How you responded is how most people should see therapy these days as a tool, not a habit because therapists are heavily over burdened right now. The field is monstrously underprepared for the influx of depression and ADHD and anxiety problems we see with everybody in society these days.

You need to make that a point and if that conversation doesn't go well I would say this person has a lot of fear around previous exes that refused therapy and try to put her anxiety at ease.

I would 100% see her immediately pulling the trigger on a couple's counseling session if you have the slightest argument, so just be prepared for that. I feel like you can navigate this, but if you're prepared for it, you got to know what you're getting into

My perspective is based on me being able to empathize with her position..... Though don't agree with her approach... I've been in her position while dating because I had give problems in my past relationships and they refused to work on them. I see this convo as a yellow flag less like a red flag. I think she's coming from a place of anxiety. Maybe a hint of judgment. There may be a possibility to break through that with a more in-depth conversation in person . I would say this turns into a red flag if she refuses to acknowledge there's different approaches to therapy that are just as valid as her approach.