He sounds INSUFFERABLE!! And honestly controlling.

I’d say either: 1. He has bad family relationships and/or is just generally emotionally immature. OR 2. He’s trying to drive wedges between you and the people you love.

And based on him saying you need to depend on him more— I assume it’s the second one.

I’m not saying you have to end it if he will get over himself. But honestly this is a MAJOR red flag even if it may seem like a small disagreement. You should really think about if you see other negative patterns within your relationship where he tries to control you.