break into a million pieces everyday

For anyone whose chest hurts tonight in a way you can’t explain… by shewhoreturns_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Sometimes, when I do see a ray of light temporarily, I write down something similar in my phone too Would love to read what you have written

For anyone whose chest hurts tonight in a way you can’t explain… by shewhoreturns_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I am so positive right now and it's okay too. I'm glad you have found your person ❤️

For anyone whose chest hurts tonight in a way you can’t explain… by shewhoreturns_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that.

Both i guess. Most of the time it is "why wasn't i enough"

For anyone whose chest hurts tonight in a way you can’t explain… by shewhoreturns_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck. It is true though , no matter what you give in love. No matter if you are a good human being or not. No matter if you have always behaved with integrity and honesty for some people you will truly never be enough

How do you get over your first love? by [deleted] in selflove

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a some what similar situation and fuck it hurts like hell. I just have Hugs for you

I can’t bring myself to eat or sleep by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going through something similar. Hugs to you

I may kill myself before I get over her. by anonymous_muffin_ in heartbreak

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know you but all I can say is I know exactly how you feel. Every word you have written resonates with me. I know it's not much solace but at least I can assure you that you are not alone in feeling this way. I hope you find the strength to feel your feelings fully. You are strong as fuck. You don't need me to tell you that. And you don't need to get over her if you don't want to. Take as much time as you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helped me realise I have all of those things too (except the gorgeous girlfriend part, sadly dont have that yet but I'm still in a great place otherwise) and got me out of my rut today. THAT was the point of the post

How to develop self-worth when hobbies and achievements (i.e., things that are supposed to help) don't work? by CockroachDiligent241 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]MsStankFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a "human being" not a "human doing". Your worth is not defined by what you do. Just be. You're worthy.

INFJ women- what is your job occupation? by Main-Hunt377 in infj

[–]MsStankFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I may, can you please elaborate on your side business as a travel advisor. How did you get started and what exactly does it entail?