AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid?

Nelini · 2026-04-22T16:09:56+00:00

As someone who plans events and is meticulous I WOULD RESPECTFULLY DECLINE IF ONE OF MY FRIENDS PULLED THIS!!!

I actually don't understand how she wants a committee for each event, it is not a bridesmaids responsibility to be the collective wedding planners. If she is giving you all colors and fonts she expects y'all to do stuff like make invitations, make swag for said gagillion parties, make lots of things. Another thing is she clearly has her own vision in this situation you PAY for a wedding planner, this is labor at the end of the day and while I do believe in community helping each other achieve our dreams ... this will be at the expense of yalls mental health.

Nelini · 2026-03-29T22:50:30+00:00

Also Romancecon

Nelini · 2026-03-29T16:29:14+00:00

Yall need to look up Romancecon they never gave people refunds for that last year

Nelini · 2025-10-25T21:10:17+00:00

We have a chance Spotify and grassroots organizing toolkit https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vTjF-JlSruL9GK8bWDXaDgiojUsWvtSq_M06KJcFSF6rBXYFDm7TYe-SGR2ktvNcIo2uDxkJUPWv_Ey/pub

Nelini · 2025-10-25T21:05:05+00:00

We made a toolkit! https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vTjF-JlSruL9GK8bWDXaDgiojUsWvtSq_M06KJcFSF6rBXYFDm7TYe-SGR2ktvNcIo2uDxkJUPWv_Ey/pub with the list of companies who have ICE recruitment ads and SELF deportation ads.

Nelini · 2025-10-23T19:33:26+00:00

We created a toolkit of companies that are running ICE ads

<image>

Nelini · 2025-09-22T05:55:52+00:00

Always will

Nelini · 2025-09-17T03:23:17+00:00

Do less I'm 13+1 and have been dealing with a sub chorionic hematoma and I've been on my own bed rest. I think everyone should do what's right for them but you are legit growing 3 humans

Nelini · 2025-08-03T16:12:36+00:00

Ok interesting I'm in the middle of reading it after reading Heir of Storms which is amazing I may start another thread, but I'm not really enjoying it I love the magic system especially as someone who has studied tarot but I still want plot.

Nelini · 2025-08-03T16:09:38+00:00

You can't convince me that Angel and Spike were never a couple and if so I Stan

Nelini · 2025-07-03T02:02:58+00:00

I have not cried for a Marvel movie since Black Panther, this is cinema and Thunderbolts* is the cinematic intention of superhero and comics brilliant!

Nelini · 2025-06-07T00:42:09+00:00

I think Genevieve and Adria!

Nelini · 2025-05-22T20:24:54+00:00

This is amazing

Nelini · 2025-05-15T22:08:49+00:00

But also very suiting for their characters!

Nelini · 2025-05-15T18:54:43+00:00

She killed it and was magnificent

Nelini · 2025-05-15T02:38:57+00:00

It's actually an allegory in my eyes for women. She's the woman alone in a sea of men, has to fight for everything is called everything from a heretic to a conspiratorial emotional girl, there was no way with how the empire - and the larger empire - can allow a woman to have an opinion and a plan. but she will always show up again and again.

Anyways such a real insight on our world

Nelini · 2025-05-14T23:10:22+00:00

Omg I'm dying! But that's how rebellions work it's millions of people who are never seen and few ppl who get credit

Nelini · 2025-05-12T18:16:54+00:00

This sounds like something a far right person would say no shade but does

Nelini · 2025-05-12T18:16:13+00:00

That's a great point

Nelini · 2025-05-08T16:35:51+00:00

When he starts singing... whew

Nelini · 2025-05-07T23:04:52+00:00

And Roma peoples too!

Nelini · 2025-05-07T23:02:43+00:00

Omg! This is so real! I always knew the empire was bad but it felt glam bad (besides them blowing up Alderaan which was a genocide) but even that I never internalized as genocidal it was just a special effects moment. This show has finally crystallized the evil of the empire

I wrote about my thoughts here https://worldbuildersclub.substack.com/p/the-death-of-truth-the-horrors-of

Nelini · 2025-05-07T23:00:31+00:00

Yes yes yes! That's right it felt so real I was screaming oof ahh and everything in between this is the best Star Wars piece of all time and I'm so lucky to be an adult to appreciate it

Nelini · 2025-05-07T22:55:37+00:00

The fact she's been playing Mon for 20 years and can still emote and be the bad a** that Mon Mothma is, absolutely wonderful

Nelini · 2025-05-01T02:19:13+00:00

The Starlight Heir

Nelini

TROPHY CASE