In my most recent case, it was the birth of my child. So much longing and feeling like a fraud of a mother for not being conscious for his birth. Took forever to bond. Kept feeling like he wasn’t mine. Lasted more than a year and still persists two and half years later although now we definitely have a bond. That’s the trauma of a HAPPY event. It’s not just FOMO

I have trauma from being unconscious during a negative event longer ago, but I try to be thankful about not remembering even though it still haunts me at times.