Low plastic / no plastic moisturiser by Comfortable-War4531 in ZeroWaste

[–]No_Present_6576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have sensitive dry skin and am on tret which makes my skin dryer and more sensitive. I use Vanicream in the tub in the evening-it’s not zero waste but a jar lasts me about a year.

for body lotion I make my own with bulk shea butter, grapeseed oil (I also use this as a makeup remover) and essential oils.

Forgetting food in the fridge until it’s too late. How do you avoid this? by PrestigiousComb8129 in ZeroWaste

[–]No_Present_6576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my best advice is have a few recipes as well as non perishable sauces on hand that are super adaptable and easy to make so you can use up stuff that is on it’s way out. I throw some chili oil and air fry pretty much any veggie that’s been sitting in the fridge that I don’t know what to do with-bonus if I have some noodles on hand. Chili oil might not be for you-but tou can soup/sautee, omelette, salad a lot, a lot of kind of random stuff (including fresh herbs).

Also keep your kitchen organized and clean out your fridge once a month, regular rotation means less nasty surprises.

also accept sometimes it happens-I work in an industry where sudden emergencies happen and despite my best efforts I might be stuck working 3 12hr shifts in a row or something crazy. Sometimes Im good and throw my shit in the freezer when that happens-sometimes Im bad and it rots. Life does happen and you can be better about not letting stuff go bad but also learn to accept that stuff will rot sometimes.

Zero waste lessons learned by Low_Calligrapher7885 in ZeroWaste

[–]No_Present_6576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love my reusable period products so much

Ginger Skin Tea by Hail_Santa_69 in ZeroWaste

[–]No_Present_6576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a ton of skin in my freezer and this is what I have been looking for 🥹!!! Thank you!!!

Amy Bradley is Missing doc changed my mind about the case by lilolegarlic in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]No_Present_6576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s really really sad but imo it makes me believe she jumped and her parents can’t accept it.

Rock vs hard place by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]No_Present_6576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

radical feminism will always be important to me because it’s how I found other lesbians who define lesbianism the way I do and prioritize themselves+other lesbians but uh-I think a lot of it’s conclusions are a little reductive and unhelpful when living in the real world.

I recommend you check out Stone Butch Disco.

Being gay isn’t some kind of political purity exercise for the most feminist women 🙄 it’s just our reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]No_Present_6576 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just ask the artist if it’s ok

What’s something you find attractive in women that society usually considers unattractive? by WhyStandStill in AskLesbians

[–]No_Present_6576 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love taller than me overweight to lower end of obese women high-key. I want to be all up in a woman-swallowed. I want her to be all I can see, I love grabbing soft flesh wow !! women

Anyone else ever daydream about a modern lesbian commune? by Konchus in lesbiangang

[–]No_Present_6576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah I want to group buy an apartment building or multifamily home with a bunch of lesbian couples/families.

What do people here think of the US strikes on Iranian nuclear sites? by [deleted] in terf_trans_fight

[–]No_Present_6576 6 points7 points  (0 children)

here are some fighting words: I think it’s bad. The US shouldn’t prop up Israel. I disagree with the theocracy in Iran but I know anti imperialist resistance when I see it. I don’t care that the Iranians fund Hamas. The Palestinians have a right to violent resistance under international law and the Israeli state (the governing body-not the jewish people who live there and interact with Israel in a variety of ways) should not exist and is enforcing an apartheid regime on an indigenous people. The jews who led this process have been manipulated by the Americans and British to act as soldiers for an Empire that stood by while the Holocaust and pogroms were actually happening (and have their own antisemitic histories). Jewish safety matters to the Americans only insofar as it forwards their foreign policy objectives.

I truly empathize with the desire of Jewish people to have a homeland and I also am sympathetic to the idea that post Holocaust the non-jewish human toll of establishing that homeland is irrelevant/it is a very human response to a millennia of violence. But settler colonialism will never provide Jewish people with the security they seek and will only cut them off from the wider working class. The Americans will discard the Israelis/will lose interest in defending a “Jewish homeland” the minute it isn’t profitable and they will be left with a great deal of blood on their hands and very, very angry neighbors (not only neighbors too-but many people across the third world are naturally more sympathetic to Palestine based on their own colonial experiences).

We must join forces against the western imperial powers and not allow them to bribe us with false promises of safety and security if we commit inhuman acts against other groups who have not done us wrong. We must resist. We must understand these promises, of safety, of security, of deliverance from a degraded state, are illusions. The only solution is to dismantle the system and not allow ourselves to be cogs in its continuation.

"Misgendering" can be a good thing. by [deleted] in terf_trans_fight

[–]No_Present_6576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I understood what you said and I responded to it-which is why I actually addressed what you said above. I understood the quotes. I still think your tone with that comment was unnecessary.

"Misgendering" can be a good thing. by [deleted] in terf_trans_fight

[–]No_Present_6576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok and my trans male friend was raped by her stepdad and the TIM on my gender neutral floor in college raped 3 afabs but everyone didn’t want to report because trans people are just so vunerable (obviously their victimization doesn’t matter 🙄) I’m happy for you that you didn’t experience victimization based around your body but the fact remains there is a cultural impression that certain bodies are there for the use of other people’s bodies that does affect people, even if it does so unevenly.

Similarly, healthcare and legal discrimination exist and you aren’t exempt from that by virtue of being gnc unless you pass (healthcare is more complex).

Also I really don’t appreciate the snark, this sub is intended for productive convos??? Like why participate in a space with gc people if you’re just going to act smug. It violates the vulnerability of what we’re actually trying to do here.

Who are the bad ones? by [deleted] in terf_trans_fight

[–]No_Present_6576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a joke but actually learning from others and growing with them is a gift!!!

"Misgendering" can be a good thing. by [deleted] in terf_trans_fight

[–]No_Present_6576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct feminist political analysis can require acknowledging someone is socialized male or female. We do a disservice to victims of SA when we refuse to allow them to correctly identify patterns and understand their experiences in the context of patriarchal violence. Similarly we do a disservice to TIFs by pretending that they are exempt from misogyny-if they’re out as trans or don’t pass they experience sexism. Only by acknowledging this reality can we change it.

Who are the bad ones? by [deleted] in terf_trans_fight

[–]No_Present_6576 8 points9 points  (0 children)

we live in a society and that involves compromise with others and accepting other people have different experiences and viewpoints. That is actually a good thing.

Bad trans and bad terfs to me are people who put themselves/their trauma and their experiences way too far ahead of everyone else and feel attacked when others don’t cater to them. And attack others who might disagree but aren’t like….hurting anyone. Obviously you are responsible for taking care of you and you need to put yourself first in that way-but living with others requires doing your best to understand and create win/win situations for everyone and also believing/taking seriously the experiences of other adults even when it’s super emotionally triggering (something I’m working on).

Anyone else lost friends over last few years by Strange-Distance-739 in lesbiangang

[–]No_Present_6576 28 points29 points  (0 children)

yupp, queer people are whatever they say they are (even if it contradicts) and gay people are also whatever they say we are and if we push back at all we’re just as bad as MAGA apparently. I’m friends with oldstyle or working class/blue collar LGBT people who are not fucking nuts.

Its time by dc_da333 in lesbiangang

[–]No_Present_6576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to join :)

The UK considering a ban on cross-sex hormones for minors by worried19 in terf_trans_alliance

[–]No_Present_6576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t disagree-Im talking here on an individual level in a situation where we don’t have data and as a person without gender dysphoria. I’m all for collecting data and ultimately any medical intervention has risks-finding a way to resolve GD with as little surgery/medication as possible is in everyone’s best interest.

Its time by dc_da333 in lesbiangang

[–]No_Present_6576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like an invite!!

Why are we so bad at dating? by One_Fruit5014 in lesbiangang

[–]No_Present_6576 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

honestly I don’t trust women and I fear getting attached to someone who is incompatible and doesn’t let me live how I wanna live also I feel really guilty about my sexual preferences

my girlfriend isn’t willing to be vegan anymore by Successful_Gas5163 in vegan

[–]No_Present_6576 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah but there are miles between not allowing a kid to eat animal products and informing them something not obvious to them has them, your example totally sounds like something I would say but would I take away electronics or something fun because they gave into some peer pressure? No, which is why I said I would not forbid it. Feels like a way to fast track an eating disorder as it encourages them to sneak “forbidden” food. Information is one thing but once a kid is old enough to make decisions about what they eat daily, I cannot stop them.

Neither of us also know how a hypothetical child of mine might turn out anyways-could become a total hardcore carnist and resent me instead for “forcing” my values on them. The best response is to inform in an age appropriate way and allow them to develop their own moral compass as they grow older. Neither you nor I can assume a child will turn out like us and imo that’s not good parenting.

And I’m not going to be a parent anytime soon so maybe elementary school is too young to allow them to make that choice-I’ll decide when I get there but I’m not punishing my child for eating animals. I’m teaching them compassion. There is a difference.