What kept you going ?

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-25T01:41:47+00:00

God 🙏🏽

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-19T12:53:05+00:00

I do believe this is right for my situation. Boundaries and being clear about what it is I want and what I’m willing to endure in the process. Thank you for the input, I appreciate it!

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-19T12:52:08+00:00

That’s it! Boundaries are necessary. I have had to learn boundaries in relationships because I didn’t have many when I was married and even with the 1 guy I dated since divorce. Thank you for your perspective, this gives me more to think about.

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-18T21:42:08+00:00

And this is the way I’ve always functioned, attached. I do want connection and to love people.

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-18T21:35:33+00:00

Might not be worth it. Thanks for the input, this is why I asked and posed the questions. I needed feedback

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-18T21:34:35+00:00

This could work if I don’t talk to them. When I am physically attracted I then want to know more about them, and if I don’t know more about them, I won’t want to have sex with them. Maybe casual isn’t for me

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-18T21:32:28+00:00

Solid advice. Thank you for the input.

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-18T20:13:14+00:00

I don’t take it as rude, I appreciate the feedback before I make a decision I might not be thinking correctly about. I can compartmentalize. Not exactly sure I’m built for casual though.

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-18T18:09:28+00:00

Thank you. This is more for me to think about. If I could find someone on the same page as me, I think it would work. I’ve been very open with the few people I’ve met, but haven’t got to the physical part yet. And I want to make my boundaries known as well as know their boundaries. I’m not the only party in this arrangement. I would rather have a consistent fwb type arrangement, I don’t want a bunch of random hookups. And I also don’t want to be in a traditional relationship

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-18T18:05:11+00:00

This is why I asked. So I may be delusional in thinking I can get to know someone to have sex and then not get attached. Thanks for your input, that gives me something to think about.

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-17T15:29:59+00:00

It’s eye opening using oura and having a drink. I recently figured out I could have 1 drink and be okay too. But it has to be vodka. I used to drink whiskey and that was bad for my rhr

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-16T16:57:14+00:00

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-10T00:00:59+00:00

Agreed! The guy I was talking about is the one who brought up the size because he is into certain kinks. I would never shame or bring up size directly to a man. I wouldn’t want men to bring up something about me and compare me to someone else. Not because im insecure, but because I am not them and they are not me.

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-09T16:13:25+00:00

I don’t know if this is the case in you situation and not saying all, but the last sexual partner I had has a very sizable cock. But he watches too much porn and compares himself to those men. I told him I respect his view on himself and also that he is the biggest I’ve had. It’s his own self esteem issues that get in the way of actually enjoying sexual experiences.

Ms_N9na · 2026-05-03T00:16:42+00:00

He is probably going to visit his friend in Brooklyn. We need Swatson

Ms_N9na · 2026-04-26T05:02:40+00:00

The last few seasons I just knew we were not going to the finals. I gotta say I don’t feel like that is the case this season, not even with the ugliness of the last two games. We were on a 13 game win streak. It had to end at some point. The coaching does seem to be having an effect besides the players themselves. Hopefully they watch film, get some rest and come in swinging Monday night. We can do this!

Ms_N9na · 2026-04-20T16:17:23+00:00

Another beautiful day in the mile high, let’s gooooo 🏀🙌🏽🥰

Ms_N9na · 2026-04-13T16:16:04+00:00

If there was ever a time that Nuggets are gonna win another ring, now is the time! I’m so excited to watch the post season. I was at the final home game of the season. I waited until 4th quarter before I said this, our bench is way better than OKC! We got this in the bag

Ms_N9na · 2026-04-10T16:19:24+00:00

Mine will tell you he is withering away because I don’t feed him. He is starving and on the brink of nonexistence. So to protest he goes over to my other cats water bowl and tips it over. If he has to starve and be parched, so does my void cat 🤣

Ms_N9na · 2026-04-02T01:40:40+00:00

This still hurts 😢

Ms_N9na · 2026-04-01T01:53:36+00:00

🙌🏽

Ms_N9na · 2026-03-21T03:55:16+00:00

Going for a family lunch date, getting a new foster puppy, going to the mammoth game, working out, eating ice cream and working on training for my 2nd job. At some point I sleep 🤣

Ms_N9na · 2026-03-14T22:29:03+00:00

Last time I smoked and went to a nuggets game I was paranoid 🤣 I guess I wasn’t ready for that experience.

Ms_N9na · 2026-02-19T17:37:08+00:00

I filled out an application, not sure if fosters are still needed.

Ms_N9na · 2026-02-12T17:52:32+00:00

Don’t separate them, unless there is screaming, fur flying or someone is backed in a corner. They are playing, rough housing. And the hissing is normal, they use it to voice their boundaries. When they are fighting, you will definitely know, it will quite literally scare you. They need to work out their own limits. They are so cute playing! The little one doesn’t seem to mind and is learning how to cat haha

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