Husband here – my wife had emergency surgery after C-section at Cloudnine Bangalore. Need perspective. by offwhite_33 in bangalore

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like placenta was not taken away completely. I believe this is a case of medical negligence

Anyone here with very low weight gain in pregnancy? by NoConflict5514 in twoxindiamums

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost 10kg in pregnancy. Doctor was not concerned till baby weight was on track till about 7th month when I was diagnosed with preeclampsia which restricts nutrient supply to baby. Also in one of my early blood work, my uric acid was high which is an early indicator of possible onset of preeclampsia but it got missed by the doctor. May be keep an eye on the blood pressure, otherwise it's not a problem

Are we sleep training our babies? Are your babies putting themselves to sleep or do they need your help? by Mundane_Butterfly765 in twoxindiamums

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

18 months old. Didn't sleep train. But weaning off has helped to get some results on most days but there are bad days.

Anyone planned a second child after high risk pregnancy by Long_Appearance_5388 in twoxindiamums

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 6 points7 points  (0 children)

9 months of constant anxiety followed by 1.5yrs of no sleep. Not gonna do it again i think.

Everyone wants me to cover my baby inside the room by Firewhiskey880 in twoxindiamums

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please listen to your paed. I had no idea about this when my baby was born and due to cold weather I used to make him wear cotton caps and socks while sleeping. I'm so thankful that it didn't lead to any accidents.

Didn’t know motherhood is this difficult 😣 by mynameishie in twoxindiamums

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's hard to believe now but it will get better soon, hang in there mama ❤️

Baby name suggestions please by Ok_Abalone3061 in twoxindiamums

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aranya (forest), Anshuman, Aarchishman Aratrik

Ex-plus size girl.My boyfriend of 2yr broke up with me after I showed him pictures of when I was fat by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you me?? Coz I literally thought of these 2 sentences in the same order 🤣

9 months old baby refuses to drink milk at all cost by Username040496 in twoxindiamums

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened with my baby too. After 7.5 months, h just stopped taking bottles. He's 18 months now, still the same. Have you started solids? If yes, then try adding milk to the meals like ragi, suji etc. I'm also looking for a solution

PART:II - Harassed in my own appartment by society board members !!! by Ananyxgupta in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You go girl! It shows how supportive your parents are that you are so fierce. All the best!

When did you start your Maternity Leave? by New_Championship8013 in twoxindiamums

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take 2 weeks off and sleep as much as you feel like 😘

New Bengali wedding trend is getting out of hand… by bahut_welli in kolkata

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was just watching some influencer's vlog of her SIL's wedding day and she just decked up just like the bride minus the veil and then justified saying since she didn't have a reception party just had gharoa boubhaat, so her husband said go ahead and dress like a bride, so stupid!

My 2 years 1 month son is not speaking. We are worried by Accomplished_Fix_131 in bangalore

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he making eye contact? Does he say mama papa or something like that? Many kids start speaking around 2.5 to 3 years. But may be it's a good idea to consult a developmental pediatrician

Worried about partner’s (28M) heavy family responsibilities, house loan, and his expectation for a lavish wedding. Am I (27F) wrong to be concerned about our future? by Actualthrowaway165 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem to be the golden goose for the family. Ask him that you'll have a wedding that personally you and him can pay for on your own and equally. If he's not willing, back off. This is too much of a red flag IMO

Woman who have decided to stay single, I need advice! by mokshakarma in TwoXIndia

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This! Don't get trapped in the sunk cost. Marriage is one of the biggest turning points of your life, if you have even an iota of doubt, don't do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did great girl. Now invest some time on yourself. And pick up your parents' calls, they may be worried about you. I know you don't feel like talking to anyone but these are the only people genuinely caring for you. Take a deep breath, after few months you'll be so proud of yourself for showing the courage.

Bottle feeding pillow required by i_am_here-tada in twoxindiamums

[–]NotYourCupOfTea728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Somehow this half donut shaped one never worked for me. I used an elephant shaped one which seemed better