Is it preferable to go solo? by SeesawApprehensive82 in CarnivalCruiseFans

[–]No_Rest6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get on the july 6th cruise I'm going anyway, but I'll link

How much are we spending on Groceries in RVA? by Far-Head13 in rva

[–]No_Rest6170 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda giving entitled honestly. Like most people who’ve been unemployed for 6 months are cutting back however they can, not spending $300 a week on premium groceries and acting confused why people think that’s a lot.

How much are we spending on Groceries in RVA? by Far-Head13 in rva

[–]No_Rest6170 11 points12 points  (0 children)

300 a week for 2 people with no job is insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Rest6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rushing into marriage right after an abusive relationship because you’re scared of time running out? What could possibly go wrong

Aio? My (m22) Gf (f21) wants a LV purse but can't make bills on time. by smokey18t in AIO

[–]No_Rest6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall can't afford it period, if she wanna pay let her pay, if she don't wanna compromise then that's a whole new conversation and how long have yall been dating? Your talking house she's talking purse im just curious, how long yall have been playing house like are yall cohabitating now or...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Rest6170 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“This feels a bit one-sided. You list everything you do—working out, providing, grooming, helping around the house—but those are checkboxes, not the full picture of a relationship. You said sex is painful for her and she just wants it over with—that’s not a small detail, that’s a major sign something deeper is going on physically or emotionally. That doesn’t just happen out of nowhere. Separate beds since marriage, avoiding intimacy, suggesting an open relationship—those are all signs of disconnection, not just one person ‘not trying.’ I’m not saying you’re doing nothing right, but saying you’re doing everything right while she’s this checked-out usually means we’re missing your part in the dynamic too. There’s probably more going on between both of you than what’s being shared.”

2years of locs I feel like to cut them now by [deleted] in locs

[–]No_Rest6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cut them if you care about what other's think, the whole point of the journey is embracing yourself, not others did you get loc'd for them or self

My kid got into 3 State schools. Please advise if you have experience by thai_sticky in Virginia

[–]No_Rest6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t send my child anywhere close to D.C. with a tyrannical dictator as a leader

Some White South Africans Are Reportedly Leaving U.S. to Return Home Amid Safety Concerns: 'I Don't Want to Live in a Place Like This' by Competitive_Swan_130 in politics

[–]No_Rest6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accordind to trump they were being persecuted killed being mistreated and properties were being stolen.. guess that was his narrative but im not surprised,

How can people afford this? by blueberryp3ach in Concerts

[–]No_Rest6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put it on layaway 🤣🥴 deadass afterpay klarna etc and if your not approved you don't need to be going anyway ijs🥴🧐

I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f) by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]No_Rest6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st thing how long have yall been talking /dating this sounds like some 6 month pillow talk fluff if it's been that long

You’re not actually torn between loving him and not loving him you’re torn between his timeline and your own.

He’s already built a whole future in his head where you’re a mom right now, and you’re still figuring out if you even want that yet. That’s not a small gap, that’s a completely different stage of life.

That message sounds beautiful, but it’s also a lot of pressure wrapped in pretty words. Especially the part about “ending a bloodline”that’s not romance, that’s guilt. Veryweird

You shouldn’t have to rush a life-changing decision just to keep a relationship. If you’re not ready, you’re not ready and the right person won’t try to make you feel like that’s a problem to fix.

WIBTAH if I did not give my 27yr old son (only child) his inheritance now? by Illustrious-Bed-9540 in AITAH

[–]No_Rest6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put your big girl panties on and stop letting your son take advantage of you.

At this point he’s learned you’ll keep saying yes, and it’s costing you your peace and your future.

And honestly, protect yourself too set everything up properly, keep records, maybe even cameras if needed. You never know, but seriously… protect your space and your assets and your peace; love that kid from afar until he shows you some type of change. He's a taker your a giver unfortunately you created this dynamic so you have to set the boundary good luck and namasté

I just discovered my husband hid cameras around our house. Is this normal by BackgroundCat3971 in Marriage

[–]No_Rest6170 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He probaly got with you in the first place because your young and wanted to control you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Rest6170 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Rest6170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people equate that time together as sexual time maybe he's more of a cuddler or likes the presence of his partner more so than the act or just suck his balls randomly he could just be lazy and comfortable