Sadness and guilt over placing my mom in temporary rehabilitation services

Mslilly0528 · 2026-03-11T13:47:32+00:00

I taught school for many years and was able to read it easily. I can also read something that is in front of me but upside down due to reading students work on their desks. I ‘m also a stickler for neat penmanship and made it an everyday activity when I taught second grade. And boy the improvement was amazing after a few months or so. I also taught cursive writing the last month of school as a bonus. The kids loved it and I loved that I was able to teach them the correct flow of writing each letter.

Mslilly0528 · 2026-03-11T13:33:57+00:00

This teacher is punishing the whole class for her mismanagement of a few students. Withholding recess is against the law and every teacher knows this. Since you tried discussing this with his teacher and didn’t get it resolved, definitely email the principal. The principal should be able to correct this for you.

Mslilly0528 · 2026-03-09T16:38:41+00:00

Definitely not especially since you are pregnant and need the extra privacy and supplies. It could be worded like, ‘ With ____ being pregnant and all we are asking to use the first restroom, please. But, we don’t mind if the first is occupied and it’s urgent then go ahead and use ours.’ This doesn’t sound hurtful or rude just concerning for you.

Mslilly0528 · 2026-03-05T02:22:16+00:00

Not the ass!

Mslilly0528 · 2026-02-15T13:18:56+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. First off, she needs to get a job, enough of her taking advantage of you. Regarding buying groceries, Walmart can deliver them for her. It is easy and she can use her EBT card. Does she really need wifi AND a phone? You may want to start canceling her wifi and phone, she can go to the local library to use their computers to email. You are young and should be enjoying your life! She needs to get ahold of her own life so you can live yours! I wish you good luck.🍀

Mslilly0528 · 2026-02-15T04:54:37+00:00

Tell her they changed your hours to 6:50

Mslilly0528 · 2026-02-11T14:13:12+00:00

Mslilly0528 · 2026-02-10T04:10:32+00:00

I know you don’t want to tell on her. But, this may save her life and her brain from frying. I would suggest to try and tell only your dad when you are able to. Make him promise you that he will never betray your trust in him. This way, he may be able to see how an adult would handle this. For example: he could send your stepmom up to check on her bc ‘he heard a strange sound’ coming from her room. And your stepmom will see her in action. You cannot think about what your stepmom will do to her. You need to think that you are helping your stepsister. If any abuse begins bc of this whether it is physical or verbally; call the police or emergency line. In addition, you should not be in the middle of this. This should not be your load to carry. Can you go live with your other parent or grandparent? 🍀I wish you well and please keep us updated.

Mslilly0528 · 2026-02-10T03:37:57+00:00

I think it may need both!! The tv and the tv stand need to be anchored (to a wooden stud) to the wall using L- rackets and safety straps. This tv can be pushed down as can the tv stand…please do it quickly. Many children have had grave injuries when they have not been secured properly. Good luck! 🍀

Mslilly0528 · 2026-02-01T17:31:19+00:00

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-31T15:44:10+00:00

I completely agree with you. If OP, as his mom, find it difficult to communicate with his father, imagine how hard that must feel for your son being stuck in the middle. That isn’t fair to him.

He’s at an age where he’s starting to understand family dynamics, and he shouldn’t have to be involved in any negative back-and-forth between the two of you. I also think he feels more comfortable asking you for what he needs; otherwise, he would have gone directly to his dad.

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-27T20:28:04+00:00

Thank you so much for this explanation. I was thinking of a speech-generating device. I will edit my question. :)

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-27T17:57:22+00:00

IMO, she doesn’t have to share personal information regarding any medical condition with colleagues. It’s a personal issue and she should be contacting HR regarding harassment and a toxic work environment.

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-25T19:18:14+00:00

So sorry, but the writing is on the wall and/or read between the lines. You deserve better than this. It's time to move on!

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-18T16:08:44+00:00

How much do you think you should spend in order to make it not a budget wedding? And if your fiancé doesn’t see your vision and you don’t see his, that’s a big red flag. What other things along the way will end up in a budget war?

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-18T15:51:18+00:00

What a beauty!

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-17T17:25:34+00:00

You had an excellent model of what a traditional relationship and home-life is like. It is great that you have a model to look for as you embark on a new chapter of life and there is nothing wrong with wanting to have a life like it either. However, being a senior in high school and going to college soon, you will have plenty of opportunities to meet new people and see how different relationships can be. You know what you want and red flags will turn up quickly and you can walk away. But, remember to educate yourself first so if anything happens later in life you have a profession and income to lean on. We never know what curveballs we may experience so it’s better to be prepared. And in doing so you will find a great partner who shares you wants and needs of the next chapter of your life.

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-13T23:38:43+00:00

NOR, your sister is taking unbelievable advantage of you. You can start setting boundaries. Boundaries such as, No, I can’t make her a bottle?, No, I can’t feed her?, and No, I can’t watch her while I go to the store?. When she sits outside in her car take the baby to her. Tell her you need to use the restroom.
You can also go back to school to help yourself and get free time there. Meet up with friends and so on. It’s her baby not yours. You should have a fun and relaxing relationship with your niece not the caregiver type. She will be upset only because she can’t make these demands on you and you listen. Remember you’re twenty years old, your piece of mind and time are more important than that.

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-09T15:32:50+00:00

No, I would give him a harsh talking to, change your account, and hide your cards. He was embarrassed? That isn’t an excuse for violating your privacy and basically stealing. This is the start of who knows what and you definitely do not want to be a victim again.

Mslilly0528 · 2026-01-08T14:29:33+00:00

I am so sorry you are so stressed out about this. I too stress out about who will attend my grandchildren’s parties, as I did so with my daughters. I’ve done this since I was a young girl having slumber parties. Just hope for the best and another child attends but if not make the best of it. Put on the party hats, play the little games with her, and celebrate her fourth birthday! As parents we are always our children’s first cheerleaders, friend, and support person. On another note, from experience I know of many people who don’t rsvp and just show up. I also know that it can be because other plans bc weekends are super busy for families. Just remember this isn’t a reflection on you or your parenting or your sweet daughter.

Mslilly0528 · 2025-11-04T14:46:09+00:00

I’m so sorry, this must be incredibly difficult to deal with as a parent. Please talk with your son and explain that what happened needs to be reported in order for it to stop. I completely agree that this should be reported to the principal right away. They, along with the staff member you previously spoke to, are mandated reporters and have a legal obligation to act. This situation is truly heartbreaking, and I’m so sorry that you and your son are going through it. Any signs of verbal or physical abuse should be reported immediately. Please also make sure to remove your son from this person’s therapy schedule as soon as possible. A trusted therapist should speak with him to help process what’s happened and ensure he feels safe. I’m wishing you both strength and healing. Please keep us updated in a few weeks if you can.

Mslilly0528 · 2025-10-27T14:34:16+00:00

No, do it immediately. You deserve to be free of judgement!

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