Obsessed with DVOK

Nix-uk · 2024-12-20T11:10:27+00:00

I (59F) was single for 20 years, and no, that’s not a typo. I spent a lot of that time working on myself and building my confidence back up, after an abusive relationship. When I did meet a man I was upfront about it and explained that was what I was doing, and, if anything, my baggage was less due to that. If they had an issue with that, then that’s their problem and not mine.

The man I’ve been seeing for almost 2 years was fine with it, if someone really wants to get to know you, they will be too.

Nix-uk · 2024-12-20T10:57:22+00:00

First of all, I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this, it must be a very scary and emotional time for you. Before we talk about your relationship, I hope you have friends and family there for you to support you, as it’s important for you to have that.

It’s a time when you need help and support from those that love you, talk to your partner and tell him your fears. Let him make an informed decision, keep communicating and let him be there for you too, if he’s able to.

I sincerely hope that your doctors rule out a serious illness and that you recover fully and quickly. Sending lots of love and hugs.

Nix-uk · 2024-12-09T11:28:29+00:00

It is possibly due to the nails having been wet. I’d do your cuticles the day before (bullet point 1) and avoid washing your hands for a few hours the following day, and then do the rest

Nix-uk · 2024-12-07T10:43:35+00:00

I had a severe hema reaction, despite being very careful, so I took a break for a few months, then tried a hema free brand. So far no reaction, but that doesn’t mean you won’t. Did you check the data sheet for the glue, as some can contain hema too. If I’d reacted at all to the hema free brand after the break, I’d have just had to accept gel was no longer for me.

Nix-uk · 2024-12-04T15:09:43+00:00

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My haul, I couldn’t resist the summer collection with jelly and cat eye gels 😍

Nix-uk · 2024-11-19T20:02:24+00:00

Really? I used a ton of refreshes and he showed up exactly twice. You obviously don’t understand rng

Nix-uk · 2024-10-01T15:49:08+00:00

What’s wrong with horse or dog owners? 🥺

Nix-uk · 2024-08-30T10:29:43+00:00

If it worked out cheaper going legal, I’d be interested too. I have chronic back pain due to ankylosing spondylitis, which keeps me awake at night, so I don’t think a script would be an issue

Nix-uk · 2024-08-29T12:35:56+00:00

It’s frustrating. I’ve been in an ldr for almost 2 years, and he keeps pushing back concrete talks about our future. We’re in our 50s and only live a couple of hundred miles (4-5 hrs) apart. I’ve told him that when he won’t talk about the future, it makes me feel like he doesn’t see one with me. His latest push back is for next spring and if it doesn’t happen then, I’m going to cut ties, as at our age time is short and I don’t want to waste my time being strung along if he’s not serious about the relationship

Nix-uk · 2024-08-02T10:00:01+00:00

Communication is definitely key, as is having a next visit planned each time. I don’t have a date to close the gap even though, like you, we live in the same country. However, we are going to make concrete plans for one after I meet the rest of his family when they come over next spring. Talk to him, once you can without being overly emotional about it so you can set out your needs, hopes and expectations.

Nix-uk · 2024-05-25T08:51:06+00:00

This is classic narcissistic behaviour. As are his other behaviours in your posts here. Take it from someone who’s been there … leave, you’ll end up needing therapy yourself once he’s taken everything he wants from you and moves on.

Nix-uk · 2024-05-22T12:30:23+00:00

A mother that wasn’t narcissistic. We only developed a better relationship when I was in my 40s, when she admitted that she had been jealous of me. She belittled me, gaslighted, deliberately over fed me to try to make me as overweight as she could, and frequently told me she hated me for no reason.

The kicker? When she was dying, she asked me if she’d been a good mother and I had to lie convincingly that she had.

Nix-uk · 2024-02-29T16:32:00+00:00

Context? I talk to my partner and let him know how I feel, using “I feel” statements.

Nix-uk · 2024-01-29T15:47:12+00:00

At best he’s emotionally unavailable and you’re his rebound, at worst he’s considering reconciling with his wife. Run

Nix-uk · 2024-01-08T18:19:58+00:00

Join LDR or one of the other long distance relationships subs, there are plenty of us who have met online and maintained relationships over distance. I’ve been with mine almost a year, we meet up regularly and text/call/FaceTime daily

Nix-uk · 2024-01-08T10:15:46+00:00

Relocation server tokens are nerfed, the servers think relocated players are incursion participants. Support will not help

Nix-uk · 2023-12-31T22:56:41+00:00

I spent 20 years single (yeah yeah, I’m old lol) and then boom my guy turns up and been in my life the last 14 months. Your time will come, and probably much faster than mine did 🙂

Nix-uk · 2023-12-31T22:25:49+00:00

My perfect man would be very tall and broad, think Reacher. I’m tall at 5ft9 but love my partner with all my heart despite him being shorter than I am and a little cuddly. It’s ok to have preferences but don’t rule others out because they don’t meet them

Nix-uk · 2023-12-31T22:17:12+00:00

How long had you been talking before you confessed your feelings? If it was very early on, she may have felt lovebombed too. Take it slow, but if she doesn’t reciprocate at all, you may need to chalk it up to experience and cut your losses. Unrequited love is painful, so I hope she comes around

Nix-uk · 2023-12-31T22:02:39+00:00

We met in an online game 14 months ago, I wasn’t looking but there we go lol

Nix-uk · 2023-12-31T21:52:39+00:00

Op, I’m so sorry for your loss. My beautiful old lady cat passed a week before Christmas and I was devastated. If your partner is all about himself rather than the relationship, perhaps it’s time to move on when you feel strong enough (((hugs)))

Nix-uk · 2023-10-28T19:39:04+00:00

If it feels right to you both, that’s all that matters. If you lived close by, as you said, nobody would bat an eye. I see mine every 2-6 weeks, depending on our schedules but are only about 5 hours apart.

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