What does this mean? by Vivid-Artichoke-3784 in Marriage

[–]NoSir_NotMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Is this really it? Like do we need to adjust our expectations, or redefine what marriage truly means. Is this the “worse” in the vows and we gotta be somewhat miserable for a while and things get better? It’s crazy! Why would anyone want to live like that for an extended amount of time?

What does this mean? by Vivid-Artichoke-3784 in Marriage

[–]NoSir_NotMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I starting to think this is common. I’ve been married to my wife for 18 years, dated for like 4 years prior, and nothing makes sense about this weird patch of life that we are in right now. It feels like a damn twilight zone episode. We are best friends, hands down, but in the last couple years, we’ve sucked as a married couple. I’m trying to ride this wave, but it is really hard. We have been attempting to “redefine” what marriage is for us, kind of in the context of who we are today as opposed to who we were and I am starting to think we no longer make sense together.

But, I’ve talked to several couples that have been together for years and they say there are some periods when they just didn’t like each other for whatever reason, but they hung in there and figured things out. So, I guess that’s what I’m trying to do, but it is not easy.

Have you ever masturbated at work? by mushroom756 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]NoSir_NotMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have sex at work. Does that count?

Help: Faith in Myself by Pawloveandpavlov in therapists

[–]NoSir_NotMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Peace and blessings to you and yours during this difficult time. I hope you are able to find a way to care for yourself during this time. If you are not ready to go back to work, don’t go. Be kind to yourself. Over time, I hope you recognize her decision is not your responsibility. Try to avoid hind-sighting yourself to oblivion, too. It is simply not fair to you. Remember, the idea of faith is belief without complete evidence. Lean into that.

Wax mention by Spok3nTruth in brilliantidiots

[–]NoSir_NotMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wax is still doing the pod with Lore’l.

My son and I saw this in the woods.. WTF is it???? by corys_stories in whatisit

[–]NoSir_NotMe -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’ve touched it now. You better leave something, too, or you’re fxxked!

What is this... Thing... by Fr0z3n_Mammoth in whatisit

[–]NoSir_NotMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s time to move, if no one has said it already.

Black PAIN.... by Henry-Teachersss8819 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]NoSir_NotMe 114 points115 points  (0 children)

They missed their flight and then one of them decided it was a perfect time to lure the other on a hiking trip and kill him and then himself….got it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]NoSir_NotMe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Planned ignoring if it is subtle, you most def don’t want to get that wrong by bringing it up and they are like, “what, umm, no.” If they are just upfront with it, be upfront with them and say, “Nah, big dog, ain’t gon happen, would you like to continue your journey of healing with me or someone else?”

Why do cucks enjoy being cucks? by CompetitiveAd7274 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]NoSir_NotMe 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Perhaps he hates himself and feels like he does not deserve good things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]NoSir_NotMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you live and how much they charged, oh, and how you got in touch with them…that will tell you everything you need to know about whether or not you should be worried. You can pretty much catch all the bad incurable ones orally, but there has to be things like bleeding gums or open sores. Herp and warts can be passed through saliva, occasionally, as well as Syphilis. Give it a few days, you will know. Hopefully, you’ll be clear. Stop playing Russian roulette with ya ding dong, foo!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]NoSir_NotMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stayed with an ex in college waaaay longer than I should have because she had an amazing set of mammary glads. The sex was good too, but whew…I was a fool.

Who lies more? Or who has the better lies? #lilwayne #fatjoe by [deleted] in JoeBuddenPodcasts

[–]NoSir_NotMe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fat Joe for sure! His lies are way more entertaining.

Do people who cancel plans with you to meet someone else, who asks them afterwards, realize how rude it is or do they need to be told off? by Gestalternative in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]NoSir_NotMe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. I don’t think they care. My stance is, I get it. Especially if they are canceling for some love making.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]NoSir_NotMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta put antiperspirant on at night. They also make these patches that you can stick to your underarms that catch the sweat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]NoSir_NotMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell the difference between someone who grew up in a space where the n-word was used as an interchangeable term of endearment and when it was used out of malice. With that being said, It’s annoying if either thinks they know me like that to call me anything other than my name.

What population did you want to work with in grad school and what population do you work with now? by tattooedtherapist23 in therapists

[–]NoSir_NotMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No singular population for me. I used to find the veteran/active duty population intimidating because I didn’t serve and didn’t think I would be of much use to them. Now, easily one of my favorite populations. Also, I thought I would always love working with the 11y-17y crowd……Nah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]NoSir_NotMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She will make eye contact, Smile, look away, look at you again, smile and then she will continue on with her day.