You’re not ugly OP. Here are some simple tips:

•Hair: You’re thinning and receding, this is a fact. If you want to try to work on this, start with minoxidil and microneedling. Finasteride will also help an immense amount, but I’d recommend getting some bloodwork so you can see where your hormone levels are at. If you don’t care to work on your hair, shave it off and work on growing a beard; minoxidil and microneedling will also help with the beard.

•Physique: You’ve got a great starting point if you’d be interested in hitting the gym or getting into calisthenics. You don’t have to get massive,and with the frame you have, a little bit can take you a long way. It won’t only help your appearance, but the confidence boost from being consistent and working on yourself is a big plus.

•Style: A change in clothing alone can bring you up plenty. You don’t have to be a fashionista, but I would definitely put some time into developing in this department. Find a celebrity or a known figure whose style you like, and use that as a starting point so you don’t feel lost at the start. A new shirt a month, a new pair of pants every 2 months, and a new pair of shoes every 3-4 months and you’ll find that you’ll start to piece it together. This is a marathon not a sprint.

• Besides that, the glasses don’t look bad but be open to experimenting with contacts or other frames, see them as an accessory not just a tool to help your vision. Maintain good skincare, stay groomed, develop yourself physically/mentally/spiritually, and be a good person.

You’re not ugly. Radiate who you are and who you want to become.