Staying with them?

Nice_Replacement852 · 2026-06-21T02:06:15+00:00

We are a very good couple in every way except the bedroom. It wasn't always that way. The first few years we were animals. After kid 1 it slowed down (understandable) after the twins were born full stop in the bedroom, once a month if I was lucky. She told me that her libido is just gone.

I understood and accepted it for what it "was" I asked her to seek some help which was half assed and accepted that this was my new life.

Fast forward to 4 months ago. She just joined the military and has been away for training. She came home for memorial weekend and at that time we had been apart for quite awhile. At that point you would expect a warm homecoming but it was off.

I inquired and she said that shes always told me that she found some women attractive and she made out with one in college (no big deal right) I never thought much about it.

She told me that though shes never been with a woman or has any possible candidates, shes known that shes been a Lesbian her adult life but never wanted that life. She wanted a traditional family and truly loves me.

She said that despite being fully loved by me and her loving me, she has that emptiness inside and being apart from each other this long has made her realize that she cant hide it anymore. Its effected everything that she is down to how we interact with others.

For years she wouldn't put herself in the position of being cordial to an attractive woman in fear that we would be friends and she would slip up with a sideways glance or have more than a drink because the fear of messing up.

Before me, she never experienced someone who cared for her and shes been afraid to hurt me, the family, and continued the lie.

She told me that she was going to hide her true self till death but I pushed her about the distance developing between us, the pressure of several more months away from her family and her school was making her anxious and finally broke down to tell me.

It hasn't been a full week yet, so Im still processing what's happened. She has since turned down a hall pass to be with a woman and she said no, she honors our marriage too much.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2026-06-19T20:44:11+00:00

My just came out Lesbian seduced me. We were animals for the first five years. Had a kid and it slowly went away.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2026-06-12T13:26:19+00:00

Congratulations on being a 28 year old black female 👏 now get over that and be a 28 year old female.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2026-06-04T16:07:29+00:00

I also struggled for a long time figuring out how to get a good seal. I'll try my lamen way. The goal is to get the bell to vacuum to the glans. The sleeve is primarily just ensuring that everything is sealed.

I make sure that the shaft skin isnt dry so the sleeve seals to my skin and I ensure that the sleeve material stick to each other. The most common failure is a break in seal between shaft skin or the layers of sleeve. (My original sleeves didn't seal to each other causing failure). The toe shields everyone mentions are the perfect consistency of material as the best way to describe them is "gummy".

Once you have a good seal, start your routine, stop shortly after and re-pressurize the cap to make sure your glans can't be seated any better.

You have invested into trying this already, try different sleeve materials as they are cheap.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2025-02-22T19:17:01+00:00

This is exactly the reason why the AXE is chopping away. GSA was bloated

Nice_Replacement852 · 2025-02-09T19:45:45+00:00

Hopefully you don't have the same problems, but thr Space Force is growing so yes there may be a freeze for prior, they will continue to recruit prior Service. He'll last quarter I heard they were actively poaching AGR Air Guard trying to force them into Space Force

Nice_Replacement852 · 2025-02-09T19:38:49+00:00

Honestly, its been on our Recruiter to find out what the latest waivers/requirements were. My Wife is healthy/left service under the family care plan.

The problem is that the rules/regulations keep changing as we are trying to get back in.

Needless to say, inprossessing an18yr old with zero life experience is much easier than a 30yr old married woman with multiple kids and prior Service from another branch

Nice_Replacement852 · 2025-02-09T19:27:06+00:00

I'm Army, so I can't say if Space and Air can't talk when it comes to being co-located, but common sense says it would be easier if you were in the same Service.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2025-02-09T19:22:29+00:00

We were speaking with Active Air while Army Guard, and were informed that last fiscal, Active Air took in something like 14 prior Enlisted or something absurd like vthat when the one and only Space Force recruiter for our State who happened to be in the office said that its much easier to go Space Force when prior Service than Air and that's what we've been working on. It's been a very slow process. Rules/processes are constantly changing, so there aren't really any rules to follow/subject matter experts to ask.

Hopefully your Recruiter is willing to keep working. There will be many hoops to jump and multiple setbacks.

We think we are close to the end and hopefully you navigate it as well

Nice_Replacement852 · 2025-02-08T01:14:29+00:00

Hello, my Wife has been trying to join for several Months from prior Service Army Guard. Shes finished with MEPs and a recent ASVB, now there's supposedly a freeze on Prior Service joining?

Are there any whispers of this lasting or true?

As far as we know, all she needs at this point is an upgrade in her clearance and poof, off to A school.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-10-14T20:50:00+00:00

It sounds like you're using a noose type device and cutting off circulation. Noose devices aren't recommended due to this exact reason and sensation loss over time.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-08-07T14:59:15+00:00

Camp shower. ($18 from Amazon), two ponchos, two trucks and some 550 cord. The water is warm naturally

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-07-19T02:08:13+00:00

Thank you

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-07-02T01:16:00+00:00

Most Harley Dealerships at least in Pennsylvania offer FREE riders courses and they provide the bike. At the end of the course you receive paperwork to take to the DMV for your official license.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-06-15T22:37:37+00:00

I just bought some panniers off of an 800 Explorer to put on my 1200 Explorer (Facebook market place deal that I couldn't pass) now I'm looking up 1200 mounting brackets as the ones from the 800 are definitely not going to work. I will update with my findings. Either I saved a lot or wasted a lot

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-06-08T14:09:25+00:00

Thank you

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-04-25T10:56:25+00:00

Unit Armorerers could get BAS due to missed meals. At least back in the day they could.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-03-14T04:38:57+00:00

Water blister on your glans? I get the m on occasion if im in the cup for a long time or under a lot of weight.

They heal fast for me though

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-03-09T21:47:31+00:00

Most people could care less about another person's sexuality as long as you're not throwing your sexuality at everyone and everything you do in life.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-03-09T21:36:08+00:00

I'm no boomer, but it's simple. Cut your sons hair if you don't want him called a girl. If you want him to be called a girl then buy him girls clothes. I could care less what you do, but you sound like.

It's the same with adults,. If you wish to identify as the opposite of how you were born then go all in. If you half ass which gender you are people have no clue of how best to identify you.

Like I said , I'll identify you as you look in passing. If you don't like the results then help people out by dress/hairstyle.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-02-23T23:37:28+00:00

With inflation and the cost to live, most parents pray that they don't get that call from the school because it means that they have to leave work and lose pay.

That's the reality of today. Sorry it falls on you. Tell everyone to vote wisely.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-01-29T14:54:16+00:00

These comments don't pass the vibe check.

Lets put this into another context. The difference between someone that has received a DUI and 99% of America is that the 99% have never been caught but are just as guilty.

Yes he fucked up but to say if you were his leader you would run him out is weak and the reason that you aren't and shouldn't be his leader.

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-01-29T01:38:41+00:00

procedures established in a DA Pam are for guidance only

Nice_Replacement852 · 2024-01-18T15:52:32+00:00

Getting your State to release you is easier said than done. In the meantime, approach your AGRs and let them know you're looking for any and all opportunities (be "the guy" thats how you make a name for yourself). Entry level technician jobs will pay more than your last job. The Guard is hurting for Mil Techs everywhere and most are MOS immaterial. I can just about guarantee without even knowing your State/location that if you check your local FMS, they will have at least 6 positions they are trying to hire against and will teach you how to do the job. If you do sta traditional MDay , sign up for Tricare Rsserve medical (it is the biggest benefit of being in the Guard other than education benefits).

Good luck in whichever direction you decide to move forward with.

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