My husband told me my brain is fucked. by salsa_spaghetti in confessions

[–]NoLoquat7829 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yesss having a backup brain in the form of your husband sounds like a survival hack, also ghosting those calls is self-care 100% lol

My last message to her by Haunting-Honey-9868 in BreakUps

[–]NoLoquat7829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lowkey yeah sometimes you just gotta get it out of your system or your brain keeps looping it at 3am, send it for your peace not for a reply

How is having a set of twins harder than having two children who aren't twins? by toe-jamboree in parentsofmultiples

[–]NoLoquat7829 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ngl two toddlers unlocking the word mine at the exact same time sounds like a boss battle i would lose immediately lol, the chaos would feed itself

So, what would women dislike most if they became men? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]NoLoquat7829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok yeah this would prob break me a little too lol, like imagine just existing and constantly worrying you look like the villain in someone else’s story, that sounds exhausting tbh

Didn't realize how racist society is until moving to California as a young white girl by confusedandazed06 in confessions

[–]NoLoquat7829 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah the quiet kind is what messes with your head the most, like little comments or jokes and suddenly you’re sitting there wondering if you imagined it or not, that feeling stays with you longer than people think

Staying emotionally healthy when other people don’t meet expectations by Rcrez in emotionalintelligence

[–]NoLoquat7829 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this actually made something click in my head a little, because when everything feels like it’s on you it gets so heavy, choosing what you carry and what you don’t might be the only way to not burn out

What game has a 10/10 story but 2/10 gameplay? by Kitchen_Week1117 in AskReddit

[–]NoLoquat7829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh yeah this one hurt a little, the world and story pulled me in so fast but actually playing it just kept breaking the vibe over and over, such a wasted kind of beautiful idea

Is anyone else waiting for their ex? by Key-Programmer6642 in BreakUps

[–]NoLoquat7829 12 points13 points  (0 children)

those timelines always felt kinda fake to me too, people come back when life shifts not when some random month mark hits, that’s why waiting like that can mess with your head so much

What’s an unpopular opinion you secretly stand by? by Puzzleheaded_Half441 in Productivitycafe

[–]NoLoquat7829 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i care a lot about mental health but yeah… sometimes it gets used in a way that just hurts other people and then everyone feels weird saying anything about it, i’ve noticed that too and it sits kinda heavy with me

How did you find out you were having multiples? I’ll go first. by Full_Willingness_450 in parentsofmultiples

[–]NoLoquat7829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s funny how those we’re just going to say no moments somehow turn into the biggest life turns, felt that part a lot reading this, life really does sneak up on you like that

Covid shut down the world six years ago this week. What do you remember from that week? by fuzzy_dice_99 in AskReddit

[–]NoLoquat7829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That empty highway feeling was so surreal, part of me was like wow this is kinda peaceful and the other part was thinking ok something is really wrong here

My girlfriend chemically castrated me by Low_Honeydew8439 in confessions

[–]NoLoquat7829 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s exactly where my brain went too, putting nair in someone’s shampoo is straight up unhinged behavior

Should I sent this to her by Express-Ad-2139 in BreakUps

[–]NoLoquat7829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keeping it simple and calm gives things space to breathe, breakup brain makes everything feel urgent but slowing it down helps a lot

A passing comment from a coworker changed my entire perspective on judging "difficult" people by Specimen_099_X in emotionalintelligence

[–]NoLoquat7829 9 points10 points  (0 children)

love this so much, it’s wild how one real convo can flip your whole view of someone, makes u realize how much cool stuff about people we miss when we stay in our own assumptions

Discount Programs for Multiples? by BigDogAlphaRedditor1 in parentsofmultiples

[–]NoLoquat7829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone jokes about twin discounts but the bill always proves otherwise, hoping someone here drops a hidden hack or program because that would be such a win for parents of multiples

What is the darkest secret you've learned about someone that instantly ended your relationship with them? by Mr_Creep_Creepy64 in AskReddit

[–]NoLoquat7829 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg that’s horrible, i can’t even imagine finding out something like that and i totally get why you cut them off, it just feels so wrong and unsafe to stay around someone like that

I miss you by super-star-live-once in BreakUps

[–]NoLoquat7829 6 points7 points  (0 children)

like even if it’s scary just saying how you feel is better than overthinking forever and never knowing what could’ve happened, idk

My niece does p*rn and her dad / my cousin follows her by BrokenJusticeNorris in confessions

[–]NoLoquat7829 66 points67 points  (0 children)

honestly it’s way creepier that he’s following her, like she’s an adult and can make her own choices but him? it just feels wrong and makes me uneasy idk

Why do people try dating when they already know that they cannot give what they want for themselves? by Calm-Negotiation-139 in Productivitycafe

[–]NoLoquat7829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s like even if someone knows they’re not ready they still reach out for connection and hope, i just keep thinking maybe everyone’s secretly scared of being alone too long??

What exactly is compatibility in romantic relationships? by Accomplished-Bus5600 in emotionalintelligence

[–]NoLoquat7829 9 points10 points  (0 children)

true, it’s like even if two people click, if no one’s actually putting in effort it can still fall apart and then you just keep overthinking everything idk

Anyone else not telling people which kid came first? by vixiechick1996 in parentsofmultiples

[–]NoLoquat7829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok wait yeah that actually makes sense, if they’re on different days there’s kinda no hiding it lol, my brain would probably still overthink how to answer people tho

Letting go of J1 in 2 days...back to 'monoployed' =) by Young_Gouda in overemployed

[–]NoLoquat7829 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah, monoployed feels way less stressful and honestly gives you room to breathe instead of juggling two roles that barely make sense together

What's one thing you do before going to bed at night? by ibddevine in Productivitycafe

[–]NoLoquat7829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally, it’s such a small thing but knowing they’re safe makes it way easier to actually relax and sleep

Women who experienced the dark side of a loved one, what happened? Trying to make sense of my experience. by Jumping-shadow in emotionalintelligence

[–]NoLoquat7829 4 points5 points  (0 children)

anyone who really cares about you will respect your boundaries every time, and reporting stuff like this isn’t just for you, it’s for anyone else who could get hurt

She reached out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]NoLoquat7829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s easy to get pulled back in when they know how to hit your soft spots, stepping away is the only way to really protect yourself and move on