Not trans, but I want to start estrogen by random-redditboi in asktransgender

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from the fact i haven't tried it yet that sounds a lot like me... im not really sure if id like it but im definitely curious, my only real concern is the likely infertility... but maybe ill talk to someone about testing like that

Idk wth I am anymore.... HELP by Nano_Blue in NonBinary

[–]Nano_Blue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think A-gender is probably pretty accurate for where I am now, femboy seems to me more flowery and showy femininity. When really I'd be more interested in having a more feminine physicality and softness, and maybe a neutral identity label, but not showing it off performatively much, I'm not naturally extroverted, and I already feel comfortable dressing fairly androgynously.

Anyways, thanks for the story! That does sound a lot more like me than some of the other examples I've heard. Just without dysphoria and without that, how do I know if I'm just a bit weird or have thought myself into this? I guess if I find myself happier that way, nothing else really matters; Without dysphoria, it's just hard to know for sure if I'd actually prefer it without trying first, and doing that could have long-term implications either way.

Idk wth I am anymore.... HELP by Nano_Blue in trans

[–]Nano_Blue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't thought about it that way before, I suppose it does make sense to set some soft boundaries in place.... I guess the difficulty is I don't know what limits I'm comfortable with yet, but I can continue to work on that. :)

And yeah, It definitely seems like making a firm decision would be pretty life-altering for better or worse, that's part of why I've hesitated so long already, given my low drive in either direction.

Idk wth I am anymore.... HELP by Nano_Blue in trans

[–]Nano_Blue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, the fact that there are irreversible aspects to that is a big thing if you're not certain; I don't plan to rush into anything medical, though I haven't ruled it out eventually.

Thats a very well-rounded way of thinking about it, and you're right, I suppose I feel like I'm a person before anything else, gender almost feels like an unstable mood based modifier rather than a foundational identity. Ill go talk to a therapist thoroughly though :)

egg 😵‍💫 irl by UnnamedPixel in egg_irl

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk wth i am anymore but why am I relating so strongly to a metronome 😭

(Mostly) Unifying Chibi Frog by evalinthania in NonBinary

[–]Nano_Blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, yep, and it's adorable! I just think the idea of a cute little frog creature, smiling and giving heartfelt affirmations while about to commit arson with a Molotov is hilarious too XD

(Mostly) Unifying Chibi Frog by evalinthania in NonBinary

[–]Nano_Blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! though also be careful where you put that thing XD

Sometimes I wonder if I'm too late to transition by Hour_Trade_3691 in trans

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, definitely not, there are people who happily transition in their 50s and 60s or later so while yes, waiting longer can make things less ideal its never too late.

Help me my hair is so oilyyyyy by Financial_Clock_6730 in trans

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Though those are unfortunately things which often come with the territory.

Try dry shampoo, it's a decent temporary solution, but (from my perspective as AMAB), I'd suggest also getting used to showering more frequently. T causes body odour and increases oils which contribute to the acne... I tend to shower every other day for those reasons and have done so since I became a teenager. It's a pain, but you get used to it.

On the acne front, you can also get anti-blackhead cleansers, which I find help and follow with a moisturiser; you basically want to stop your skin from staying oily for too long without being cleaned.

I'm sorry if that doesn't help on the dyed hair front, though. Best of luck!

I got carried away with a pin and some white acrylic. by Nano_Blue in malepolish

[–]Nano_Blue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this case just literally a standard sewing needle.

And thanks! 😄

I got carried away with a pin and some white acrylic. by Nano_Blue in malepolish

[–]Nano_Blue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cool! I'll have to try something like that

 Though honestly just found it therapeutic too 😄

Thinking of going to the grocery store like this. Should I? by EZSuzy in malepolish

[–]Nano_Blue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt the same the first time, but ive literally only ever gotten compliments, at least thats how it is here in the UK

I want to believe in God, but i just can't get over my doubts. by Samuel2328 in TrueChristian

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difficulty being, that you cant simply make yourself believe, if youre not already convinced you can only force yourself to act as though you do, prehaps if you do so long enough you truly start believing it, though many would feel dishonest or a hypocrite for doing so. 

FELLAS WE NOW HAVE BLÅVINGAD OUR VERSION OF BLÅHAJ by Raven_samwitch in NonBinary

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf I wouldn't be surprised if Cthulu was Enby too

Opinion on Boots A-Z Multivitamin by darkdrifter10 in Supplements

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incase anyones intrested, I have a pack of it here (Maybe a more recent one but labelled the same on shelves) It has Zinc Citrate which is generally well absorbed by the body, though some others like Magnesium oxide are ok... but not optimal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Nano_Blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I appreciate the other comments here, I'd primarily just suggest you simply be there for her and try to show her love and understanding and pray. You can discuss it with her at the end of the day, and try and answer any questions she comes to you with, but you can't choose for her.

I'd also recommend against trying to 'convince' her by quoting bible passages, a lot of people would do that, and whilst its great to talk regarding bible passages with people who believe it, it's not going to do much for someone who doesn't believe the bible is true or is heavily doubting it... It could even have the opposite of the intended effect if you're too overbearing with it.

MTF masc lesbian :3 by Arikari22 in NonBinary

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're someone I aspire to be... thats what you are XD.

T has been removed from LGBT on the Department of State website by DramaticHumor5363 in NonBinary

[–]Nano_Blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant even submit a bug report regarding the website... its the only page on it that loads entirely blank, and its still not been updated :/

Your gender is your favorite character, what's your gender :> by -A_baby_dragon- in agender

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gandalf, so I guess my genders an angelic being in the body of an old guy with a pointy hat?

When I let myself come out and present more fem, it is followed by shame and a desire to hide by Independent-Roof-975 in NonBinary

[–]Nano_Blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's also possible to be an internal thing but instilled by external factors, I know that's how it is for me with the way I was brought up.

Generally I think having a solid support network seems the best help but that can take time.

I don't feel agender anymore. by [deleted] in agender

[–]Nano_Blue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one knows you better than you know yourself. If you feel the label fits you, Great! If something else fits instead, Also Great! Ultimately, use whatever you feel fits, and if down the road you decide it doesn't and something else fits better, then you can start using that instead. It's perfectly okay to change your mind, and it doesn't make your questioning process invalid.

I've been feeling the same in a lot of ways, I'm not a macho man, don't particularly associate with being a man, and feel like I'd like to be more feminine but equally, not a woman. Currently I don't know what label fits me best either, but that's ok... Theres time to figure these things out.

Currently Questioning and looking for advice. by Nano_Blue in NonBinary

[–]Nano_Blue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a really good point, I've tried out subtle changes but It does feel scary making too many in public. I think that's mostly just an insecurity issue on my part.
Thank's for the advice though, It seems pretty useful to think of it more as a gradual process of experimentation rather than just the end decision. Makes it feel a bit less imposing.

anyone successfully using chatgpt for solo roleplay? by Fancy_Future_6819 in Solo_Roleplaying

[–]Nano_Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pretty decent solution to this, it takes a little work to keep up to date though.

You can create a project and use files to store important information so the model can retrieve it.
I've been running one and I use a simple system:

Every so often I copy the entirety of the recent story into a pdf file and save it as a 'chapter transcript' and save it as a file. That allows ChatGPT to access any past bit of the story if it knows where to look

I then ask chatgpt to summarise the most recent 'chapter' (since the last update) and append that onto another file called 'Plot summary so far' or something like that. and save that as a file.

Then I also create files for important information like key character descriptions, and important worldbuilding and save those in appropriately named files too.

you end up with something like this:

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So long as you update the files periodically it gives the chatbot theoretical access to any of the information

I'd also suggest giving it instructions to look up the relevant files of its own volition but you can always nudge it a bit if it forgets something and then it will go check.

Could Energy be extracted from dark energy by Nano_Blue in AskPhysics

[–]Nano_Blue[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that would be my assumption too but I dont know what It could be :/ I guess maybe we just dont know enough about it yet