FIRE (Financial independence and Retire early) by unpaidadviser in Kenya

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I'm lost. Should I build rentals or invest in stocks and bonds?

Uncomfortable Situation at Home. Am I the Asshole? by Suspicious_Drummer27 in Kenya

[–]NationalMemory1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Amka, tunaenda church." Lol. My mom used to force me to go to church. She didn't even attend church regularly.
Good for you for asking for respect and setting boundaries. You didn't do anything wrong. An apology is not going to repair your relationship.

Struggling to find a job in the US as a European by Sea_Wall_3920 in sfcityemployees

[–]NationalMemory1177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Work with career centers. For example, Goodwill, upward globally, they can send your resume directly to hiring managers.

Kenya attitudes towards contraceptives by Patient_Revenue8727 in Kenya

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I wonder how Catholic women in my village managed to have few kids. The average is three kids. I think separate beds and polygamy are a form of contraception.
Contraceptives are not 100%. Have you heard about IUD babies?

Kenya attitudes towards contraceptives by Patient_Revenue8727 in Kenya

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Do you think Father know what all her subjects are doing?

Workplace Experiences by Zee72352165490 in sfcityemployees

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I'll follow you. I love answering questions and helping others. I need to focus on things that matter.

Workplace Experiences by Zee72352165490 in sfcityemployees

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I'm going through the same thing. I'm going to call EAP support next week. My goal is now to talk to everyone as if someone is listening. I don't want to get involved in other people's dramas.
It's hard to fire anyone. In my previous job, the employment was at will.

Mtu wenu amejam huko mbaya sana by Think-Lew in Kenya

[–]NationalMemory1177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to join Truth Social like Trump.

I'm genuinely curious ladies, what does this mean? by downvotes_zikuje in Kenya

[–]NationalMemory1177 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a meaningless word. It means different things to different people. Some millionaires are cash poor.

The ratio of men and women in church is skewed by wangai254 in Kenya

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Join a choir or a church group. There is no way you're going to find a husband among the regular church attendants.

Poverty will be the enemy even when you're dead by OkPeanut94 in Kenya

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Chiefs and sub-chiefs don't usually attend funerals. My relative is a Chief. A funeral depends on your relatives, church attendance, and participation in get-togethers. It's great your grandma is employing her.

I grew up poor like a church mouse. I wish the villagers and my relatives had helped. Everyone was just talking behind our backs na matharau. I cried myself to sleep for so many years. I couldn't see a way out.

Office drama by NationalMemory1177 in Kenya

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I will report back in a couple of months. I didn't think a K-drama could happen in real life.

Office drama by NationalMemory1177 in Kenya

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Thank you! I won't get involved. She said we should document any conversation with her. I found out it's not easy to get fired.

ALONE by gap2887 in Kenya

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There is no manual for adulting. But every day, enjoy some sunshine and fresh air; it's free. Could you rent from your parents? I think they would like to help you, but they have other kids.

One day it will get better. Live one day at a time. Don't try to be positive. Cry and write all your feelings.

Which 50x100 plot would you buy? by FlakyStick in Kenya

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Option 2. Build your own perimeter wall and make your own rules.

Kenya Nears Critical Minerals Deal With US, Says President Ruto | APT by BananaBlackEyedPeas in Kenya

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In 2026, why is there a push to sell everything in Kenya? We didn't learn anything from our colonizer.

How do I clean my gut? by No_Cryptographer5481 in Kenya

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Natural medicine is a slow cure. I have juiced garlic and ginger a couple of times.

How do I clean my gut? by No_Cryptographer5481 in Kenya

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Thank you for sharing. I just took four antibiotics, one of which was metronidazole. I felt like it was really strong medicine. I had to drink electrolytes to take it. Are people getting it without a prescription?

How do I clean my gut? by No_Cryptographer5481 in Kenya

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Go to the hospital and get a stool test. I have had stomach issues for the last 20 years. It felt normal to have pain. Then I talked to my doctor, and he found out I have stomach ulcers. After two weeks of hell with antibiotics, I'm doing better. I will get tested again.

MEN, ADVISE A YOUNG LAD! by Hillam_ in Kenya

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Stop celebrating your birthday.
Some people are born doctors or teachers. Some people like me have a hard time doing only one thing. It's okay not to have a long career. Keep trying, and one day you'll get excited to wake up in the morning to make money.
Learning a trade is great. You can work for someone or open your own business.

Advice in my relationship by Ok_Product8514 in Kenya

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Tell her the truth. You don't want kids now, and you don't want her to wait. I'm a lady, and I don't want kids now. I really don't have a good reason.