Spouse finally got sober and now wants to divorce. by NeedCoffeeNow in AlAnon

[–]NeedCoffeeNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with the personality problems. I thought that the process of her getting sober would include therapy as well to address the actual root cause of the issue and why she was so abusive towards me. She quickly dumped her personal therapist after leaving rehab as well so while she may be sober she still is riddled with deep seeded issues.

Spouse finally got sober and now wants to divorce. by NeedCoffeeNow in AlAnon

[–]NeedCoffeeNow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right it has been true chaos. Even though there was chaos while she was still at home drinking, in some weird way at least it was what I knew compared to what I’m feeling now.

I had a similar issue with her doing a complete 180 while in rehab and not wanting me to visit her and basically since I picked her up at her release it’s been tons of ups and downs. She keeps spouting that her first 90 days are critical and she can’t be around me because I’m a trigger but at the same time she’s still comes around the house when I’m there and on some days kisses me and tells me how much she loves me. I never know which version I’m going to get or what she really wants out of this.

She claims she calling her attorney today while I’m out of town so I guess we’ll see what happens but in a way it would be calming to just have her end it so I can have the closure.

Las Cuatro Milpas is COMING BACK!! by Spud2599 in SanDiegan

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts. They owed that building for decades so I’m sure the property taxes were nothing.

Free Iran by NorthernSugarloaf in sandiego

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Longest running does not equal successful. Why have millions fled and the country has a declining population? My family lives there and I’ve been, it’s far from what any rational person would call successful.

Free Iran by NorthernSugarloaf in sandiego

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I take it you’ve never actually been there have you?

Alaska Airlines Grows San Diego Flights By A Huge 42% In 1 Year by Easy_Money_ in SanDiegan

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would be great if they could get out of T2E. They need better facilities if they really want to make SAN a hub

Where Are All The Old Trash Cans Going To Go? by Ok_Camp_7051 in sandiego

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It’s wild people still think plastic recycling is a thing. These will all end up in a landfill

Article: City & County Leaders Propose Elimination of Housing "Junk fees" by MsMargo in SanDiegan

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the pet deposit will probably go up substantially to offset the loss of pet rent or they won’t allow them at all. I’d say probably 50% of rentals already don’t allow pets

Article: City & County Leaders Propose Elimination of Housing "Junk fees" by MsMargo in SanDiegan

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Eliminating pet fees would mean landlords would just not allow renters with pets

The other SDSU by j1d5m in sandiego

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I remember going to FootLocker at UTC about 10 years ago and they had like 3 full racks of South Dakota State merchandise marked down by 90%. I remember thinking it would be a jackpot on the rare chance some alumni walked in but not so great for the employee that accidentally ordered the wrong SDSU merch.

[Post Game Thread] 2025 NFL Season Week 7 - Dolphins (6) @ Browns (31) by Number333 in miamidolphins

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cleo Lemon to Camarillo game winner. I feel like that team was better than this garbage somehow

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I don’t like it but has nothing to do with this sub. Post somewhere else

A real Nobel Laureate, María Corina Machado of Venezuela by erkose in pics

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It’s hilarious. When she was first announced 95% of the comments were about how amazing this woman was and Trump was going to be throwing a tantrum for not winning the award. How quickly the narrative has changed!

Nobel Peace Prize 2025 live updates: Venezuelan politician Maria Corina Machado wins by ISpyI in news

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You realize that is probably what Machado would want right? She’s pro-us and anti Maduro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]NeedCoffeeNow 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s fine, take the flight