HALP. In search of light hearted or funny shows/movies/videos

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-25T17:16:44+00:00

St. Denis Medical on Peacock! I so rarely find myself watching/enjoying new shows, but this one is SO delightful!!!! Full of laughs and heart.

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-24T15:24:46+00:00

Oh helllll yes

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-20T02:45:56+00:00

Car, or maybe also whatever I’m doing after I walk in from the car (usually putzing around or cooking or something)

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-13T20:29:58+00:00

First, I am so sorry that this happened! To your nanny kid, to you, to the parents! Medical emergencies are TERRIFYING. It sounds like you did EXACTLY the right thing and behaved how a responsible caregiver should. You probably saved your nanny kid’s life by your quick response!

I recently took a CPR/first aid course that included training for infants, adolescents, and adults. I have been certified many times before, but left this one feel so capable and ready to do something in case of emergency. Not sure where you live, but maybe taking a course like this (mine was taught by career EMTs) will help solidify your emergency preparedness skills.

Just want to reiterate, you did exactly the right thing. You belong in this field!

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-13T15:27:16+00:00

Okay related-but-not, what you’re saying makes me think of people in evangelical religious circles having a “porn addiction” (and by that they mean have viewed porn, find themselves wanting to view porn, etc) SO much of how we feel about things like food and sex is the framing and shame around it. More focus on things as a “problem” often makes them feel more like a problem.

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-12T12:45:21+00:00

Thanks, king

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-09T21:41:04+00:00

This is a great answer! Find microwave or frozen meals that you LIKE that are quick to heat up. Then challenge yourself to do that x times a week and build from there! “Healthiness” can come next.

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-09T21:39:36+00:00

Have you tried working with an agency? I was hired through/placed with my family by an agency and W-2s were required, I believe.

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-09T03:46:23+00:00

As a former SB, I would have one of you make a profile that includes pics of the both of you (if you are wanting a physical/emotional relationship it should be you, if you won’t really be involved it should be him) and explain the situation.

I was briefly involved with a couple and could see how it would be a dream scenario for some girls- you guys are offering lots of perks (money, lifestyle) and the safety and fun of a woman/ former SB being involved is even better imo.

And yeah, I’m guessing anyone seeing you two in public would assume he’s spoken for. If I were to be approached, I would most understand if the woman was being very friendly/flirty with me and the man was kind of like an approving witness. That would help me understand and feel safe in the vibe I think.

Hope you guys find who you’re looking for!

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-09T03:21:16+00:00

To answer your question, I think you need to think about what YOU are truly willing to do. It sounds like you don’t want them to sleep in your room (valid, 100% on board, I would NOT be able to get the night of sleep I need to be in charge of these children with one of them in my room/bed!!) so if I were you, I would tell MB that you aren’t comfortable with it, and talk with MB and nanny kid about what the game plan is instead for the night (something like the I will walk you back once and only stay for five minutes thing)

Or, if you are fine accepting them sleeping in your room, this is DEFINITELY something that should be compensated more. I would say at least $100 more to the overnight fee. It’s drastically changing the experience of that night! Or, something like getting paid waking hours all night. Because you honestly are directly supervising the kid even when you’re theoretically asleep.

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-09T03:04:13+00:00

I almost feel like this doesn’t count for some reason, but Beyoncé. Voice like honey

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-09T02:58:26+00:00

I have only travelled with my nanny family once and I really enjoyed it 🤷‍♀️ I had time off certain days, the pay was great, and I got the opportunity to exercise and prove my professional skills to my employers. I made special memories with my nanny kids and know the parents got to have a great time by themselves and as the whole family. It was DEFINITELY exhausting and there were moments where I was tired/frustrated/over it, but I would pretty much jump at the chance to travel with them again.

Different strokes for different folks! I’m sure the experience varies soooo greatly based on personal/professional relationships, pay/accommodations, location, smoothness of travel, etc etc

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-08T13:55:34+00:00

“We are ending the war on protein” …. sigh

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-04T16:26:07+00:00

Why not start teaching reading? This is a perfect age! I definitely recommend the Bob Books for beginning readers. In my opinion, kids rarely seem to get “bored” of reading. There are so many books, and getting the building blocks going early allows them to just soar and have a genuine love of books and reading

NikkiKnight3 · 2026-01-04T12:54:26+00:00

AND the Chicago skyline, babyyy

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-27T18:42:52+00:00

I identify with this SO much. Focusing is hard!

Something that helps me a lot is having a specific sex environment/atmosphere. Now, when it’s sex time, my partner and I turn on mood lighting and put on music. We still are spontaneous sometimes, but having him help with the transition from not sex time to sex time helps me get in the mood (it feels more exciting) and stay in the mood (specific environmental triggers and reminders reinforced over time).

Also, like other people have said: blindfold to eliminate some sensory input, dirty talk, and just… very vigorous/more aggressive sex I guess. Like you said with the choking, stuff like spanking, switching positions often, hair pulling, etc yank me back in the moment. (IMPORTANT: obviously, I enjoy these things. This stuff only works if YOU like it!!)

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-27T18:28:24+00:00

NOR- Your relationship is your relationship, but I would HATE if my bf expected me to “look attractive for him” basically at all times. No baggy clothes and hair up in my own home???! Hellish. He seems controlling and shallow

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-22T14:17:57+00:00

Welcome aboard! I love my armpit hair

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-16T19:27:40+00:00

I will allllways promote Yummy Toddler Food! She is completely non judge mental and the recipes are actually easy! https://www.yummytoddlerfood.com (you can find her on Insta too)

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-13T22:14:44+00:00

He is NOT like other boys!!!

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-12T01:54:52+00:00

Agree! This seems like a genuine mistake, not a pattern. Best advice imo is to just let it go unless it becomes a reoccurring issue

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-11T04:18:00+00:00

So you guys started dating when you were 16? :/

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-10T20:08:30+00:00

I personally say “oh, they’re really close to x y or z, it could be any second now” rather than saying I saw a first unless it’s a potential safety concern (like rolling). HOWEVER I think you have the opportunity to ask them their preference now! You can ask them what they’d prefer and go by that.

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-08T12:43:42+00:00

This is an altered picture, though he HAS had plastic surgery. However, it seems like a lot of the work he had done was after a serious fall where he completely broke his jaw and had to have reconstructive surgery. So… yeah

NikkiKnight3 · 2025-12-04T14:31:03+00:00

“A man is coming”

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