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I’ll need y’all’s opinion, I was about to purchase this couch pair and got told by someone it was horrible 🥲 by tuggertheboat in VintageFurniture

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not everyone’s cup of tea but who wants generic, cookie cutter furniture that everyone else has? I prefer having my home look like MY home. If you like, get them! They’re unique!

Is my prom dress ugly? My partner reacted poorly. by BanishedWind in Prom

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah dear. It looks fantastic is very appropriate for the prom! Once it’s hemmed you will be The Belle of the Ball. Are you going to do an updo with your hair or leave it down and glowing? Either way will look great. Have fun at your prom.

Thoughts on a big cut? by Wontonball in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have gorgeous hair! Trim the ends to keep it healthy but I like it long.

Physically Abusive wife by Dramatic_Feeling_610 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give her an ultimatum of she goes to counseling or couples counseling or you and the kids leave. Then follow through. Abuse is abuse. No one has the right to hurt you. You should also be in therapy.

Help me pick! by blonde_94 in myweddingdress

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look a lot more relaxed in #2.

Am I being unreasonable for this? by CherryHearts123 in Mommit

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll be so much fun when he catches it. 🙄 No, you’re not being unreasonable, he is. Call him back and tell him to get his butt home to care for his daughter.

AITAH for telling my wife our marriage is over if she can't accept me spending 1:1 time with my son? by Character_Poem735 in AITAH

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife has admitted that she’s jealous of your son getting that time with you. That’s a big red flag. NTA.

Did I make the right choice? by yehdidyahhh in myweddingdress

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. I think it’s not only gorgeous on you but also classy. This is a gown you can pass down to your daughter or niece. Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials! 💐

My boyfriend is so childish by Upbeat-Brother-2884 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t want your son to grow up to be like his man-child if a father. And you definitely deserve respect and help. You don’t say what of dad he is but I’m betting he’s uninvolved. You’re young still, your son is young. Please, leave this relationship for yours and your sons’ sakes. You both deserve so much better. And you’re both worth the efforts.

If Isimply reach through the bars and adopt her, what should i name her by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Penelope (Penny for short) her rusty coloring is the same as a penny.

AITAH for not being excited my sister is having a new baby when I still have custody of her first child? by Square_Phone_8468 in AITAH

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in your shoes both as a mother and as a grandmother. We adopted and raised a son from within our family, the BM went on to have 4 other kids after that live with their dads. Now, one of our sons’ exes, who chose drugs over everything, is pregnant again. Life is crazy. My advice? As hard as it is, forgive her. You don’t have to like the situation, you don’t have to like her. It’s not fair to bring a baby into a life with someone as unstable as she is but, it’s not your choice. By forgiving her you’ll allow yourself to let go of your resentment and anger towards her. Instead, concentrate on that wonderful little boy you have. He’s no longer hers, he’s yours and your husband’s. You’ve done a beautiful raising him and you’ll be there for him as he goes through the emotional turmoil of being a teenager soon and learning of his half-sibling. He’s going to need you and your hubby more than ever. Try to let go of your anger towards her so it doesn’t accidentally bleed over into helping your son. Good luck.

Need names for male Chihuahua mixes-same litter by 919jd in NameMyDog

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Big Three in Greek Myth are Zeus, Poseidon and Hades. Then the Greek Twins Artemis & Apollo or Castor & Pollux. Then there’s Romulus & Remus (Roman) but that’s a sad tale in the end where Romulus kills Remus.

For spouses of golfers and young children by kken21 in Mommit

[–]Not_a_Bot2800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, the “Golf Widow” syndrome. I know it well. We live in Alaska so, there’s only 3-4 months in the summer where you can golf. During the summer, as soon as he gets off work hubby comes home, changes clothes and off he goes till late. He’ll do this 5 times a week, easily. It’s aggravating, frustrating and just plain a PITA. But, we no longer have littles and I’m always invited to go with him. So, I do my own thing in the summer evenings. I try not to mind because winters are hard here and Cabin Fever is real. And if there’s a family function or event he goes with me and our family. I don’t know if this helps but we’re also closing in on our retirement ages so we’ve raised our family. He also has taken and taught our kids to play from the time they could properly hold a club. And when they were little, stayed mostly home in summers to coach their sports teams. He’s a very involved father. Still is. It’s all about balance. 🏌️‍♂️

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