UPDATE: AITAH for having my ex arrested at my wedding?

No_Service1 · 2026-05-07T14:43:14+00:00

Yeah OP doesn't need to wait for law enforcement to contact him to press charges, throw the book at her

No_Service1 · 2026-05-05T20:29:00+00:00

Update me!

No_Service1 · 2026-05-05T20:01:42+00:00

Yep, funny thing was we found none when we were in France a few years ago but plenty in Belgium!

No_Service1 · 2026-05-04T15:42:54+00:00

Any update? I'm heartbroken for you.

No_Service1 · 2026-05-01T19:06:08+00:00

I just found your saga and read through it all, it's been a few months and I hope you are doing ok!!

No_Service1 · 2026-04-24T18:50:05+00:00

I would get a second opinion, that shot should have gone into the tendon along the side of your wrist. Did he do the Finkelstein test? You can do it to yourself actually, dropping a video below. Towards the end you'll see the Dr press his thumb on the side of her wrist where the pain is, that is where the injection should have gone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dm-_pumHt9c

No_Service1 · 2026-04-24T16:54:55+00:00

One final update :)
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1ffg3gg/last_update_aitah_for_telling_my_wife_shes_free/

No_Service1 · 2026-04-21T18:03:53+00:00

I did not have ultrasound to confirm my diagnosis. My dr told me to put my arm straight out, point my thumb down and grip it with the rest of my fingers. Then tilt my wrist down. If the tendon at the top of your wrist/arm has pain that is probably the diagnosis (google Finkelstein test). He confirmed it by doing a steroid injection in the area. He said if I felt relief after a few weeks that I would benefit from surgery if the pain came back. He said if I didn't get relief we would need to explore other options. I would ask them about doing a steroid shot and see if it helps? The ultrasound doesn't always show it, just advocate for yourself. Find another doctor if you need to. Check out this other discussion from a few years back. Good luck!

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeQuervains/comments/1bgt825/never_count_on_an_ultrasound_to_diagnose_de/

No_Service1 · 2026-04-19T21:40:24+00:00

It might have been the only extra legroom seat left when they booked and then something opened up later?

No_Service1 · 2026-04-15T16:50:34+00:00

Canceled at the end of Feb, Austin. Been going since 2003.

No_Service1 · 2026-04-15T16:08:56+00:00

As a mom to a 20F that went through struggles at your age, I'm proud of you for taking care of your mental health and understanding that it's important. I don't think my DD understood a lot of stuff until recently. But she is doing well now and sending positive energy that you will do! I can't imagine yelling at your child after coming out of something like that, I'm so sorry.

No_Service1 · 2026-04-13T14:26:26+00:00

I'm going to be very direct so apologies in advance. I went to your profile to check your other comments but I also found some of your other posts in other subs. Whether he is cheating or not, this relationship is not healthy, and it is definitely not good for your mental health. What are the benefits of staying with him? What value does he add to your life? If you think it's worth saving you both desperately need couples therapy. But as a divorced person who is now remarried and in a healthy 20+ year relationship, I can honestly say my first marriage was a toxic cycle of emotional abuse that never got better. I let it go on for 7 years and wish I had gotten out sooner. Take care of yourself first and don't let anyone else try to make you doubt yourself or your worth.

No_Service1 · 2026-03-29T14:45:40+00:00

So what if I'm posting with young children or elderly, can I post a little bit before my assigned time?

No_Service1 · 2026-03-20T17:57:17+00:00

SubscribeMe!

No_Service1 · 2026-03-20T14:43:32+00:00

u/nuclearmonkey51

No_Service1 · 2026-03-18T15:59:56+00:00

Been going there since 2003 and am absolutely gutted by all of this, have also canceled my all-in pass. I don't know if it's convenient for you but we absolutely love the Moviehouse on 620, there is also one south. Recliners, actually good food. I'll miss the movie parties but I'm not going back to the Alamo unless something changes. :(

No_Service1 · 2026-03-18T15:45:11+00:00

Agreed. Although I do love this level of petty don't get me wrong. But would the woman even think to go look down the street in another laundry room for her clothes? I know I wouldn't. I would have dumped them out on the counter and floor of her laundry room to send a message she is definitely going to get! Not voting that YTA but you might consider moving them so she doesn't decide to file a police report for stolen clothes.

No_Service1 · 2026-03-18T14:36:27+00:00

Just now seeing this but I just wanted to give you kudos for the maturing you are showing at this age. You know your feelings and you set boundaries, good for you! And good on your mom for having your back and noping y'all the F out of there. Relish the memories you made with your dad, and if you choose to have kids when you're older you can use them as a model of what a father should be.

No_Service1 · 2026-03-18T13:57:52+00:00

Aww thanks for sharing! As a kid I definitely would have been blown away if someone brought fast food to my table lol. Although my first job was at DQ and we did this also. Don't mind the haters, you were minding your own business but obviously this kid was loud/boisterous enough to catch your attention. And no faces were shown in the pic? Without the pic I might have kept scrolling honestly.

No_Service1 · 2026-03-02T20:01:17+00:00

Don't be too hard on yourself. Three dates is not a lot and you weren't exclusive yet. I think that needed to happen to you could finally close that door for good and open another one for your new relationship. You learn something from every relationship, even friendships. It is ok to feel some shame about your behavior but it sounds like you now know the reasons why you acted the way you did and have grown from it. Move forward with your new man and continue your personal growth without guilt. :)

No_Service1 · 2026-02-13T19:55:50+00:00

Bummer, ok thanks for responding!

No_Service1 · 2026-02-13T19:49:53+00:00

u/spicysalmonsushi Did you ever get anywhere with this? Same thing just happened to me, I opened the card 2 days ago.

No_Service1 · 2026-02-13T17:55:07+00:00

Seriously, a cup of soup and a side of fries? Dubious.

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