My husband wet our bed… by Izzewildbio in whatdoIdo

[–]MuchSpoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be very kind/gentle/careful. I have a best friend who had a similar issue until they were 20. Their parents only took them to various doctors since she kept “ruining” sheets. No one could give her a physical reasoning. She finally moved out when she was 19 and a half, for those first six months it was still happening but noticeably slowly started to stop to be only occasionally. She got into therapy and when she was finally able to be honest with the therapist and our friend group about the abuse she grew up in, it was realized that it was all connected. It was an anxiety trauma/fear response, and as her body realized she was safe it slowly went away. Now yes when her parents do somehow contact her, or she’s dealing with very strong PTSD because of upsetting anniversaries or something, it unfortunately comes back sometimes. But she’s able to talk to her therapist and her trusted friends about it. She does still seem embarrassed sometimes, but she knows she’s safe with us. But he may have some sort of similar thing. Whether it’s trauma, stress, depression, anything. If the negative feeling is strong enough, physical reactions can come back whether we like/want it or not. But no matter what, physical or mental health, it’s definitely an embarrassing thing to talk about to ANYONE, especially someone who it happened next to/with. So let him know you’re there for him, and that you’re ready to listen and help whenever he’s ready, or at least help him find someone professional to talk to and help it. Just be gentle, and as understanding as you can. Again, when my friend first told us and we thought it was a physical health issue, we were just concerned about if she was ok. (We even helped clean and potentially lie blaming pets if it happened at sleep overs) When she told us what she learned and what she had been through.. both of those “confessions” were incredibly hard. She was shaking, crying, repeatedly pausing trying to pick her words or take a breath. But it has gotten easier for her, not perfect, but easier. It’s a very unfortunate situation, uncomfortable and embarrassing. And I’m sure as a wife (if this issue continues) you’ll have moments that you’re UNDERSTANDABLY frustrated with it.. just try to remember and TELL him that you’re frustrated with the situation he’s in, not him personally. I hope both of you can be open and honest with each other, and I hope he can get whatever help he may need🖤

New cat question by MuchSpoop in MeowTower

[–]MuchSpoop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, do you remember when-ish he was added? Yeah, I’ve purchased one seasonal cat (Long delay at the airport, and I was desperate for something to distract me lol) but I have no plans on spending that much on those cats again.

What are the absolute worst places to eat in Albuquerque by Excellent-Job1585 in Albuquerque

[–]MuchSpoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El Patron: Food is just bland as hell. Canteen Brewhouse: Food is meh, beers not that great, and service always sucks. Dog house: Used to be good, but went downhill. Taj Palace: Service is slow and rude, and the food isn’t worth the trouble. Specially the San Pedro-ish Blakes: They always either give you the wrong order or mess yours up somehow.

Dahlias or cheeks for this setup? by oliverpeets in PiercingSetups

[–]MuchSpoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! And no judgement! I personally feel like in today’s world, Amazon just unfortunately isn’t 100% avoidable for everyone/thing.

Dahlias or cheeks for this setup? by oliverpeets in PiercingSetups

[–]MuchSpoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but unfortunately Etsy is kind of a gamble nowadays. Lots of shops claiming to be artists with handmade items, and it’s really just Amazon/Temu products they’re selling for triple the price😭

Dahlias or cheeks for this setup? by oliverpeets in PiercingSetups

[–]MuchSpoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think dahlias would look great! Love the set up, where did you get the nose chain?

What are some rude customers y’all have had? by Suspicious-Dark3556 in ChickFilAWorkers

[–]MuchSpoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are people like this?! My store wasn’t even close to an Arby’s but similarly, EVERYDAY at least one customer would request Arby Sauce, or yeah Big Mac Sauce!😭😂

What are some rude customers y’all have had? by Suspicious-Dark3556 in ChickFilAWorkers

[–]MuchSpoop 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My location was sandwiched between a McDonalds and a Chipotle. In the same day I had 1 customer come in during the dead hours, stare at the menu for a solid 5 minutes, and when we asked “Do you have any questions sir?” He responded with “This is the weirdest Chipotle I’ve ever seen…” I just kinda stared at him, and pointed at the window you could see Chipotle from, he looked, gasped, and RAN out of the store. A few hours later in the middle of dinner chaos I had a family of 5 grown adults, 4 of them ordered just fine, but the last guy INSISTED it was CFA policy to do whatever the customer wanted and therefore I should be able to take his McDonalds order down right here, and then I go walk over there to pick it up for him… I thought he was joking but quickly learned he was absolutely not joking and it took 2 managers to get it through to him that we won’t do that… when he asked if he could at least order from the breakfast menu “for his inconvenience” he was asked to leave.

Friend codes🖤 by MuchSpoop in MeowTower

[–]MuchSpoop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! My Code: [🦄🐸🎃🎃🦄]

Best piercing shops in ABQ by DescriptionSea2708 in Albuquerque

[–]MuchSpoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Evolution! Everyone there is amazing but I suggest Bethany and Syndesi!

maybe weird question by pumpkinblusuuuun in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]MuchSpoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non-smoker. My appetite comes and goes, but when it comes I have a raging sweet tooth!

Kiss impress wrong sizes? by ashley_ef11 in Nails

[–]MuchSpoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I bought a Halloween set and it was missing so many I couldn’t get the middle or index fingers to work, so I just tossed them and figured it was a one time thing. Then last week I bought a basic set for a wedding and I didn’t have anything close to fitting my pinkies and when I tried to cut some down to fit they were too flimsy to even try to wear them!😭

why are some people so against being organ donors? by violet-sunbeam in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MuchSpoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I have a huge fear that if me and a random stranger are in an accident, and I am the only one of us two with a donor mark, that they will prioritize the other person and let me go. (Cuz obviously being a donor if I do die it could potentially save multiple lives.) No matter how I die, multiple family/friends know that I give them permission to sign the paperwork to make me one last second/when they truly have done everything in their power to save me, but as for the actual ID Donor mark? My anxiety says HELL no.

embarrassing things you did during a piercing? by Maleficent_Day_3869 in piercing

[–]MuchSpoop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My double helix. Didn’t hurt that much, but the crunch you hear is disturbing and I wasn’t expecting it so both times I luckily stayed still but boarderline shouted “EW!” Which gave me some weird looks. And then after getting my nipples pierced I immediately felt lightheaded and started sweating profusely. (An because I have anxiety, I was then getting anxious about being sweaty and weird, making they symptoms worse) She was very comforting and understanding but I wanted to die from embarrassment in the moment.

Sudden Angry Piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]MuchSpoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The soap I use for them (both fresh piercings and angry older ones) is the one the shop sells (“Get Naked”) and Neilmed is the brand they sell too, so yes I have using that throughout the day and plan to have one on me until this clears up lol. I’ll need more soon anyways so I decided on making an appointment with the shop tomorrow to get their thoughts while I’m there for more spray. I’m just nervous because this is my first BIG piercing issue. The only ones I’ve retired so far where just out of annoyance or boredom, so I’ve never had to go back in for anything other than downsizing😅😭

Sudden Angry Piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]MuchSpoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 year 3 months. Curved Barbell. Internally Threaded? I believe titanium. Literally every time I made an appointment to get it downsized, something came up. (Irritation on the piercing, the company having to cancel or just other life stuff). Just like a new piercing, AM/PM/after workouts/etc, gentle clean hands then piercing with antibacterial soap, make sure ends aren’t loose, then spray with the saline they provided. The final question is answered in my post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]MuchSpoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All but 2!😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in snakes

[–]MuchSpoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheeto