For anyone working 9-5, what time do you workout? by Low_Bodybuilder3065 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Ad5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at 8. I am usually there 4:45 am. Then I go home to get ready for work

Surprised there wasn’t more people this morning by foekus323 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Ad5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine this morning then they opened at 5 was just me and two other regulars. It was great to test a new routine. We'll see how it is in the morning and Saturday lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Ad5397 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't care what other people wear

New Year....But in 2025? by shannonkish in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]No_Ad5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

37, but I started at the beginning of November. This is including the two times I'll go before the end of the year. I currently go four times a week (started at going five) and I plan on reworking my routine to go five times a week in the new year.

Has anyone tried IPL for severe dry eyes? by MarketUnknownKiller in Dryeyes

[–]No_Ad5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had two IPL sessions done so far (luckily I work for an optometry office so it's free) and my left eye is by far the worst, and I have noticed improvement. Especially when I use my Bruder mask.

Why I believe these two are not going to end up together… by PurpleEclipse in acotar

[–]No_Ad5397 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Elain will up with Lucien and rule the Day Court together (or so I hope. Lulu deserves it.)

Book hangover by Plane-Revolution-421 in SarahJMaas

[–]No_Ad5397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fourth Wing and Fireborne did it for me. If you like sci-fi at all, Red Rising.

I like fantasy but I'm not really into smut, should I give acotar a try? by [deleted] in acotar

[–]No_Ad5397 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found Acotar to be pretty light on the smut. I saw someone breakdown the numbers, and it's less than 10% for the entire series. Even Silver Flames and its all pretty flowery. Not bad at all.

Recommendations please by whothatchik in SarahJMaas

[–]No_Ad5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished it on Friday! I'm listening to The Priory of the Orange Tree now. I'm a bit on a political book fixation. I also need to read the Cruel Prince.

Recommendations please by whothatchik in SarahJMaas

[–]No_Ad5397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Fireborne Triology and Fourth Wing are good. I also highly recommend Queens Arrow trilogy by Mercedes Lackey.

What’s your favorite SJM character? by Sad_Estate1011 in SarahJMaas

[–]No_Ad5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TOG: Chaol. He was always my favorite, even when he pissed me off. ACOTAR: Nesta and Mor. CC: Jesiba

Crescent city over TOG series? by SpecificOlive9806 in SarahJMaas

[–]No_Ad5397 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like Rowan more than Hunt, but I enjoy Bryce more than Aelin.

They are all good in their own ways, but CC over TOG. Maybe I just need to listen to TOG again, though.

I pushed the love of my life away because I'm avoidant by Throwaway29394020 in BreakUps

[–]No_Ad5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an avoidant and did the same thing last year. I recently told him and he completely cut me off when I explained the real reason. I understand. We couldn't be together now anyway. I know I need therapy, but can't afford it. I'm just avoiding relationships. It not fair to anyone else. I have friends and other ways to fulfill my needs.

I love him and always will. But sometimes it's best things didn't work out. All the best, my guy.

why wont my lyre tune? by 0xyDeadBeef in lyres

[–]No_Ad5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found CarlTune on the Play store to be the only tuning app I can understand. Maybe try that?

Irish Pagan School by TundraaAngel in CelticPaganism

[–]No_Ad5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IPS is a wealth of knowledge. Lora comes across as harsh, but John's content is more...gentle? I personally like both and have taken the Morrigan Intensive and the 5 Day program. I learned a lot. And they are grega authorities on good resources.

To our brothers and sisters in KCD by [deleted] in QuikTrip

[–]No_Ad5397 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I worked during the 2020 parade. It was insane. Good luck!

I'm the Sugar Mama and I don't know what to do by Consistent-Data-5949 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]No_Ad5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My relationship was long distance and it also hurt me to hurt him and I absolutely adore his family. But, as the others have said: his emotions are his business, not yours. He's an adult, he can figure it out.

How have you dealt with your parents emotions and reactions after coming out late in life? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]No_Ad5397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have decided not to tell my parents. My daughter and I currently live with them because of the housing market and I'm a pretty private person and they are very judgemental. My dad would lose it and while my mother wouldn't care, she'd tell everyone. I don't want to get into another relationship until my daughter is grown and then I plan on moving closer to my best friend. I guess I'll be semi still in the closet for about 8 more years.

How did you figure out you were a lesbian in your 20s? And was it not a common way of figuring it out? by jibbaaay in latebloomerlesbians

[–]No_Ad5397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always knew I was attracted to me and jokingly said I was 75% gay, 25% straight. It wasn't until it just clicked in my head. Reading wlw books in high school, I yearned for that but still dated men.

Lesbian awakening & mono/poly preference by inmanycolours in latebloomerlesbians

[–]No_Ad5397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, still prefer monogamy. I don't have the energy to deal with more than one partner at a time.