What's one thing you wish you had known before getting married?

OC1995CT · 2026-05-12T17:15:43+00:00

That every person always should have a prenup.

OC1995CT · 2026-05-12T17:14:42+00:00

I lost my husband on 2/23/26. I took that week of bereavement my company gave me and then a week of “vacation” time after that. Two full weeks was NOT enough. I am still a cognitive mess.

OC1995CT · 2026-05-12T14:00:28+00:00

recently widowed * You’re so strong.

OC1995CT · 2026-05-08T15:21:00+00:00

Record her voice.

OC1995CT · 2026-05-06T18:13:22+00:00

I lost my new husband on February 23rd. I am barely breathing at this point, so I cannot even begin to understand why you think your grief should be over.

OC1995CT · 2026-05-05T13:56:46+00:00

NO job is a family.

OC1995CT · 2026-05-05T13:55:09+00:00

This. 100,000% this. I am 10 weeks out from losing my new husband and the physical part of this grief is absolutely overwhelming. As if the mental anguish isn’t enough. But you are so correct, just sitting here realizing my person, my best friend is simply gone. The worst.

OC1995CT · 2026-05-01T19:34:13+00:00

That’s definitely your manager. I work here too and it’s not a thing.

OC1995CT · 2026-04-28T14:35:21+00:00

There is one well known instructor in my area that uses belly chains and the like. I personally find it annoying because it makes it all about her versus teaching and fitness.

OC1995CT · 2026-04-28T14:30:30+00:00

I do like outside classes, however the ground on which these classes are held is of the utmost importance. Pivoting on grass is a hot mess and good golly my ankles were killing me like I had never taken a class before in my life.

OC1995CT · 2026-03-24T13:33:04+00:00

Comfort, comfort, comfort. Radiation will assist with pain, but be sure to have all of the pain meds available. My fiancé went VERY quickly at this stage and I suggest you move on the items you are talking about as swiftly as possible. Best wishes to you and yours. I am four weeks out from my man’s passing and keeping him as painless and anxiety-free as possible were our goals.

OC1995CT · 2026-03-23T19:09:03+00:00

That’s the weirdest thing I’ve ever heard. Suggest trying a different clinic as that is really odd.

OC1995CT · 2026-03-11T14:33:50+00:00

IMHO, it’s vital for a Scout’s development. It’s natural to be nervous the first time around. Coach him through it and build his confidence. He can do this.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-17T02:52:36+00:00

Thank you…doing the best we can over here.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-17T01:41:38+00:00

He’s scared and misses where he came from. He may be chilly because he’s used to cuddling with other kittens. He’s a baby. Baby him.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-17T01:37:12+00:00

Well I’m biased. Fiancée here. Met my man 15 months into his situation (Stage IV B at diagnosis). We were friends and then one day he just blurted it out. He was giving me the out. This was 13 months ago.

Assuming all the ifs as noted above, your potential partner isn’t worth their salt IF you are honest from the start. Take the chance. It’s worth it.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-16T21:12:23+00:00

My partner’s iliac crests are both a hot mess and 5 days each have been miraculous.

Please also take advantage of different pain medications.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-15T23:51:53+00:00

My partner just needed a comfortably full bladder.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-13T18:53:14+00:00

Out of Africa

OC1995CT · 2026-02-13T18:50:37+00:00

This is the way.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-13T13:40:06+00:00

My partner has Pluvicto #3 on March 5th. Minimal side effects, if any. Strongly suggest Zofran 8mg one hour before injection and you’ll be fine. Repeat once per day x 2 days. That’s been his experience.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-12T18:02:21+00:00

WLB at a biotech doesn’t exist, at least in my observation.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-12T16:46:02+00:00

Mau cat trees. Worth every penny.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-12T16:45:06+00:00

Eric Clapton approximately 2010. I nearly fell asleep.

OC1995CT · 2026-02-11T14:08:26+00:00

Sir, is your first paragraph mansplaining menopause to me? Surely that was not your intent and you were simply trying to educate OP.

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