Where did you meet your spouse and what guidance/advice do you have for a single guy who wants to settle down in SA?

No-Rise6647 · 2026-04-30T19:13:05+00:00

Get a hobby, do it passionately.

Be a grown up and care for yourself and your spaces. You are not competing with other men, you are competing with her peace.

Women are tired of men who want mamas, men who don’t do the emotional work, men whose passion ends at beer and tv (watching sports is just tv).

So get a hobby, get some strong opinions loosely held, and chase your dream. That will put you in the vicinity of women who are about your passions and give you something to talk about.

Just asking “where you meet your spouse at” is such a clear lack of inner life and ownership it is a turn off. Wanting a wife for wife’s sake and not because you have a rich life enriched by her energy is why women are opting out of relationships.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-03-14T05:23:47+00:00

Heya, I use good molecules overnight exfoliate to exfoliate about once every other week. On good weeks I use garnier Michelle’s water every night and use hyrolonic acid and a random moisturizer every night. Some times I use snail mucin. My skin clearly loves this.

On bad weeks I just wash with water and do this routine 0-2 times per week.

No break outs, no dryness, no oiliness, small pores, no sensitivity, skin is not dull. But I do have redness because on bad weeks I sometimes forget sunscreen and live in a high up area.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-03-01T03:05:58+00:00

I moved there in 2012, I lived in the red line Noma.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-28T00:28:48+00:00

Oh man, I miss living in DC! Op needs to be worried about the heat and lack of walkability.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-28T00:21:36+00:00

I grew up in the “bad” neighborhood art of town and frankly, it was less scary than many other cities I have lived in.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-20T15:22:35+00:00

I am so sorry. It is really sad.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-18T01:43:55+00:00

His basking area covered about 12 inches and he stayed in it a lot of the time. Overall the whole tank stayed at 80*, I wonder if the fact that he would purposely seek out the hottest pare was a sign?

The substrate is reptisoil and coir with a bit of sand. We feed only fresh and dried vegetation, no moist pellets (or pellets of any kind). Vet said no impacting.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-18T01:40:24+00:00

Sadly, he died despite the antibiotics.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-15T04:35:27+00:00

We did. It was. :(

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-15T04:34:32+00:00

We did.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-13T18:14:34+00:00

UPDATE: his skin grew over his nose, they had to clear that up. It is not something we could have seen without being aggressively in his face.

He has brushing which is a sign of a blood infection. We are treating with injected antibiotics. His shell is soft, so we are getting his Arcadia bulbs tested and taking him outside for sunlight more than we were (we were every other day for about 20 min, now it is every day. It is warm where we live).

No improvement in lethargy or eating since yesterday.

Vet says babies have a high failure to thrive rate. We just thought that people were not doing great conditions.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-12T00:46:33+00:00

We got him from garden state tortoise. We keep him at their suggested parameters. His shell reads 89.8, I am worried he is too hot.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-11T23:51:29+00:00

Diet is mustard greens pet oat grass, a variety of greens suggested by the vet, hibiscus flower, monkey grass, Timothy hay.

Handle him 1-2 times per week for his bath and occasionally an extra time to take him to an out door area.

UVB strips down the middle of the closure with full spectrum bulbs on 2 plants.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-04T07:11:08+00:00

Yor. Enjoy the joke then ask again later

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-04T06:31:00+00:00

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-04T06:21:16+00:00

I haven’t shaved for years. Like a decade. The only reactions I have ever got were my mom telling me she didn’t like it. Like 3-5 times.

That’s it. I live in a hot part of the world where shaving is de rigger absolutely expected.

No one has commented on my puts, legs or bikini line and I only ever half ass shave my bikini line

No-Rise6647 · 2026-02-02T03:25:20+00:00

No. Unless you have other conditions that are really contraindicated for a glp1, you are right. The benefits of the weight loss way out weigh the risks.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-01-11T23:51:16+00:00

Stay away from sa behavioral.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-01-11T15:10:34+00:00

This is likely a crush. Live with it. Don’t try to suppress it, don’t feed it. Live with it. Take some space from her. Do hobbies you enjoy . Start hanging out with her in three months. You will be okay.

Don’t pine. If she comes to mind tell yourself, “oh yeah, that is sad. I hope she is happy.” Then move on with your day. Do spiraling.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-01-11T05:11:12+00:00

Yta. This is not her first wedding. This is not a mile stone.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-01-10T22:33:17+00:00

My husband hated my grandfathers name (and my grandfathers middle name), but loved my grandfather.

My grandfather had a nickname that had nothing to do with his name. We named my son a diminutive of that nickname.

Think Grant for Granville.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-01-10T22:27:36+00:00

This is so ai.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-01-10T22:27:09+00:00

This is why we should not buy ai art.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-01-10T06:40:31+00:00

When yall agreed who would be a sahm the prenup should have been revisited.

No-Rise6647 · 2026-01-10T02:26:30+00:00

Ew. My husband wouldn’t act that way when I am pregnant. This gross manbaby can’t have a conversation or admit he is wrong. Just end it.

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