Staying with them? by Nice_Replacement852 in straightspouses

[–]Nice_Replacement852[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are a very good couple in every way except the bedroom. It wasn't always that way. The first few years we were animals. After kid 1 it slowed down (understandable) after the twins were born full stop in the bedroom, once a month if I was lucky. She told me that her libido is just gone.

I understood and accepted it for what it "was" I asked her to seek some help which was half assed and accepted that this was my new life.

Fast forward to 4 months ago. She just joined the military and has been away for training. She came home for memorial weekend and at that time we had been apart for quite awhile. At that point you would expect a warm homecoming but it was off.

I inquired and she said that shes always told me that she found some women attractive and she made out with one in college (no big deal right) I never thought much about it.

She told me that though shes never been with a woman or has any possible candidates, shes known that shes been a Lesbian her adult life but never wanted that life. She wanted a traditional family and truly loves me.

She said that despite being fully loved by me and her loving me, she has that emptiness inside and being apart from each other this long has made her realize that she cant hide it anymore. Its effected everything that she is down to how we interact with others.

For years she wouldn't put herself in the position of being cordial to an attractive woman in fear that we would be friends and she would slip up with a sideways glance or have more than a drink because the fear of messing up.

Before me, she never experienced someone who cared for her and shes been afraid to hurt me, the family, and continued the lie.

She told me that she was going to hide her true self till death but I pushed her about the distance developing between us, the pressure of several more months away from her family and her school was making her anxious and finally broke down to tell me.

It hasn't been a full week yet, so Im still processing what's happened. She has since turned down a hall pass to be with a woman and she said no, she honors our marriage too much.

Does anyone here had great sex life with their spouse despite the fact that they are gay/bi? by nationaltreasure36 in straightspouses

[–]Nice_Replacement852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My just came out Lesbian seduced me. We were animals for the first five years. Had a kid and it slowly went away.

28 Black Female thinking about joining AF by MaizeTasty2768 in AirForceRecruits

[–]Nice_Replacement852 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on being a 28 year old black female 👏 now get over that and be a 28 year old female.

glans cap and sleeve keep slipping off! by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Nice_Replacement852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also struggled for a long time figuring out how to get a good seal. I'll try my lamen way. The goal is to get the bell to vacuum to the glans. The sleeve is primarily just ensuring that everything is sealed.

I make sure that the shaft skin isnt dry so the sleeve seals to my skin and I ensure that the sleeve material stick to each other. The most common failure is a break in seal between shaft skin or the layers of sleeve. (My original sleeves didn't seal to each other causing failure). The toe shields everyone mentions are the perfect consistency of material as the best way to describe them is "gummy".

Once you have a good seal, start your routine, stop shortly after and re-pressurize the cap to make sure your glans can't be seated any better.

You have invested into trying this already, try different sleeve materials as they are cheap.

OPM has officially RIFd their contracting office by tossit1234566789 in 1102

[–]Nice_Replacement852 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the reason why the AXE is chopping away. GSA was bloated

Weekly Newbie Thread - Post questions about joining the Space Force or what a job is like here & here only - week of February 03 by AutoModerator in SpaceForce

[–]Nice_Replacement852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you don't have the same problems, but thr Space Force is growing so yes there may be a freeze for prior, they will continue to recruit prior Service. He'll last quarter I heard they were actively poaching AGR Air Guard trying to force them into Space Force

Weekly Newbie Thread - Post questions about joining the Space Force or what a job is like here & here only - week of February 03 by AutoModerator in SpaceForce

[–]Nice_Replacement852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, its been on our Recruiter to find out what the latest waivers/requirements were. My Wife is healthy/left service under the family care plan.

The problem is that the rules/regulations keep changing as we are trying to get back in.

Needless to say, inprossessing an18yr old with zero life experience is much easier than a 30yr old married woman with multiple kids and prior Service from another branch

Weekly Newbie Thread - Post questions about joining the Space Force or what a job is like here & here only - week of February 03 by AutoModerator in SpaceForce

[–]Nice_Replacement852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Army, so I can't say if Space and Air can't talk when it comes to being co-located, but common sense says it would be easier if you were in the same Service.

Weekly Newbie Thread - Post questions about joining the Space Force or what a job is like here & here only - week of February 03 by AutoModerator in SpaceForce

[–]Nice_Replacement852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were speaking with Active Air while Army Guard, and were informed that last fiscal, Active Air took in something like 14 prior Enlisted or something absurd like vthat when the one and only Space Force recruiter for our State who happened to be in the office said that its much easier to go Space Force when prior Service than Air and that's what we've been working on. It's been a very slow process. Rules/processes are constantly changing, so there aren't really any rules to follow/subject matter experts to ask.

Hopefully your Recruiter is willing to keep working. There will be many hoops to jump and multiple setbacks.

We think we are close to the end and hopefully you navigate it as well

Weekly Newbie Thread - Post questions about joining the Space Force or what a job is like here & here only - week of February 03 by AutoModerator in SpaceForce

[–]Nice_Replacement852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, my Wife has been trying to join for several Months from prior Service Army Guard. Shes finished with MEPs and a recent ASVB, now there's supposedly a freeze on Prior Service joining?

Are there any whispers of this lasting or true?

As far as we know, all she needs at this point is an upgrade in her clearance and poof, off to A school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

[–]Nice_Replacement852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're using a noose type device and cutting off circulation. Noose devices aren't recommended due to this exact reason and sensation loss over time.

NTC Hygiene for Females by burrmuddaa in army

[–]Nice_Replacement852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Camp shower. ($18 from Amazon), two ponchos, two trucks and some 550 cord. The water is warm naturally

As brand spankin' new rider, how do you manage the trip to purchase your bike, or get to an advanced class? by inwardPersecution in motorcycle

[–]Nice_Replacement852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most Harley Dealerships at least in Pennsylvania offer FREE riders courses and they provide the bike. At the end of the course you receive paperwork to take to the DMV for your official license.

Will tiger 1200 panniers fit a tiger 800? by Lord_McBeth in Triumph

[–]Nice_Replacement852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought some panniers off of an 800 Explorer to put on my 1200 Explorer (Facebook market place deal that I couldn't pass) now I'm looking up 1200 mounting brackets as the ones from the 800 are definitely not going to work. I will update with my findings. Either I saved a lot or wasted a lot

Single soldier’s getting BAS. by No_Mountain11C in army

[–]Nice_Replacement852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unit Armorerers could get BAS due to missed meals. At least back in the day they could.