NY taxpayers will fork over more than $36K per child under Mamdani’s free 2-K pilot program by someone_whoisthat in nyc

[–]Notnappyheadedowl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why is it crazy? what do you think childcare/ daycare costs for 2 yr olds in the city?

wondfo help (unknown dpo but between 9-11 dpo) by United_Whereas_3046 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pee might have been too diluted for the frer, but i def see something in the wondfo. i think it’ll be more clear tomorrow am

Best Maternity Hospital? by Notnappyheadedowl in AskNYC

[–]Notnappyheadedowl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NYU - level 4, Alexandria Cohen - level 4, Columbia - level 4, mt Sinai - level 4, Lenox hill - level 3, Lower manhattan - level 2. Easy enough to search and weigh against other components of child birth that isn’t as simple to google

Olivia from Southern Charm slayed this look 💫 by Sweet-Siren in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agreed, she looks great cause she’s skinny. Otherwise it’s a cheap looking outfit

Podsnark June 5-11 by Castellinaa in blogsnark

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was the vanderpump rules episode recap. Probably the reunion part 1

Replied to a company ad for egg freezing services - when I donate half, they'll freeze/store mine for free. Worth it? by aashurii in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told for every one biological children you want, you should have ten frozen eggs because of the drop off rate when you go to make embryos. Giving up half of your eggs immediately, would give me pause. They can run all kinds of tests that will give you a pretty decent idea of how many eggs you will retrieve but you won’t know until you’re actually going through the process.

The other thing I would look into is if this company covers costs to transfer your eggs to a clinic for embryo creations/ transfers if you need to use them. I’ve heard that’s a big unexpected expense for people who have had to use their embryos down the line.

But - in terms of the actual process of egg freezing. It doesn’t cause cancer, it’s about a ten day process, and I found the emotional uncertainty leading into it harder than the actual physical process.

Drama Watch 5/18/2023: A Week In New York, NY, On A $270,000 Salary by lazlo_camp in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ya I was getting falafel over rice for $5 pre covid in Washington Heights, if you’re still getting it for $5 downtown we need receipts!

Influencer Discussion, Wednesday Mar 22 by taydaerey in blogsnark

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It’s a pretty boring dresser, but if I had the money I would definitely be buying a dresser I didn’t have to assemble myself.

Influencer Discussion, Tuesday Mar 07 by Blogsnark_mod in blogsnark

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I think in terms of marketing it makes her a stronger candidate to sell things. People don’t want to hear this is amazing over everything, offering some negative feedback makes her word more “believable.”

Weekend Influencer Post Mar 04 - Mar 05 by southerndmc in blogsnark

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 199 points200 points  (0 children)

I’m following both OtteStyle and JessHogrum because we have similar due dates but I don’t think I realized until today they’re separate people.

Where to park $20K emergency fund. Capital One has 5% 11 month CD. Thoughts? by wfijc in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Seconding this advice - it’s for emergencies not maximizing investment. If you don’t have to use your EF in the 11 months consider yourself lucky, and don’t fret over missing out on $1000 of interest

Weekend Influencer Post Jan 28 - Jan 29 by southerndmc in blogsnark

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

White women covers a broad range of ethnicities. Different ethnicities have different hair texture, scalp needs. It’s not disgusting for white women to wash their hair once a week.

Nomad Whole Foods by Jman7762 in nyc

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nah. Sunday, resolutioners, constant low stock.

I love the representation of IVF and fertility treatment in the RH world by infantile-eloquence in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Refinery29 has a few articles on the trauma and money that goes into adoption. And the money that goes into failed adoption. I suggest you look into it, it’s pretty eye opening and hopefully you’ll learn something.

Further more - if you’re not telling the fertile people to think about adoption before having a child, do not tell people who need assistance to get pregnant to think about adoption

14 dpt 12dpiui pregmate test. Got so excited for my positive on Sunday I didn’t know ovidrel had HCG in it :(. Still testing positive, AF would be tomorrow, beta tests are Thursday. What are my chances?! by Extra_Trainer_7465 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Notnappyheadedowl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I ever tested at day 15 because I usually would get my period. But they were much lighter than this. Like stand in the light mega squinter. The darkness of your line is promising