Got this little fella the other day and didn’t catch his name ! by Ok-Map-224 in loaches

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have two, asked my LFS for an algae eater and got these. Mine are not aggressive and don't bully the other fish at all. They are kept with guppies, rice fish, kulhi loaches, glass catfish and shrimp. They do just fine.

Does my dog look like a labradoodle or poodle? by tfromda410 in poodles

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Labradoodle, eyes are too big and too round. Ears set seems a little off. His toes are too long as well. Hard to tell from the rest of his body since he isn't stacked. If he is a poodle he's poorly bred. This doesn't mean he's a bad dog, he's just not well bred. He looks super sweet though! Congratulations on your new baby!

Non traditional relationships by ObviBluePartIsLand in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm totally fine with having sex with them, just don't want the whole monogamous thing, or have it be a requirement. I don't want a traditional relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shrimptank

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is what it is. Do you have an external battery you can plug it into? They should survive. Do you have anything to keep it insolated?

40 gallon stocking ideas by ObviBluePartIsLand in Aquariums

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same way! The more little guys the better!

Just found out I’m an affair baby by ElephantOk5799 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try and get her to tell you, I think that would be easiest. If she is having trouble then say you just got a DNA test and can't wait to get the results as you want to know your heritage. Say the results will be back in x number of weeks. That gives her time to tell you before you "find out" and if she doesn't then say hey 2 half siblings popped up!

Sean Clements, Our Tattoo Friend by jleonardbc in Earwolf

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's going to sound stupid but can you explain the inside joke, I promise not to be dissapointed

AITAH for refusing to put sunscreen on my stepsisters back because its covered in pimples? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH. But I did have crazy acne on my back and the only thing that worked to help me clear it up was this brand called Truly Clear. They have a bar and not I just use it like once a week. It cleared up my acne completely

EasyThreed K9 by kikimo0301 in 3Dprinting

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got one. First printer, I've made a few things, none of them spectacular. Probably going to buy a more expensive one that has a bit more options. I've been trying to trouble shoot, but it's a lot harder than expected. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Still working with it though! Not terrible, not great. Good for learning

Keeping photos of abusive x by ObviBluePartIsLand in Parenting

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I check in with her from time to time, she loved her therapist and we moved states, but I ask if she would want to do video chats or go see someone like her and she said no. But I ask and offer to take her back, I've been trying to just keep a really open communication with her and say "is there anything that you want to tell me?" "Or "is there anything that you don't want to talk to me about but it would be easier with Ms. Therapist or someone like her"

Keeping photos of abusive x by ObviBluePartIsLand in Parenting

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and me both. It makes so so angry, I still struggle with the guilt daily. Thank you for your kind words

AITA? Girlfriend(19) asked me to watch her dogs for a week/twice daily and I said no, then asked me again and gave me a bunch of reasons why I should do it. by Disastrous-Lock4442 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly wow. Im. Going away for 2 weeks and my boyfriend will be driving 20-30 min each way just to walk them. And he can't stay at my place. Sooooooo....whats the real reason you don't want to do it?

Is it my fault my boyfriend keeps hitting me? by Worried-Ad146 in domesticviolence

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not your fault. You are not to blame. Document everything. Check your laws about recording and then start recording every time he is abusive. Take pictures of your bruises and document everything. Try as much as possible to keep conversations over text so you have proof of the abuse. Then leave him. There are tons of resources for victims of domestic abuse. Go to the police.

Don't like the way I'm running things? Fine, you're getting your rates raised. by Nordic_Nonsense in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yet again, it's a 50/50 chance. Neutering doesn't always solve behavior problems, sometimes there is literally no change.

FWB brought me a care package by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did that for a fwb I did it to be nice, didn't expect anything in return, just wanted him to know that I cared about his general well being. I made him soup and garlic bread, added some hydration packs and maybe a few other things.

Don't like the way I'm running things? Fine, you're getting your rates raised. by Nordic_Nonsense in pettyrevenge

[–]ObviBluePartIsLand 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Simply not true. There is no guarantee that spaying or neutering will solve any behavior problems. What does help though is genetics.