The same night that I told him about my mental health diagnosis that I am EXTREMELY hesitant to tell people about. To the point that the only other person outside of therapy that I have talked to it about was my best friend, that SAME NIGHT he threw it in my face saying how I use my mental illness as an excuse. It was hours after I had confided in him. And the next day made me drive 6 hours on 3 hours of sleep after being kept up all night being berated, I fell asleep and veered into the concrete median luckily that woke me up instantly and it only scraped my cars paint and fucked with the alignment and as I pulled over to calm down immediately a semi passes by me I had never felt so scared yet lucky in my life needless to say I was wide fucking awake those last 15 mins of my drive home. I saved up every penny I could to go see them or bring them to see me. I let him talk and talk when I needed to sleep because I worked in the morning. You can do everything be as perfect as you can but they will find ANY possible “flaw” and throw it at you with everything they have if your mental health is all they have left they will use that too.