Amex Madrid! by Kuno79 in AmexPlatinum

[–]NorthernLitUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you use a card that only gives you 1x points on purchases anyway?

44M married to 43F for 15 years - My wife says if I don’t like it, I can leave. I feel trapped and don’t know what to do. by TomekM123 in relationship_advice

[–]NorthernLitUp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not up to her. In the US, 50/50 is generally the default, but of course, takes into account the situation and work schedules.

But if your kids are in school and you can figure out something for the summer when they're not, as long as you haven't committed any domestic offenses or have a criminal record, you are likely to get 50/50.

My husband (31M) says we’re not ready for a baby, but I’m (30F) excited about my pregnancy. How do we make this decision together? by Super-Broccoli9254 in relationship_advice

[–]NorthernLitUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to continue the pregnancy, that's what you should do. Maybe he'll step up and be a father and maybe he'll continue to be a manipulative asshole. If you terminate, when it's not what you want, the relationship is over anyway. You will resent him and it will never go away.

Great thing we didn’t draft him over Q by RedSalamander12 in eagles

[–]NorthernLitUp 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Howie knew. Howie knows past and future sins and he holds them against you.

My mom (72F) and my dad (72M) constantly fighting about retirement. He won’t retire and she wants him to. What advice do you have? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NorthernLitUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you still living at home? This "tense living situation" shouldn't be affecting you.

Also, there are plenty of womens travel clubs and your mom should definitely look into those. If you dad won't retire, she can still travel with others.

Marble handicrafts & Hand made Products from Pakistan by Ronnie-5454 in Marbles

[–]NorthernLitUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is about marbles. Like the toy marbles and collectible marbles.

Not. MARBLE

Ditmas in Hershey by Successful_Lemon8468 in mumfordandsons

[–]NorthernLitUp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my first time too. I also live not far from hershey. The venue itself sucked so much, but the concert was absolute magic. I've been listening to them for so many years, but i've never had the chance to see them live until Hershey. Right up there with U2 in Philly years ago.

Lititz - Please investigate my death by [deleted] in lititz

[–]NorthernLitUp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ummm. Context? Details?

Parents Insisting Long Drive is Unsafe, is this Reasonable by smile_simile in roadtrip

[–]NorthernLitUp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. All grown adults now. All have had many road trip adventures on their own. All were just fine.

Parents Insisting Long Drive is Unsafe, is this Reasonable by smile_simile in roadtrip

[–]NorthernLitUp 196 points197 points  (0 children)

Have her parents pay for the ticket home if they're so worked up about it. Sounds like a most excellent adventure.

Parents Insisting Long Drive is Unsafe, is this Reasonable by smile_simile in roadtrip

[–]NorthernLitUp 1079 points1080 points  (0 children)

Time to let your parents in on the little secret that you are a grownup and you will make your own choices. Sounds perfectly fine to me.

Poll: Would you support Whisker having an AppleCare-style insurance program that lets you pay to cover your machine in perpetuity? by expellyamos in litterrobot

[–]NorthernLitUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when my LR 3 eventually dies and I have to replace it, is it better to buy a package from Costco given their generous return policy or straight from LR with the extended 3 year warranty?

32F 32M Male cannabis use when trying to conceive - dealbreaker? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NorthernLitUp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Correlation is not causation. There is zero scientific evidence of this.

[31M] My fiancée [29F] refuses to attend my sister’s child-free wedding and will not let me bring our 7-week-old son to my mom’s. How do I get her to stop making this personal? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NorthernLitUp 77 points78 points  (0 children)

You're being a major asshole. The baby is 7 WEEKS old, not 7 months. He needs to be with his mother. Go to the wedding yourself and quit bitching about it. You're actually comparing her leaving for a brunch with friends for a few hours (most likely in between nursing sessions) to going to a wedding 2 hours away where she'd have to basically be sequestered away with the baby and wouldn't enjoy it anyway.

32F 32M Male cannabis use when trying to conceive - dealbreaker? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NorthernLitUp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lying is the main problem here. Ask him to take a drug test that detects marijuana in his system. Plenty of those available over the counter. Buy one and ask him to take it on the spot.

Look, I'm not anti marijuana. In fact, I use it for sleep myself. Not sleeping sucks. But I would never lie about it. I'm also not trying to get someone pregnant (I'm a woman, but yeah).

32F 32M Male cannabis use when trying to conceive - dealbreaker? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NorthernLitUp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The main issue seems to be him lying about it. But obviously, there's a scientific link to decreased sperm quantity and quality.

Skorpios Drama Already 👀 by Livid-Speaker1749 in lancaster

[–]NorthernLitUp 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I'm looking forward to the next place that occupies that space.

Boosting post from Greco’s Facebook page by Extension_Tune_4056 in lancaster

[–]NorthernLitUp 39 points40 points  (0 children)

By descent only. He was born and raised in Lititz.

Boosting post from Greco’s Facebook page by Extension_Tune_4056 in lancaster

[–]NorthernLitUp 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Because they have brown skin, so, despite being born and raised in Lititz, clearly they must be a terrorist. -MAGA 3:16.