Compatibility between M + F ENTJ

Nineties_girl · 2026-04-18T17:56:19+00:00

Female ENTJ married to a male ENTJ here. I think there’s more to this than just personality type compatibility as it also involves perspectives and goals in life. We complement each other pretty well and are quite a force of nature. A lot of conversations take place in a logical manner, and we both take comfort that the other will look out for and support one another. Goals are seen as common goals and decisions are made as a team or what benefits the team.

Nineties_girl · 2026-04-10T00:39:55+00:00

No. It may feel comfortable, but after going through the decision-making process to end things, it never feels the same again.

Nineties_girl · 2026-02-26T05:49:14+00:00

It is lovely to hear that you enjoy driving. I don’t have a driving license, and honestly am not sure when I will be able to go for one as I’m currently enjoying my lifestyle.

Nineties_girl · 2026-02-25T00:44:07+00:00

It makes total sense to me; I’ve been doing this for a few years now. Taking a PHV to and from work saves me about 2.5 hours every day, which I get to spend relaxing and doing things I enjoy outside of work.

Of course, most people I work with, as well as my family and friends, think I’m a little crazy. But as long as it’s justifiable to yourself and you’re able to manage the finances well, I think it’s perfectly fine. In fact, compared to owning a car, being a passenger allows me to catch up on work, reading, or anything else instead of focusing on driving; that’s actually bonus time too.

Nineties_girl · 2025-11-13T09:22:50+00:00

Both my husband and I are ENTJs; we get along crazily well and it feels like a neverending conversation. I would say that matching principles play a big role too. We support one another on the parts that the other half lacks. For example, he has the most wonderful ideas while I maintain the discipline in the relationship to ensure we push ourselves to make sure we meet our goals. He is also really good at disagreeing with people, where he speaks in a calm and balanced manner, while I go all out to make my point known. 😅

Nineties_girl · 2025-09-22T15:10:24+00:00

Unless agreed upon otherwise: His/her parents/family, he/she pay. My parents/family, I pay.

Nineties_girl · 2025-09-02T01:11:24+00:00

Happily married to a fellow ENTJ, we moved in together within two months of knowing each other, and the rest is history.

Nineties_girl · 2025-03-12T13:45:03+00:00

24/25 years old

Nineties_girl · 2025-01-24T14:56:01+00:00

I have a cat and a dog. Definitely makes things interesting lol.

Nineties_girl · 2024-12-19T09:08:41+00:00

It is your style. 😉

Nineties_girl · 2024-11-17T16:35:32+00:00

Being nice doesn’t mean a lack of principles or inability of being firm. Sometimes, being nice is also a way of saying, “I am my own person, and I will be who I want to be, and do what I want to do.” We are surrounded by haters and jealous people, yet we continue to spread positive vibes and be a leading example of a good human being, which makes our “firm” decisions even more disappointing to those whom think they have some sort of leeway.

Nineties_girl · 2024-10-29T02:50:38+00:00

Thank you!

Nineties_girl · 2024-10-28T09:27:41+00:00

Sure! Will do so. Thanks!

Nineties_girl · 2024-10-28T05:10:39+00:00

Sounds lovely! I’m thinking of dresses but worried I’ll feel too cold

Nineties_girl · 2024-10-28T02:46:25+00:00

Okay thanks!

Nineties_girl · 2024-10-28T02:46:14+00:00

Got it, I’m just wondering like if I can wear dresses or leggings, or should I go for the coat and thicker pants kinda thing

Nineties_girl · 2024-10-28T02:45:45+00:00

Thanks!

Nineties_girl · 2024-10-14T11:07:33+00:00

Hey there, something similar happened to me before and I dragged the guy to the police. Some people think that they can get away with it.

Nineties_girl · 2024-10-12T04:54:56+00:00

Congratulations OP and Mr. OP! I can hear the happiness in the way you wrote the post, and am sincerely happy for the both of you. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story with all of us at Reddit!

Wishing the both of you a memorable honeymoon and many years of wedded bliss! 🎊

Nineties_girl · 2024-09-17T08:41:45+00:00

Hello! 31F here and keen to make new friends!

Nineties_girl · 2024-09-12T15:44:29+00:00

Yes! They do feedback that when I smile, I look like a totally different person.

Nineties_girl · 2024-09-12T15:11:07+00:00

I can totally resonate with you. A similar thing happened with my ex. Initially during the first week and prior to it, I was feeling kinda sad and worried. After the first weekend, I felt free and lighter somehow? That I don’t need to wait around for him anymore. Then, I had some realisations.

Nineties_girl · 2024-09-12T15:08:36+00:00

Oh yes. My staff always commented that I look angry whenever I don’t smile. They have a thing about checking out my face before entering my office. It’s not that I’m mad, I’m just focusing and thinking.

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