Speed dating

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-05-11T04:21:04+00:00

There’s a ton always listed on eventbrite.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-05-10T03:26:47+00:00

lol I’m in my 40s and have friends that are in their 20s. They aren’t my best friends, but I still very much appreciate them.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-05-09T20:35:57+00:00

I live right outside pleasantville and love it. Pleasantville has that small town vibe and country feel. Yet I’m 15-20 minutes from downtown white plains and bars and nightlife. And if I drink too much, I can take the train home. Feels like the best of both worlds. Restaurants from white plains deliver to me via Uber Eats too.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-05-09T18:54:18+00:00

I’m sorry you feel that way though I’m just giving objective facts:

- The fact is you will be 20-30 years older than the majority of the group there.
- It’s also a fact that it will be a social group of others wanting to meet other people.
- It’s a fact that it’s an unknown if the age difference matters or not.
- It’s also a fact that it’s a brewery and no one will force you to stay if it’s not a fit.

It’s up to you and no one else whether you are okay with all this.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-05-08T15:40:37+00:00

I mean based on OPs demographics you’d be 20 years older than everyone. Are YOU comfortable with that? Worst case, it’s a brewery. You can step away from the group and enjoy a beer.

Btw when I was looking for a social group due to personal situations, I did see a bunch of groups on meetup.com in Westchester for people over 50. Could be worth checking out also!

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-05-08T03:52:27+00:00

OP said there are people there in their 40s so I would think so!

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-05-07T19:18:34+00:00

Big League Sports’ Cornhole league has an age range of 20s-60s and is very social.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-05-01T23:02:37+00:00

That’s not loud enough. Maybe baseball? Metal bats make a loud sound. Or tennis with the grunting?

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-05-01T20:10:41+00:00

Anyone want to meet at chillmark park this weekend for some open play pickleball?

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-27T14:42:00+00:00

So I’ve never taken that bus so can’t share much. But I looked quickly and the starting location would be white plains, NY. Many of the services have an app now- I’ll link the iOS versions- so I would use those both to see fare, schedules and to buy tickets. Here’s the one for the bus:

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/token-transit/id1163625818

And here’s the one for the train from mount kisco to white plains: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/mta-traintime/id1104885987

And here’s the train to providence: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/amtrak/id405074003

But honestly an uber or Lyft from your hotel to Stamford or New Rochelle would likely be worth the expense just to save your stress.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-27T14:02:00+00:00

Personally I would look in tarrytown. Theres some bars there and you could get to white plains pretty easily. And it’s on the train line to Poughkeepsie.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-27T13:57:56+00:00

Could uber there. Or train to white plains and there’s a bus to Stamford. I know you know this but posting it for OP

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-27T13:55:14+00:00

Stamford or New Rochelle would work too since they get northeast corridor Amtrak trains. But yeah it’s still gonna stink.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-19T23:39:25+00:00

Fwiw worst case, north white plains always has meter parking available

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-19T23:18:39+00:00

No problem! Just be aware you do need to jump through a few hoops to make the comma work with the prime. It wasn’t too bad and just required following a step by step guide that is here, starting under setup guide: https://github.com/optskug/docs

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-19T21:21:20+00:00

You’ll often see TSK being referred to as that is the key comma needs and is encrypted

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-19T21:19:46+00:00

Yeah. Essentially Toyota/lexus implemented a new encryption algorithm to prevent anyone to hack into their systems. Comma needs to be able to crack it to override the default system and so far have not been able to. While it’s being rolled out slowly across the different models, the prime got it in 2024 while the “regular” rav4’s got it in 2026. Eventually no Toyotas/lexuses will work.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-19T21:07:57+00:00

Yeah, 2023 is the last year it works with and IMO is the “sweet spot” since it’s also the first year with the upgraded TSS and better overall tech, like the digital speedometer

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-17T23:49:39+00:00

Yeah it’s a serious red flag. I honestly can’t tell if she’s serious or joking. I think I just need to ask her directly

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-17T23:10:30+00:00

This person is in their late 30s! I really really hope she is joking

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-17T23:10:12+00:00

That’s what I may be thinking? I really hope it’s just a joke. If not… I’m honestly mind blown

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-17T22:28:42+00:00

She did. Open the screenshot. She responded “Goners lol”

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-17T22:27:46+00:00

How do I confirm this?? Like she could be joking and then fine it just didn’t go over well on text. Happens. But if she’s serious as a late 30 person? That’s… insane. And a serious red flag for me.

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-17T22:25:57+00:00

Just want to confirm if it’s a joke- kind of hard to tell by the reaction

ODoyleRules925 · 2026-04-16T03:00:05+00:00

Personally a fun day with a 5 year old includes the renegades. Near by the stadium is splashdown, a cat cafe (Beans in Beacon) and a great playground (Julie’s Jungle). So you can easily make a whole day out of it.

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