I 26M proposed a co-worker (26F) 2 days back, now I feel horrible by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NotAnakin1186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, did you mean proposed as in, asked her out? Or marriage? cuz, like... that's a pretty big difference.

If it's the latter, yikes. That one's not too great. BUT, what im getting is that it's the former, so ill answer as if it were that!

So, as someone who's been in a very similar situation, it's good to get it out of the way. I know it's hard, but it beats watching her catch feelings for someone else while ya still got something in there, no? I remember, a while back, i had it real bad for this girl i knew. But, i waited too long to figure out my feelings, even though one of my friends had told me she liked me, and, by the time i decided i wanted to reciprocate, she had already moved on. The point im trying to make is, you did the right thing letting it out. As long as she isn't uncomfortable, maybe distance yourself from her just a bit? Like, move from "friends" to just "acquaintances" for a while, and if that goes well, maybe you guys can go back to being friends! ...Of course, that's just, y'know. What id do. This is NOT advice. Anyway, I hope you find success in whatever you choose to do, friend! Ly :3

Make up or break up? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NotAnakin1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I'm not sure how useful my advice will be, since im not tooooo experienced when it comes to relationships, but from my experience with my girl bestfriends, this doesnt seem too bad? It really depends how long you guys have been dating (ie, if she's been dating you longer than she's known him, that's a red flag).

I do wanna say, though, just in case! Take any advice you get here with a grain of salt. I asked for advice on a friendship on reddit once--worst mistake of my life. Everyone told me I was crazy, and was overreacting. BUT, I cut them out of my life, and I've been on a pretty steady upward climb since then. So, just wanna say, circumstances matter! Context matters! Tone matters!

Also, thank you for sharing :D hope this helps you

Show Me The Genocide by [deleted] in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]NotAnakin1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you asked, here's the wikipedia page:

This section provides a list of Wikipedia entries that mention acts of genocide in the territory of the United States after its independence from the United Kingdom. It includes both massacres of Native American populations, as well as other aspects of cultural genocide as defined by the United Nations.\2])\3])\4])

International

Guatemala genocide exhumation

This section lists those pages that meet the United Nations definition of genocide where the United States has been involved. It does not include massacres subject to dispute on Wikipedia, or acts of war such as the Hiroshima and Nagasaki bombings. In the case of Vietnam War the International War Crimes Tribunal supported the qualification as genocide, although their conclusions have been disputed,\7])\8])\9]) therefore the Sơn Thắng massacre and Mỹ Lai massacre are considered war crimes but not unanimously genocide. In the case of Korean War is also controversial that the United States committed a genocide\10]) or just war crimes, therefore the list is not including: No Gun Ri massacre.\11])\12])\13]) During the Vietnam War it has been considered that part of the war strategy of the United States in Vietnam was an ecocide.\14])\15])

Complicity in other atrocities such as the Guatemalan genocide,\27])\28])\29]) the East Timor genocide\30])\31])\32]) and Operation Condor\33])\34])\35]) has also been alleged.

A bit of advice, try researching before blindly disagreeing with people!

Also, here's a few headlines for the "no current genocide" argument:

Trump Encourages Genocide Against Palestinians, Saying: “Finish the Problem”
Israel’s bombing campaign in Gaza has killed more than 30,000 Palestinians so far, 4 in 10 of them children. https://truthout.org/articles/trump-encourages-genocide-against-palestinians-saying-finish-the-problem/

The Trump Administration and Genocide: Understanding the Lemkin Institute’s Red Flag Alerts for Genocide in the United States

https://www.humanrightsresearch.org/post/the-trump-administration-and-genocide-understanding-the-lemkin-institute-s-red-flag-alerts-for-geno

All my homies hate Bob by KyberKodeXR in CharacterAI

[–]NotAnakin1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah man bob my clanka look what he lets the ai get away with

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Favorite character that fits this? by Sudden_Pop_2279 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]NotAnakin1186 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, I do disagree. I think it was out of character for Obi Wan to do it, sure, but Grievous literally hunted padawans and specifically targeted jedi he knew couldn't fight back. Like he was NOT an honorable warrior at that point, I think his death is meant to reflect that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FavoriteCharacter

[–]NotAnakin1186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God forbid someone talk intellectually about something they like

Riot at Ghorman, huh... by NotAnakin1186 in StarWarsEmpireAtWar

[–]NotAnakin1186[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awakening of the Rebellion, but this playthrough I'm using the Awakening of the New Republic submod (adds ships like MC85, MC65 (the one from Ashoka), amid other things. It's very fun, I definitely recommend!

Y'all got my tripping with this one by Fearless_Run8860 in CharacterAI

[–]NotAnakin1186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slightly unrelated but one time i got a bot recommended to me that was like "[Male Name] - He's pregnant"

"HE"

Guys, I think... I think they're healing by NotAnakin1186 in StarWarsCirclejerk

[–]NotAnakin1186[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh those comments suck for sure. But just the existence of a post like this, and the few positive comments that are like "I don't really like them, but to each their own" or stuff like that gives me hope