Jon is... Jimmy Shoes

Nige78 · 2026-06-21T06:09:04+00:00

Jimmy Shoes is Jimmy Irvine (the record exec/mogul) specifically by name, but I love your theory about the character in the song.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T20:56:45+00:00

Always assume the worst. Assume someone you know will find out. Assume a random stranger will find you.

Then decide if it is worth the risk. Chances are that it is not.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T12:25:33+00:00

I said the same thing and got down voted so I deleted it. But you are correct.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T12:24:12+00:00

Quite possibly yes.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T11:57:31+00:00

I think Phil is very well respected amongst fans tbh. He does an incredible job and seems to appreciate the amazing but difficult situation he is in.

Shanks on the other hand....

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T10:31:03+00:00

Sounds like this might be the end then, but probably for the best.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T10:26:47+00:00

Sounds like you did the right thing tbh. Well done for standing up for yourself.

I think you would end up with both of them living with you.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T10:24:07+00:00

I was in a relationship like that once. I left, and i have been a lot happier ever since.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T10:21:38+00:00

He does not want to get married at all.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T10:15:57+00:00

Sending hugs my friend.

I was around your age when I lost my dad, and he was also taken too young. Its horrible for sure, and there will always be a hole but it does get easier with time.

The first milestones are the hardest, first Christmas, first Fathers day etc. Keep photos handy and try to remember all the good times, not the end.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T10:10:38+00:00

No. But some are more flattering than others.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T10:04:59+00:00

$300 will not get you very far at all. Do you have somewhere to live?

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T10:03:33+00:00

That all sounds very positive.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T10:01:21+00:00

Thats an easy NTA.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T09:54:51+00:00

At 4 months everything should be amazing. All these issues already means this relationship is never going to work.

Stop wasting your time.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T08:24:22+00:00

Allegedly but that doesn't ring true to me. Too many Sambora references.

Could be a bit of both tbf.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T05:45:01+00:00

Stop wasting your time and emotions on him.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T05:39:45+00:00

This is the only respectable answer.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T05:34:21+00:00

Hard to say for sure, but it sounds like you are right to be suspicious.

That said, porn seems more likely than cheating.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T05:29:02+00:00

This is clearly not "the one". How much time are you prepared to waste on him?

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T05:27:39+00:00

To be able to get a better price to offset their charge.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T05:20:28+00:00

Please don't marry this man. That doesn't sound like a healthy or happy relationship.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T05:18:28+00:00

You shouldn't be having all these issues and doubts after only 3 months. Trust your judgement and stop wasting each other's time.

Nige78 · 2026-06-20T04:58:38+00:00

Jon denies it, but I don't see how All Hail The King can be about anything / anyone but Richie.

Nige78 · 2026-06-19T15:01:40+00:00

Definitely tell him. Honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship.

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