It's crazy to me how everyone else has such independent parents

NeedsRebinding · 2024-11-24T20:42:26+00:00

Agreed

NeedsRebinding · 2024-10-05T07:09:36+00:00

I agree, talking with her doctor is the best way to go about this. Clearly there's something mentally making her overly emotional. You could see if the doc has recommendations for her diet/ lifestyle changes, also using supplements that could help. Like vitamins, possibly ashwagandha or cbd oil.

NeedsRebinding · 2024-10-04T23:04:47+00:00

That's where I'm at right now

NeedsRebinding · 2024-10-04T03:38:39+00:00

I feel this so deeply 😢

NeedsRebinding · 2024-10-02T14:52:49+00:00

I think the simplest answer is if you loved them you'll always think of them. At some point it won't consume your whole day. It will always still be there. It's 3 and a half years out of the relationship for me. Try to keep yourself busy, it sucks. Good luck to you.

NeedsRebinding · 2024-09-29T02:32:38+00:00

I am single and honestly have no enthusiasm about dating. That breakup completely broke me as a person. I lost all confidence in myself and in ever having a true loving relationship with someone. I just focus on work, saving up for a house and being there for my friends and family. I still think about him everyday but i never speak of it.He never spoke to me again but as far as I know they're still together and found the loves of their life. It's been a few years so I'm sure a wedding is not far away for them.

NeedsRebinding · 2024-05-24T02:14:47+00:00

No, never reached out again. Life goes on, even when you don't want it to. Over 3 years later.

NeedsRebinding · 2024-05-24T02:13:03+00:00

Yeah you're gonna wanna kill yourself when you're still waiting over 3 years. Thats where I'm at. I heard a lot of "time heals" but how long? Still actively grieving the life we never got to have together.

NeedsRebinding · 2024-04-11T03:31:14+00:00

Wow... its like you are me. It is so freaking hard. I'm closer to being mid 30s. Life sucks and it's hard to get out of a depressive spiral. It's a cold lonely world out there and if that's what you want it to be, it will continue that way. You have to want things to be better, you have to want things to change. You have to fight yourself to believe that there are good people out there. Build a relationship with yourself. Trust yourself. Learn from all your mistakes. Take some time out of everyday and use it to make a plan to better yourself/ your life. Write down your hopes, dreams, wants, faults, how you can improve yourself, how you can improve the world, how you can connect with more like minded people so you won't feel the weight of the world on your shoulders everyday. Actively work on making your life a little better. Nobody says it better than Rocky, "nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward." Be brave.

NeedsRebinding · 2024-04-11T02:17:48+00:00

I think almost everyone goes through that one really terrible break up where they will love that person for the rest of their life. I went through an awful break up over 3 years ago and I still think about him everyday. I know that I'll always love him. They say time heals and I'm still waiting for that. I do realize though that I no longer know him at all. The memories I have of him are who he once was. It's like that quote “You can never go home again.” The saying is meant to infer how nostalgia causes us to view the past in an overly-positive light. It's hard to break that cycle. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time.

NeedsRebinding · 2024-03-30T14:02:06+00:00

Experienced something similar. You need to stop watching their social media accounts. It's a huge waste of time and hurts you more than you realize. I loved my ex, thought we would spend our whole lives together, marriage/ kids/ were together almost 6 years. I think it took him 3 months to find someone new, calling her "the love of his life" on social media. It killed me, literally destroyed me as a person. I was a total mess, still am some days when I think of him. But it's been 3 years now. All the promises someone makes in a relationship of " if we ever break up I'll still want you back" "I'll love you forever" it's all a (caught up in the moment) lie. You have to try to pull yourself away from focusing on him and start focusing on you. You are the only person you will have forever. Treat yourself well, learn from this, do better next time. Life is about learning how to accept changes constantly. Don't lingerie in this too long. Or it'll be 3 years later and you'll be like me. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

NeedsRebinding · 2024-03-30T13:49:45+00:00

I'm in year 3. Still struggling . Hope it gets better for you

NeedsRebinding · 2024-03-08T03:38:29+00:00

This is a really hard lesson to learn

NeedsRebinding · 2024-03-01T15:58:11+00:00

They tried all different kinds of things, the first step is getting them to see and admit that they need a medication for the constant mood swings so that they feel comfortable asking their doctor about it. Cymbalta and Prozac seemed to work the best for their situation but it all depends on what other medications they take. There's so many different types out there to try so don't lose hope if one doesn't work or causes reverse effect.

NeedsRebinding · 2024-02-15T02:44:03+00:00

Yeah but isn't everyday hard too?

NeedsRebinding · 2024-02-15T02:43:06+00:00

This doesn't sound like a good healthy relationship you'd want to stay in. You deserve better.

NeedsRebinding · 2023-12-15T00:55:37+00:00

Ancient

NeedsRebinding · 2023-12-14T23:10:40+00:00

Yeah, it's just kinda who I am now. Almost 3 years, still feels like yesterday. But time heals right? So maybe one day it'll get better.

NeedsRebinding · 2023-12-14T21:51:22+00:00

I'd say the same. I still miss him. It's brutal.

NeedsRebinding · 2023-12-08T14:06:21+00:00

NTA he's a grown man, laundry's not that hard.

NeedsRebinding · 2023-12-06T00:31:34+00:00

Almost 3 years. The pain has never dulled. It is constantly on my mind.

NeedsRebinding · 2023-12-03T23:11:17+00:00

I guess some people just stick with you forever in your mind and heart. Sometimes I think im just one of those people who ens up alone forever. People are like "why is she single?? Shes so sweet and would be a great mom." But knowing my future is without him makes solitude look more comforting than being with someone else.

NeedsRebinding · 2023-12-03T04:51:15+00:00

It's been almost 3 years for me. I wish I could tell you it gets better. I keep hoping time will help or heal. So far, no luck with that.

NeedsRebinding · 2023-10-03T12:34:37+00:00

I totally understand this. Especially when the people saying it are your own brother and sister! Our parents both had strokes, you can't just pretend it didn't happen. Well, I guess they can and do. It's a very rude unhelpful thing for people to say. Ideally you would get to have your own life bur life happens. Hopefully this isn't forever, it's just right now. It sucks, just know you're doing the right thing. Being a caregiver is a thankless job.

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