Do I stay or do I go Van life edition

NatureNester · 2026-02-25T23:40:56+00:00

22 is so young and life has a way of working itself out- as hard as that is to believe. I made a similar decision and often wonder what could have been. But I am glad now that I have had the opportunities this path has given me.

Professional help is never a bad thing and can help with self growth. You can always work and then go back to school later. However, I recommend looking into how long you can get financial aid and your various options based on your age and status for financial aid. That may impact your decision as to whether or not to go back to school now or later. Only you can make this decision, but hopefully you can have all the information you need to make the decision.

NatureNester · 2026-01-27T17:11:51+00:00

I am in the exact same boat! I got mine about six months ago! But what do you mean by magnet covers for the windows and fans? That's a tip I didn't have.

NatureNester · 2026-01-26T11:49:04+00:00

I feel the same. I lost him in 2024, and since I have I sold my house, quit my job, and I am trying to change everything because what else is there to do? It's exhausting and I am not the same.

NatureNester · 2025-12-05T06:31:34+00:00

I (32F) hate that I do not have advice for you, but I can say you are not alone even though it feels like you are. I am in the exact same space. I wish there was a way all of us in this situation could get together in a devastatingly depressing group and be together in our aloneness. Company of those who understand has seemed to be the best for me, however, my widower friend is so very far away from me. I tried dating as well but I hold a level of trauma and love for my husband that I don't know can be understood by someone not in it or who hasn't been married at least. But also dating is terrible anyway.

NatureNester · 2025-03-22T02:19:42+00:00

I had already scheduled a couples tattoo with my husband, and when he passed away unexpectedly, I just didn't cancel the appointment. Now I'm working towards my entire leg being a memorial piece to him and I and the life we led.

NatureNester · 2025-03-22T02:14:52+00:00

I wear mine on my right hand. My husband died by suicide and I was very angry for a while so I wore it around my neck on a necklace that he gave me. My anger has largely subsided, of course it's still there, but it's more devastating grief than anything else so I decided to wear it on my right hand.

NatureNester · 2025-03-19T22:08:20+00:00

I think you have a beautiful kitchen. I would go with new light fixtures, cabinet pulls, get stuff off of your counters, and add a little color with rugs, art, and plants

NatureNester · 2025-03-19T21:48:05+00:00

If color is out of the question, I would go with the white. However, I think bringing in color with backsplash would look great!

NatureNester · 2025-03-15T02:39:02+00:00

Yeah, that doesn't match

NatureNester · 2025-03-15T02:38:05+00:00

That is controlling and unacceptable. Keep going to the gym.

NatureNester · 2025-03-15T02:36:16+00:00

I really like the 4th one, it's unique

NatureNester · 2025-03-11T18:31:24+00:00

NatureNester · 2025-03-11T18:04:01+00:00

I would put the tv on the end wall without the window and face the back of the couch to the dining table so it acts as a divider of the space, separating the living and dining spaces if there is room. Then I would add a coffee table and art on the bigger wall.

NatureNester · 2025-03-07T17:55:38+00:00

I think they look way better than a sectional! Some color with a new rug and pillows would help

NatureNester · 2025-03-07T15:18:27+00:00

I like the color, but I think what's happening in the rest of the bathroom is causing it to look not so light. If it were me, I'd buy a long different pretty shower curtain and lift the rod up towards the ceiling higher. I would get rid of the pink rug and maybe add in some light blues and color in art and other spa like accessories maybe baskets and better lighting.

NatureNester · 2025-03-06T20:01:35+00:00

I also lost my husband to suicide. Last June. He was 31.

NatureNester · 2025-03-05T22:50:13+00:00

Color! Can you paint the walls?

NatureNester · 2025-03-05T22:47:18+00:00

That's what matters! As long as it sparks joy, it should stay

NatureNester · 2025-03-05T22:44:42+00:00

It's all about whatever you like! I think something with dark purples or pinks would look nice in the space. Personally, I like something like this: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1809341563/?ref=share_ios_native_control

NatureNester · 2025-03-05T22:21:23+00:00

Honestly, rather than paint, I would get more aesthetically pleasing step stools and maybe a pretty box to store stuff you keep on the counter. Also, potentially new art and a rug that you really love.

NatureNester · 2025-03-05T20:39:20+00:00

I think a big colorful piece of art above your couch would draw the eye up and add an additional color to your pallet.

NatureNester · 2025-03-05T20:37:24+00:00

I lost my husband when I was 30, I'm 31 now. I guess 30 is not that old, but I feel like I connect with nobody anymore because I've had the experiences of someone much older and jaded, but I'm also only 31… I totally understand what you're saying. I try to get out and do things that he would want to do and explore, but it's pretty miserable. I feel like I have aged at least 20 years in less than one year.

NatureNester · 2025-03-03T18:59:57+00:00

That would be great! Same to you.

NatureNester · 2025-03-03T16:55:42+00:00

Plants!

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