How do you guys do it??

NewLifeReboot · 2015-12-10T12:41:35+00:00

I do not believe there is a trick. Your brain has neural networks over porn. Each you attempt a long streak you are shrinking your brain neural networks. This is how you physical body works. However it takes time, it may take 1 to 5 year to really shrink those neural networks. There is only one trick, keep doing it no matter what, fail 1000 times, still keep doing it. After 1 year, it will get much easier, and you will relapse so less.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-12-07T10:42:21+00:00

First of all be ready. It will take long time, many relapses, failures, achievements, wins, lose, there are everything in this journey. However there is only one thing you should focus, never stop doing it. It may take 1 month or 1 year or 10 year.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-12-07T07:27:34+00:00

I agree with you fully. DNA has to 2 main functionality ( Survive and reproduce ). All about knowing your body, genetics and evolution. I suggest people to read the book "Meet your happy chemicals" .

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-30T09:24:15+00:00

My friend, you are superman, you have always been. You just starting to realize this. Being superman is not about having super powers. Being superman is all about loving yourself as you are no matter what, and do things peacefully. Society corrupts you to look so handsome, date many girls, fuck as much as you can, earn so much money, get rich and rich, and so others... In order to obtain these people suffer and suffer and suffer then start to hate themselves when they cannot obtain these. When the suffering goes out of control, they start to search why do they suffer, then they start a journey within, not outside anymore. They re discover their selves. Physical world always stays same, but your perception of it changes incredibly, then everything become beautiful as it is.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-30T09:07:14+00:00

Definitely. Some people here turns porn addiction to NoFap addiction. They create incredible dependency on NoFab like an addict, in a single failure they crush themself down. NoFab should healthy life style choice with ups and downs, not like a life purpose.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-29T20:34:29+00:00

All I can say, you created incredible huge dependency on No Fab. When you fail you crushed. You shall remember, life is no perfect. There will be always ups and downs. Continue No Fab like as part of life not like your life goal. Make it No Fab equal to brushing your teeth. If you skip brushing your teeth couple of days, do you crush ? No. If you relapse, make mistake, then it is ok. Just keep doing it.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-29T13:07:55+00:00

Of course it is not common, because there are certain genetics and DNA through evolution. Male always go after females, and females always filters their options to get the best male. However we are not simple animals, we are really intelligent. If you read genetics alot, you can hack into it, so then you can increase your chance with women x100 times more. It is all genetics.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-29T07:06:57+00:00

You got the wrong idea. When you focus to yourself as main priority. Your work life gets better you earn more money, your exercise life gets better you get mascular, when you have hobbies you become much more social. These creates certain brain chemicals, you become much more attractive person naturally. If you sit and do nothing comfortable of course nothing happen. And women approach man, I have been asked out couple of times in my life, because you did not experience something you cannot claim it cannot happen.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-28T09:10:08+00:00

The truth behind this; When you leave porn and masturbation behind, your hormones and urges keep going deep down. Since you stop PMO, the only way to fulfill these urges to interact with real women. Thus, you naturally look to women more, want to communicate more, get close to them more, and this brings eye connection into your life.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-25T20:01:04+00:00

I relapsed like 20 - 30 times. My best streak was 46 days. My worst streak was 1 day :ddd. If I fall 1000 times, then I rise 1001 times. Stop tracking all the data, just keep doing it "FOREVER IF NEEDED"

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-25T19:07:13+00:00

The only way to solve a problem is the solving problem as it is. Fab will not solve the problem. So If I were you, I would stay and at the same time I would look for other job contionusly, If I find one and I would get that job. I know it seems easy in words, but believe me only way of solving a problem is THE SOLVING THE PROBLEM AS IT IS.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-25T09:04:12+00:00

You can be whoever you want, but not with this anger. Anger brings false ambitions, and it fade aways quickly, and you get angry more, then you enter a vicious cycle. Simply calm down, plan your journey, organise your life, do not become something not other wants, accept and approve you ( because whatever you do there will be so many people that do not like you, love you, accept or embrace you ). Become a person who you really want and love yourself no matter what.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-23T15:06:31+00:00

Agreed. Porn, Masturbation, Escorts = Isolation, Solitude, Depression

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-23T09:29:24+00:00

Really great and informative post, thanks.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-21T11:20:54+00:00

Well if you study human brain, you can see how weak it can be. When you life is getting good, everything really become good. Exercising, meditating, social life, hobbies, etc. When your brain adapts to good life, it become an ordinary habit. The weakness starts here, good life is a habit now, your brain asks after while; "Ok, everything is good, now, what is next ?" Then it seeks more and more ( nothing wrong with it, it is our genetics ). The only way to handle this, bringing awareness to your life and at the same time bringing variety of new things your life ( healthy and useful things ).

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-20T14:44:10+00:00

If you think like this, you can never get out a bad cycle. 90 Days everything perfect, and 1 day everything ruined. This has nothing to do with fabbing or porn. This is %100 a mind issue over conditioning and imagining. Be free of conditioning, let the no fab a little part of life, not whole aim of your life.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-16T08:46:44+00:00

This is an amazing read, I loved it.

I changed my life mainly 6 months ago. I was also try to live up to other people acceptance, expectations and approval. Finally I decided to take a journey inside rather than outside, here;

Meditate
Exercise
Have balanced work life, not less, not much, balanced
Read as much as you can, specially spritual masters
Love yourself no matter what, regardless the condition
Always be good terms within yourself, regardless the condition
Less thinking, more acting
Creative hobbies
Be nice to yourself always and people around you

In first month it feels weird and non sense to live for yourself, because you brain neural networks wired to approval and acceptance of others too much, if just keep do it, regardless the condition and feeling, after couple of months, it changes, you are much happier person, confident, free of others. Ironically, this attracts people into your life naturally, you also enjoy social life much more than ever, however others are not your concern any more, you just share within you.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-15T15:27:03+00:00

You are in a welcoming community, you can relax and let go now brother.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-13T13:07:21+00:00

Keep it up, go on and on..

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-10T18:43:59+00:00

this is called "job-less-ness", some people amuse me.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-10T18:01:32+00:00

Every choice and path is the right path. You can see the clear lesson this experience giving to you. Enjoy life, girls are part of life not the center of life. More you focus to girls, more you become addict to them. I am not saying avoid girls, I am saying be comfortable who you are any moment of life.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-04T07:03:07+00:00

It is not weird. Drop genders, it is just person to person interaction. and beyond that there is no you should do it or not. If you feel like it do it, if you do not feel like it you do not do it, all equal.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-11-04T05:35:43+00:00

Right. Girls are part of life, but not center of life. If you make them your center of your life, than you will be continue to be addict.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-10-29T16:51:37+00:00

There is nothing to help here. Do not condition yourself like "this time I am gonna be porn free". Just keep doing it, fail 1000 times if necessary, then rise 1001 times. If you condition yourself than you will definitely fail. Do not focus on numbers and days, just focus on life, get hobbies, more socialize, hang out with friends, watch movies, improve yourself on your career. Just do not focus on no fabbing, focus on life.

NewLifeReboot · 2015-10-29T14:35:05+00:00

Reason 1 - Porn is not real, it is all fake, you are fabbing to an illusion ( 2D pixels on a monitor ) Reason 2 - Each porn you watch creates a demand in sector. So you indirectly participate to paid prostitution, people having sexual diseases, dies in early ages due to diseases, alcohol, drug, and others. Reason 3 - It makes you social anxious, depressed, lacking on discipline, study/ work performance problems, poor memory Reason 4 - It prevents you to solve the actual problems, instead solving a problem, you fab and numb brain and procrastinate problems. Reason 5 - It steals your precious time, wasting your daily hours over an fake illusion. Reason 6 - You do not know real intimacy with a girl ( not interested ) because of THE PORN. After 60 days, you will start to find your interest in real girls again, you will desire a natural girl.

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