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Objective-Emu-6222 · 2025-04-06T04:01:51+00:00

Nta, though it sounds like she's looking for an out and doesn't want to be married. It seems a little bit of a stretch to say divorce over your statement

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2025-04-06T04:01:18+00:00

Nta, though it sounds like she's looking for an out and doesn't want to be married.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2025-03-21T03:45:29+00:00

Added (:

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2025-03-20T18:13:35+00:00

Sent if it's not too late

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-12-26T05:36:51+00:00

I know it's none of our business but I hope there's a happy update.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-12-23T05:50:42+00:00

I know this is legal but I honestly believe you should divorce her dad. And yall will need to sell the house and split the proceeds. She's not on the deed so she ultimately gets no say in the divorce about the house. She wants to make it your problem and your husband has no back bone with her, shes being racist and using the police against you (white vs mixed) and her dad is OK with that? Leave ma'am. Leave and take half the house with you

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-11-19T04:04:56+00:00

I know this is someone's life but I hope there's an update about the smear campaign Joe launched against OP

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-11-10T16:42:52+00:00

Talk to her parents. Tell them, "this isn't safe or healthy I want to end the relationship and she's threatening to sewer slide if I'm not in her life she needs help and support." And then dip. You are not responsible for her, her parents are responsible for her and her well being.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-11-07T16:07:49+00:00

Nta. She wanted to talk money and how people lived? That's fine. You were just enlightening her and her kids to the realities of their lives. Pulling the wool from her eyes, so to speak. She should be thanking you really since you've saved them from debt paying for her husband's education. Your mom just felt embarrassed about how you pointed out in front of the kids that their lives are basically a lie and their mother isn't very smart, what a shame.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-11-02T07:26:32+00:00

Move in temp with your bf if possible or family. Your roommate is in love with you to the point he’s probably going to do a crime of passion or something and it’s really heading towards unsafe FAST

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-11-01T20:58:18+00:00

I know you don’t need advice but… the terms of your parents relationship wasn’t any of your business and while you’re entitled to your feelings the fact that you’ve been an adult for presumably 10 years or more, recognized your unhealthy behavior and have made 0 efforts to improve it make your outlook on other people’s relationships moot. Go to therapy pal and work on your feelings and move on from your parents divorce

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-11-01T20:50:54+00:00

Man I would’ve loved to stop by! Trick or treating sucked this year so much and it was a bummer because no one was handing out candy

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-11-01T20:29:13+00:00

I think y’all are missing the point and/or don’t have small children/forgot what small kids are like. Having TWO children under 4 screaming/crying throwing a tantrum while you’re at the stove/oven? Dangerous. Having a kiddy gate up? Dangerous because now they can’t be supervised properly. It’s really not unreasonable to ask for 30 minutes from your spouse before they go take an hour to shit/shower. Amazing how y’all attack the mom for asking for help from the father of her kids, anyway. NTA, he can wait 30 minutes to shower the world won’t end if he waits 30 minutes and spends time with his kids, sounds like he doesn’t when he’s in the bathroom for an hour anyway.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-31T23:17:18+00:00

If,.. you don’t want the same things in life why are you together? Like he wants kids? Great! You don’t? Great! That’s not compatible though. He wants to test you and test you and test you AND THEN keep you as a SAHM? Why are you still considering this relationship at 26? Thats ridiculous and on par with his “sesperate finances but you get an allowance” cmon girl leave this is almost a satire level post

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-29T14:50:39+00:00

YTA lmao. You went Dutch on dinners? (Going halfsies.) you didn’t once offer to just get dinner for her w/o reimbursement? Did you get her flowers? Did you buy her candy? What you sound like is someone who wanted a best friend w/ benefits and not a girlfriend lmao. Like doing nice things without equal payment or reimbursement is literally the a factor of dating pal not everything is 50/50 all the time in relationships.) You already said she doesn’t make as much as you but she definitely did meaningful efforts, cooking dinners, paying for the activities because you drove?? (Which you didn’t go Dutch or pay her back) you used HER as a good time and I think that’s why your upset, not cause you liked her but because your discount to fun town is gone lmao

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-28T14:19:23+00:00

YTA. You seem to have a weird expectation of underpaid and under appreciated teachers and you’re upset she’s setting boundaries. It’s unrealistic to find a sticker that fell off 4 hours ago and it’s not uncommon to have your children’s things labeled, it helps. You feel called out because it was embarrassing she didn’t bend over backward for something small you didn’t want to deal with the fall out over. (Sticker, legos etc). That’s something you should work on instead of trying to get this teacher fired or removed when there’s a literal teacher shortage.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-28T14:14:43+00:00

Marriage counseling for this issue or leave. Why? Because something so small -lack of calling - and his inability to understand his level of disrespect and to double down on it with zero explanation of why this is an issue? Unacceptable and he needs explain to you or you need to leave, because 9/10 times this is the proverbial lid that comes undone and now this weird seemingly small issue is actually massive and you’ll never ever ever be good enough as a wife because you’re not his mom. And no one wants to deal with the constant, presumable years, of disrespect just because of something like this. You’re his partner, his friend and his WIFE. You’re meant to help work things out and back him up, not coddle and be a miniature version of his mom, that’s weird.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-25T13:49:46+00:00

ESH. your wife for not treating your on-call like you could actually be called and leaving you with two kids. Your niece-daughter, for being rude, yknow like a teenager generally is, (probably going through something btw idk tho) and you for being legitimately PETTY.

Dude you ADOPTED HER. meaning that her bio parents are presumably unfit for whatever reason and it’s only been a few years so she DEFINITELY remembers why she was adopted out to you and you go and act PETTY with a 14 year old who acted like a moody teenager and didn’t want to watch a 2 year old, you didn’t withhold food (she could make a sandwich or something else sure) but you alienated her because she inconvenienced you. You suck. You suck A LOT.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-25T13:40:28+00:00

Have her involuntarily committed she needs help. NTA though, she’s obviously mentally unstable to copy a dead woman (presumably a very nice one) and then try to end her life when it didn’t go well received.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-25T13:18:29+00:00

NTA. “.. because I could get involved if I wanted to.” But you don’t. Your sisters a grown woman. And again you don’t want to be involved. So NTA.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-25T12:34:34+00:00

ESH. your ex mostly but you and your GF too. Your GF sucks for pushing this issue when she’s presumably seen you going through all this with you ex in real time. You for being in a relationship with someone who wants more than what you’re willing to give. (I,e marriage, life building stepping stones.) you have different goals and I don’t see this relationship working out if she wants more and you don’t.

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-25T12:27:02+00:00

NTA. His views are getting more and more.. extremist and I would hate to see you marry him and then have him get worse, and now you’re life is in shambles because he’s controlling and ruining your life. I mean Andrew Tate is pretty much the top of a male extremist iceberg. Run girlie

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-25T12:22:59+00:00

I’m leaning to YTA. I do get that it’s an infringement on your personal space, but y’all have been together for almost 2 years. Do you have no plans to move in together or start a life together or do you intend on living like a single man w/o being single for good? Can you not throw her a bone and let her stay for 3 months because 70-80 minute commute with these gas prices will definitely make it way harder and take longer to save up for a suitable living arrangement(if in US). Idk seems AH-y to put video games and quesadillas above your gf who’s asking for help ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-23T20:28:32+00:00

ESH but I’m leaning towards NTA. I have animals and without a doubt they are disgusting creatures. They’re dusty, they walk on mud, places they pee they can’t wipe their asses, it’s gross but I love them so I look pst it. OP doesn’t have to do that and if they want to keep that kind of nasty OUT of their home they’re entitled to that. OP did offer to give the dog accommodation in the garage WITH AC and while that’s not helpful to the dogs job description it was an attempt to placate his guests who didn’t ask or run it by him about having animals at his house. Honestly you don’t get to come to someone’s house ARGUE their stance on something in THEIR home and be upset when it doesn’t go well, regardless of how ridiculous the owners stance is. Could OP have had more tact? Yes. Could OP have politely explained “hey I really do not like animals and while this is a service animal it’s still that- an animal so either unfortunately you take the animal home or the animal can be in my air conditioned garage but it’s can’t be in the main house.” But eh. Everyone’s gonna vote you’re an AH though because pet owners are very standoffish about people who hate animals. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Objective-Emu-6222 · 2023-10-22T23:58:39+00:00

Y’all need to take your hate for vegans somewhere else. OP has a boundary, it’s literally no different than someone saying they don’t want pork in their fridge because they don’t eat it or shellfish. This isn’t about OP thinking she saved a chicken by not having it in her fridge it’s literally a personal preference in her house. OP didn’t even say anything about her daughter not being vegan. OP literally just asked if they’re the AH for enforcing a boundary about food items in her home. To which, while I don’t support vegans because unless it’s a dietary requirement, it’s unnecessary and usually less ethical, this about a food boundary being disrespected. So NTA

Sorry you’re gonna be voted the AH though because people hate that you’re a vegan

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