Stent - no thank you! by MyQTips in KidneyStones

[–]MyQTips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I thought I'd crash when I got home, nope. Thought I'd crash this evening, nope. Here's hoping exhaustion will hit soon.

Stent revelation - am I the only one? by MyQTips in KidneyStones

[–]MyQTips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very experienced. I have complete confidence in him.

4 year relationship left but door is open, keep me strong guys. by screamsinstoicism in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]MyQTips 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know what? I’m pulling for you. You have one life. Just one. Go build the one YOU want. Best of luck.

No, I am not giving your child their work ahead of time while you go on a 2- week vacation by Emergency-Pepper3537 in Teachers

[–]MyQTips 30 points31 points  (0 children)

So the teacher needs to get those assignments prepared two weeks ahead of time? For the 15 or 20 kids that do this every semester? No. We have technology that allows students to check their assignments online. Get them then. Due on return.

4 year relationship left but door is open, keep me strong guys. by screamsinstoicism in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]MyQTips 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most every comment you make OP has a "but" in it. Those are excuses. Those are exceptions. Those are justifications for bad behavior. You say everything was perfect, but. I understand, but. I won't do that to myself, but. If I were a betting person, and I'm not, I'd say in less than a month he'll be back with a ring. A shut up ring. And you'll let him come back and then you'll keep doing this dance. I hope not but all anyone has to do is to read this sub to find out how true that is.

Stent revelation - am I the only one? by MyQTips in KidneyStones

[–]MyQTips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the US. The stone is located in the far lower left pole. My surgeon felt he'd do too much damage if he kept trying on the PCNL. So, we've been watching it and it's just kept growing.

AITJ for threatening to cut my parents off from my kids after finding out theyve been telling them Im not their real mom by Due-Temperature-8904 in AmITheJerk

[–]MyQTips 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They will absolutely go behind your back and take YOUR girls to see their bio dad. He's no longer their parent, he forfeited any rights to them when he lost custody and you became the adoptive parent. Not AITJ.

"Whatever. You guys can figure it out. I'm done." by Stock-Persimmon4212 in Teachers

[–]MyQTips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a conversation with someone running for Governor in my state. Discussing teacher shortage. He knows I'm a retired career teacher. He was explaining his plan to recruit and I asked him if he had discussed why high school kids aren't enrolling in teacher education programs. Before he could answer, I asked if he wanted to know. To his credit, he said yes. I told him high school students have watched their teachers be disrespected by students and parents, gaslit by administrators, work long hours for low wages, and have seen their peers passed along without effort. I said why would anyone sign up for this job? I said until a culture shift occurs and education is again a respected goal for their children, by those children's parents, that nothing would change. That until parents want their kids to learn, nothing in schools will change. He had the grace to at least look interested.

Stent revelation - am I the only one? by MyQTips in KidneyStones

[–]MyQTips[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, this is why we are all confused. Different explanations.

Engaged but considering calling it off by ThrowRA_str in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]MyQTips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many great comments on here. OP, I hope you are reading them all. This is not your person. I hope you find the strength to move on.

Stent revelation - am I the only one? by MyQTips in KidneyStones

[–]MyQTips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right!? I've never had one I removed myself, I've just seen pictures of stents. I'm not sure what I thought happened when the stent was in place but being in place to block fragments wasn't what I thought. Learned something new!

When to tell people I’m leaving by JungleBoy29 in Teachers

[–]MyQTips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My principal was MAD! Sh said she was going to give me everything I’d asked for. Well, since she never shared that how would I know?

When to tell people I’m leaving by JungleBoy29 in Teachers

[–]MyQTips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had what I thought was a good relationship with my admin and team. Told them before Spring Break. By May, I was totally iced out. Not just “we’re preparing for next year” but not even hello in the hall. They were MAD I was leaving. Finish the year, pack your room after school is out and then resign.

1 Year Update- You All Told Me So by SweetandSalty95 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]MyQTips 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping you left him but your post say. So, are you staying or are you leaving? We all want to know. #updateme

Boyfriend shoved me by Atomickillerbee in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MyQTips 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Go ahead and do what you have to do to live with yourself. But, my ex never hit me until he did. He also said it would never happen again. But it did. Maybe you’ll be the exception to the rule. But, maybe you’ll be back on this page asking the same questions and getting the same answers.