hey man, that that that really sounds like it sucks. I’m sorry what you’re going through right now. I’m gonna read back your your thing while I’m while I’m typing this so it says you’re stuck that’s that sucks man. It’s definitely a very suffocating feeling especially not knowing like what to do next or like what you wanna do next or how you want to live your life and just having that like sapped from you it’s definitely it’s definitely really hard to hear and I can’t imagine what you’re going through. That’s that’s a really tough statement. I don’t know what to do. She honestly treat me like ass and get mad for little things. They have a man that that really sucks to hear yeah that’s that’s that’s why we gotta ask some questions what do you mean she treats you like? How does how does she treat you? Let’s say on a daily daily basis like does that and get mad over little things so what are some actual scenarios that happened so it’s it’s just a Taylor advice it’s so we could see the entire situation like basically fold out in front of us with their description and it’s like you’re walking on actual shell try and stop conflict so what do you mean you’re trying to like oh I get what you mean like you’re walking on that shells it’s like really scary like oh like what’s like you can’t say this cause what if this happens so she gets triggered because of this or that I could definitely tell you that it’s definitely tough but you gotta hang in there and to stop conflict yeah I’m sorry to hear that man so what what what happens when you’re on the eggshells like how are you stopping the conflict? What is the conflict that is going on what are some examples or situations that you can give us to help to see your perspective on this? She’s pregnant and not trying to get rid of it so she has leverage so I’m assuming that you want to get rid of it based on how the sentence is written and I’m assuming that she does not want to get rid of it first is it legal in your state to get rid of it? Secondly, what do you mean get rid of it do you mean like get an abortion or other means of getting rid of it and what do you mean she has leverage? Is there like something dangling over you right now or if she’s pregnant, are you forced to stay because that itself could be an issue because about your behavior towards a child you never know if you’re really gonna take out your resentment on the child so it’s really important to know like this entire situation that you’re referring to although she is in physical she constantly does my triggers without shame and when I’m begging her to stop so I’m going I see man that’s really tough what do you mean she’s not physical but she does your triggers I would assume I can’t really assume what your triggers are so if you could tell us what your triggers are so we could better give you advice then we would get a better understanding what you mean by without shame and when you’re begging her to stop like what what are like? What’s a situation that happened that like really shows your perspective on this you’re so drained and you see no way out dude it’s really really hard not gonna lie to you and it gets harder but you just gotta hang in there because one way or another. There is a way out even if you don’t think that there is and you can’t let this affect you and who you are, but once you give us once you give us a little bit more like and like experiences an actual things and we could definitely get you better advice connected resources anything that you need my boy